Summary: We are to love God and love others

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Part Two—Love

John 13:34-35

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Pastor Brian Matherlee


The teacher in an adult-education creative-writing class told her students to write "I love you" in 25 words or less, without using the words "I love you." She gave 15 minutes. A woman in the class spent about ten minutes looking at the ceiling and wriggling in her seat. The last five minutes she wrote frantically, and later read the results:

"Why, I’ve seen lots worse hairdos than that, honey."

"These cookies are hardly burned at all."

"Cuddle up-I’ll get your feet warm."

(Charlotte Mortimer, in February 1990 Reader’s Digest.)

How do you let people know you love them?

John 13:34-35

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

• Jesus says, “As I have loved you”. How has Jesus loved us? What is the hallmark of Christ’s love, of God’s love?

Romans 5:8

“But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were sinners, Christ died for us.”

• Love and forgiveness are bound together in expressing God’s character. When we forgive we represent the heart of God. When we don’t forgive we fail to represent the heart of God.

I Corinthians 13:5

Love… “keeps no record of wrongs”.

1 Peter 4:8

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins.”

• "Above all" reminds us of the primacy of agape, "love" among fellow Christians. This love is to be "eager" or "earnest". Such love can be commanded because it is not primarily an emotion but a decision of the will leading to action. The reason for us to show love is that "love covers over a multitude of sins." This quotation from Pr 10:12 does not mean that our love covers or atones for our sins. In the proverb the meaning is that love does not "stir up" or broadcast sins. So the major idea is that love suffers in silence and bears all things (1Co 13:5-7). Christians forgive faults in others because they know the forgiving grace of God in their own lives. (Zondervan NIV Bible Study Commentary)

Jesus tells us a parable that reflects truths of the kingdom of heaven.

Matthew 18:21-35

What are these truths?

1. The kingdom is unreachable without forgiveness (v.24-25)

a. The man’s debt was impossible to repay in his position (it was millions of dollars)

2. Forgiveness is extended because of God’s mercy and compassion & not because of our merit (v.27)

3. Unforgiving people will be in torment (v.35)

Action steps of true forgiveness?

1. Go to the person.

a. And ask forgiveness

b. Matthew 5:23-24“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to your brother; then come and offer your gift.”

i. I believe this verse indicates the involvement of God in directing us to make things right. Sometimes we can have false guilt but God will be persistent in directing us to make relationships right.

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