Summary: Sermon 4 of 6 in the 2003 Calvary Family Series. We hear government or school officials say, "It all begins at home." We hear pastors say, "It all begins at home." But where do parents begin at home? Let’s look in the Bible for timeless advice.
Calvary Baptist Church
June 1, 2003
We hear government or school officials say, "It all begins at home." We hear pastors say, "It all begins at home." But where do parents begin at home? We need men and women, but God only gives us boys and girls.Let’s look in the Bible for timeless advice.
Keywords: Parents, Child Rearing, Family, Training,
This is message number four of six on the family, beginning with mothers day and ending on Father’s day.
HUMOR: John Ortberg asks, Who has greater contentment, a man with seven children or a man with seven million dollars? Answer: The man with seven children, because he doesn’t want any more.
TEXT: Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.
* The teacher is the parent. The ultimate responsibility is to the father (Fathers . . . nurture).
* The student is your child.
* The school is every opportunity throughout all of life!
* In 1950, 80% of children grew up with both parents. Today, less than 50% do so.
* In 1950, fewer than 20% of children needed child care services. Today, it is 60%.
* In 1950, the divorce rate was 20%. Today it is over 50%.
ILLUS: At OCC, I saw parents who dropped off children at 6:30, breakfast in hand, and picked them up at 6:00, supper in a bag. Sadly, there would often be department store packages in the back seat. The world may not want me to meddle in its affairs, and you may not either. But someone has to speak up for our children! I wonder if there are any who are ready to return to God’s way.
BODY OF THE MESSAGE:
If we are to train our children we must . . .
It takes time to be a parent.
ILLUS: Parents are told to train up a child. (Prov. 22:6)
Parents are told to teach their children. (Deut. 6)
Parents are told to nurture, admonish, bring them up. (Eph. 6:4)
These things cannot be done by proxy.
Very little real education takes place when the substitute teacher is in place!
You may not be much, but there is no substitute for YOU!
And there are some things that you need to take time for.
2) Homework Help
3) Fun Time
4) Down Time
5) Listening Time
6) Vacation Time
I have a book called The Last Sayings of Saints and Sinners. I’ve never heard of a man on his deathbed wishing he had put in more overtime!
QUOTE: “You make your own schedule.”
ILLUS: The first microwave ovens. Example, 1955 restaurant model in the Henry Ford Museum in Detroit, Michigan. We all have microwaves today. Yet we have scheduled ourselves in such a way that we drum our fingers impatiently waiting on the fastest cooking device the world has ever known.
HUMOR: Condensed version of"My Mama Taught Me."
1 Samuel 3:12 13 In that day I will perform against Eli all things which I have spoken concerning his house: when I begin, I will also make an end.  For I have told him that I will judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he restrained them not.
1 Kings 1:5 6 Then Adonijah the son of Haggith exalted himself, saying, I will be king: and he prepared him chariots and horsemen, and fifty men to run before him.  And his father had not displeased him at any time in saying, Why hast thou done so? and he also was a very goodly man; and his mother bare him after Absalom. [I.e., with the death of his half brothers, he was in line for the throne].