Summary: There are responsibilities that go along with church membership....serving as Christ served is one of them.
10The children of God and the children of the devil are revealed in this way: all who do not do what is right are not from God, nor are those who do not love their brothers and sisters. 11For this is the message you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. 12We must not be like Cain who was from the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own deeds were evil and his brother’s righteous. 13Do not be astonished, brothers and sisters, that the world hates you. 14We know that we have passed from death to life because we love one another. Whoever does not love abides in death. 15All who hate a brother or sister are murderers, and you know that murderers do not have eternal life abiding in them. 16We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us—and we ought to lay down our lives for one another. 17How does God’s love abide in anyone who has the world’s goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help? 18Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action. 19And by this we will know that we are from the truth and will reassure our hearts before him 20whenever our hearts condemn us; for God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. 21Beloved, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have boldness before God; 22and we receive from him whatever we ask, because we obey his commandments and do what pleases him. 23And this is his commandment, that we should believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us. 24All who obey his commandments abide in him, and he abides in them. And by this we know that he abides in us, by the Spirit that he has given us.
The Baptismal Covenant of the United Methodist Church outlines clearly what is expected of a church member. We have been investigating those covenant vows. Two weeks ago we saw that “choosing sides” means we reject sin and receive Christ. Last week’s installment was “choosing faithfulness” and we discovered that means we separate ourselves from that which separates us from Jesus.
The next three messages are really a “series within the series”. The messages are all based upon the question asked when one is received into the local congregation:
As a member of this congregation, will you faithfully participate in its ministries by your prayers, your presence, your gifts and your service? 
Prayers, presence, gifts and service are so entwined and interdependent upon each other that, as we deal with “service” today and the others in the coming weeks, we will be unable to really separate them. So it will be three weeks in a bee hive, circling around four topics that are part of one larger reality, being a disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ. Let’s dig-in!
What I would like you to notice is the difference that occurs now between the previous messages and the next three. The first two messages were about separation. In choosing sides we receive Christ and reject sin – In choosing faithfulness we choose separation from that which separates us from Jesus. These two are both about our personal battles against sin and for relationship with Jesus. Now the shift is away from self and personal salvation; the lens focuses-in on others when it comes to prayers, presence, gifts and service.