Summary: Patience is a virute.
Lifting The Weight of Wait
Luke 8:43-48 NIV
And a woman was there who had been subject to bleeding for twelve years, but no one could heal her.  She came up behind him and touched the edge of his cloak, and immediately her bleeding stopped.
 "Who touched me?" Jesus asked.
When they all denied it, Peter said, "Master, the people are crowding and pressing against you."
 But Jesus said, "Someone touched me; I know that power has gone out from me."
 Then the woman, seeing that she could not go unnoticed, came trembling and fell at his feet. In the presence of all the people, she told why she had touched him and how she had been instantly healed.  Then he said to her, "Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace."
Because of erosion, the historic Cape Hatteras Lighthouse was in peril of washing into the Atlantic Ocean. So Congress appropriated $12 million for the National Park service to move it 2900 feet to safety.
With a combination of care, expertise, patience and raw power, The Expert House Movers of Sharptown, Maryland moved the 208 foot tall, 9.7 million pound structure to its current home. The option of moving the lighthouse was first proposed in April of 1982, but the light wasn't lit at its new location until November 13, 1999. 17 years of study and 23 days of moving later. (From Fresh Illustrations) Why did it take so long?
Small things can be moved quickly, but big things take time. Most people tend to overestimate what they can do in a week and underestimate what they can do in a lifetime.
You know what I mean don't you? Have you ever made a New Year's resolution? This year, our family decided to make better choices in the foods we eat. So we've cut out sweets, reduced the breads, potatoes and pastas and increased the number of salads we eat. We've found the changes helpful and are enjoying the difference healthy eating makes. But four months later, I'm still fat. Why? Well, it took me more than four months to put on the weight and it will take more than four months to take it off. If I was just 20 pounds overweight, I'd be done by now. But I wasn't and I'm not. I guess the key is patience and persistence. If I stay at it, in 8 or 9 years I should be back down to my birth weight.
The woman in our text suffered with a physical problem for 12 years. The King James Version of verse 43 says: "And a woman having an issue of blood twelve years, which had spent all her living upon physicians, neither could be healed of any," She'd done everything that was humanly possible. She'd seen many doctors and many doctors had seen her. Luke, the writer of this gospel, a doctor himself, said she'd spent everything she had on physicians, and none of them were able to help her.
What could she possibly do now? What do you do when there's nothing else to do? Where do you turn when there's nobody left to turn to? Who do you hire for help when you're flat broke?
Conventional wisdom would say, "Don't despair, stay with it. Be patient. Be persistent, don't give up." But isn't there a point when it is time to give up and stop trying?