Summary: With the morning of 1st January comes not only a new year but for many of us a hope of a new ME. The trouble is, more years than not, we quickly realise it might be a new year but it’s the same old me.
What a difference we hope one evening will make. The sun sets on 31st December and when it has risen the next morning a new year has begun. All that was of the year past has gone and the New Year is here. New possibilities, new hopes, new ideas and dreams. Making New Year’s resolutions takes the New Year seriously as a new start. In making New Year’s resolutions, many people try to make possible their dreams, ideas and hopes. With the morning of 1st January comes not only a new year but for many of us a hope of a new ME. The trouble is, more years than not, we quickly realise it might be a new year but it’s the same old me.
There’s really good things about all the hope that is around at the New Year but there’s also stuff that is not so good. New Year is an opportunity to do some thinking, a kind of inventory on our lives.
I have to confess that I have a bit of New Year’s Resolution-phobia. My worst year was when I made ten. They ranged from exercising every day to eating less. By the end of January I’d broken most of them, by the end of February I’d forgotten what they were! In those first few days of January we realise what unrealistic human beings we are, as well as how undisciplined we can
be at keeping our resolve. The trouble then is that you have to cope with feelings of failure and guilt before the year’s even got off the starting blocks so before you’ve remembered to write the right year at the top of all your cheques you’ve forgotten your New Year’s resolutions. New Year’s resolutions can quickly lead us into New Year desolation.
The month of January gets its name from the Roman god Janus. He is depicted as a two-faced man. One face looks towards the past and the other towards the future. As we think about New Year’s resolutions we can look in three different directions: facing yesterday, facing today and facing tomorrow.
The Israelites were no strangers to looking back. They were constantly challenged to remember their heritage and God’s dealings with them. Moses once encouraged them with these words:
“Be careful and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your hearts as long as you live” (Deut 4 v 9).
It’s important to face yesterday and the year that it closed. If we don’t our resolutions won’t last. How many times have we made completely unrealistic resolutions because we didn’t take seriously whether last year had left us? We need to face it honestly, not with our rose-coloured specs or with seeing shadows everywhere so it might be painful - the last year might have been one you don’t particularly want to remember. On the other hand it might have been so good you’re now worried that it can’t continue. Whatever the last year has held, spend a bit of time remembering. It might help to do this with a friend, perhaps looking through your calendar or diary or with photos.
You see, as much as we might want this year to be a completely new start, it doesn’t start in a vacuum, it follows what’s been. And what’s been has brought us to where we are. Lots of people’s resolutions are flawed from the beginning because they don’t look backwards first. Think about the past year. What can we be thankful for, what is there to be pleased about, what was hard, what did we learn, what habits do we want to get out of, what habits are good ones to keep doing? One wise saint said in the Bible, “If we don’t learn lessons from what we’ve seen and heard, then it’s like looking in a mirror and then forgetting what you saw”. The past is important - we can learn a lot. In fact, if we don’t we’ll probably just find things repeating themselves. But after saying all that, the past isn’t where we’re to live now. We reflect and review the past in order to resolve to continue on.