Summary: We are not special because we are particularly talented, particularly well-behaved, or born into prestigious families. We are special because we know God.

We Are Special

(2 Thessalonians 2:13-17)

Confidence in God…but confidence in others?

To some degree, yes.

When we believe in others and have confidence in them, they are more prone to:

(1) excel

(2) be encouraged

(3) develop and grow

(4) venture forth

This is especially easy to do when people have proven themselves stable and dependable. It is not that they will never fail in any way, but rather that they are unlikely to fail in important ways.

And, when people have a track record of dependability and fail in some way, we need to help them and then reaffirm our feelings of confidence in them; we all have times where we mess up in some way.

The Thessalonians were solid believers, but they were a little gullible in believing unsubstantiated rumors; Paul corrected them, but wanted to make it clear that he did not think less of them because of their failure in this one area.

And Paul shows this confidence by reminding them that they are truly special, God’s chosen who bore God’s seal of approval and empowered to represent God’s Kingdom to a fallen world.

Cinderella stories fill our repertoire of fables and tales.

Main idea: We are not special because we are particularly talented, particularly well-behaved, or born into prestigious families. We are special because we know God.

I. We Are Part of A Spiritual FAMILY (13a)

A. BROTHERS

1. In Greek, like many languages, the plural masculine is used to cover both genders. This is why we have a choice in translating, "Fathers, do not exasperate your children" or "Parents, do not exasperate your children" in Ephesians 6:4

2. Here, it probably means "brothers and sisters"

3. Church family can be a reality because of this dynamic

4. But not always; I was talking to a pastor whose church is in a small town; we chatted about extended Christian families and re-locaters or folks from unbelieving families…

B. LOVED by the Lord

1. The term, "loved" is in the perfect tense, meaning, "having been loved with the result that you are now loved"

2. If this was true of every human being, it would not be very encouraging to state it to the Thessalonians; we are talking here about a special love tied into the doctrine of election, as follows.

3. Interestingly, I have read a bit about the differences between widows and widowers

• Widows generally do much better than widowers in many ways; not always, but usually

• It seems that if a woman felt that her deceased husband really loved her, her self-esteem remains lifted even when he is gone

• But if a man loses his wife, even if he has no doubt of his love for her, he is more likely to die or be unmotivated to participate in life; not always, but more often.

• Christ provides for both needs in the spiritual realm: He loved us and gave Himself for us and He is present with us until the end!

II. We Are CHOSEN (13b-14)

The word "chosen" means "selected" and implies that others are not chose or selected (or the word becomes meaningless). God is the one Who does the choosing.

Yet God uses us in the process. That’s why on our prayer card with the egg timer, we pray for a lost person every day. Some of us forget that God has work for us to do; He wants us to seek the lost and share the Gospel with them. The doctrine of election should encourage us in the process -- we are not doing this alone. God is working.

A. To Be SAVED

Many times in scripture, the term "saved" refers to physical deliverance, as in the Psalms. David often asked to be saved from his enemies. It is bad interpretation to understand the word "saved" in the Psalms to refer to the salvation of the soul, as is the case in the text before us.

There are many ways to translate this word because English has such a rich vocabulary. We could translate it: rescued, released, delivered, protected, guarded, safeguarded, preserved, salvaged, reclaimed, or unthreatened.

Being saved means all these things: we are delivered from God’s wrath and rescued from eternal separation from God. Instead, we are on friendly terms with God and are on His team.

B. To Be SANCTIFIED

The Holy Spirit is the agency of salvation, and His work is called "sanctification," or setting us apart for God. At conversion, we are legally set apart for God, but they He works to set us apart in daily life…it is progressive and durative…

One great truth that does me good is the fact that God works in the hearts and lives of His children

• when I preach to you, I assume you want to grow; I am not out to persuade you against your will; besides, if the HS is not working within you, you can’t grown spiritually anyway!

• but most of us are -- myself included-- are disappointed with our lack of growth and the pace of our growth…but I have to believe that God is working even when we seemingly plateau

• we do worst, I believe, when we do not care; the fact we care about maturing in Christ is a sure sign that God is working in us…

C. To BELIEVE

• Paul was on the road to Damascus in unbelief; but God had chosen Paul and zapped Paul on the road: he was chosen to believe…

• Our individual cases are less dramatic, but just as miraculous

• Despite our doubts or hesitations, we are drawn to Jesus Christ…

D. CALLED (14)

• The Gospel call extends to all, but we heard the call while others did not

• Hannah’s squirrels have a high-pitched squeal they make -- Marylu cannot hear it and can hear it some -- but Hannah hears it clearly…

III. We Are ENTRUSTED (15-17)

A. And must stand FIRM

1. Although the great apostasy will take place before the antichrist is revealed, turning away from the faith of the Bible is a common every day experience

2. People don’t usually say, "I’m trashing the Bible." They "revisit" it, usually meaning they use their imagination to come up with ways to worm out of its obvious teaching

B. Must EMBRACE Relaible Doctrine (teaching)

1. Reliable teaching meant apostolic teaching, originally spoken and then preserved in the Scripture

2. The Scriptures are the only source of reliable apostolic teaching; they were written in the first century by the apostles or their close associates…

3. If there is one discipline for believers to cultivate above all others, it is the reading and study of Scripture, for in it we find the blueprint for everything else that really matters in the spiritual realm…

C. Need RECHARGING (16-17)

Most of us find life overwhelming. I do. Sometimes I feel like a cell phone with a dead battery -- God is trying to talk to me, but I don’t have the energy to listen. Do you ever feel that way?

Paul’s two holy wishes:

1. Encouragement -- Giving up is the worst mistake we can make…

2. Strength -- Serving the Lord is tiring -- don’t feel guilty about it; it is good to be tired through loving God and loving people; serving means expending emotional and spiritual -- and often physical -- energy

Do you know how you feel the day after a funeral of someone close to you? You haven’t really done anything, but you are drained.

But please note the source of this strength: our Lord Jesus Christ and God the Father…

The secret to the Christian life, the secret to living a godly life is that it is connected to God. We aren’t to obey moral principles just to obey them or to win God’s favor. The only reason morality matters is because we are in a relationship with God through His Son. It is about God, not us. Because we are aligning ourselves with the true God, He helps us fulfill the expectations He has for us. He gives us the desire and the power to live them.

God puts us in a spiritual family. God has chosen us. God has commissioned and entrusted us, and He provides us with the strength and energy to fulfill that trust. It is about Him, not us!