Summary: This sermon deals with the results of King David's failure to discipline his children.
Permissiveness Can Lead To Much Sorrow
17 Then he called his servant who attended him, and said, "Here! Put this woman out, away from me, and bolt the door behind her."
18Now she had on a robe of many colors, for the king's virgin daughters wore such apparel. And his servant put her out and bolted the door behind her.
19Then Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her robe of many colors that was on her, and laid her hand on her head and went away crying bitterly. 20And Absalom her brother said to her, "Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now hold your peace, my sister. He is your brother; do not take this thing to heart." So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.
21But when King David heard of all these things, he was very angry.
22And Absalom spoke to his brother Amnon neither good nor bad. For Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
23And it came to pass, after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal Hazor, which is near Ephraim; so Absalom invited all the king's sons.
24Then Absalom came to the king and said, "Kindly note, your servant has sheepshearers; please, let the king and his servants go with your servant." 25But the king said to Absalom, "No, my son, let us not all go now, lest we be a burden to you." Then he urged him, but he would not go; and he blessed him.
26Then Absalom said, "If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us." And the king said to him, "Why should he go with you?"
27But Absalom urged him; so he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him.
28Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, "Watch now, when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say to you, 'Strike Amnon!' then kill him. Do not be afraid. Have I not commanded you? Be courageous and valiant."
29So the servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king's sons arose, and each one got on his mule and fled.
30And it came to pass, while they were on the way, that news came to David, saying, "Absalom has killed all the king's sons, and not one of them is left!"
31So the king arose and tore his garments and lay on the ground, and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.
32Then Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother, answered and said, "Let not my lord suppose they have killed all the young men, the king's sons, for only Amnon is dead. For by the command of Absalom this has been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.
33Now therefore, let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king's sons are dead. For only Amnon is dead."
34Then Absalom fled. And the young man who was keeping watch lifted his eyes and looked, and there, many people were coming from the road on the hillside behind him.
35And Jonadab said to the king, "Look, the king's sons are coming; as your servant said, so it is."
36So it was, as soon as he had finished speaking, that the king's sons indeed came, and they lifted up their voice and wept. Also the king and all his servants wept very bitterly.
37But Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day.
38So Absalom fled and went to Geshur, and was there three years.
39And King David longed to go to Absalom. For he had been comforted concerning Amnon, because he was dead.
As we are continue looking into the life of David today,
there is a principle that we have to understand.
The consequences of sin live long after the act.
God can instantaneously forgive
and he did restore a relationship with David.
God gives him another son to replace the one who died.
All of this is wonderful, but the consequences still live on.
David is going to go through some horrible, terrible experiences.
In our story today, there are 4 characters.
They are Amnon, Tamar, Absalom and Jonadab.
Jonadab is the nephew of King David,
the son of David's brother Shimeah.
Amnon is the first-born son of David.
He was born to Ahinoam of Jezreel.
He is the oldest son, the heir-apparent to the throne of David.
Absalom and Tamar were born to Maacah,
the daughter of Talmai, the king of Geshur.
Tamar was a virgin looking forward to a happy marriage some day.
Absalom is good looking
and Tamar is described as "the beautiful sister of Absalom."