Summary: Is your Christianity getting old and stale?

When the Tank Says "E"

(2 Thessalonians 3:13-18)

1. How fresh is our Christianity? Howard Hendricks said, "In the midst of a generation screaming for answers, Christians are stuttering."

2. Has your faith become stale? Webster defines stale as, "tasteless or unpalatable from age , tedious from familiarity, impaired in vigor or effectiveness.

3. I have talked to many a believer and asked them, "so what are you doing for God these days?"

4. And sometimes I hear, "well, I used to work with Children’s Church and the youth a few years ago; right now, I attend church on occasion, tithe and try to live right."

5. "Are you spending time with God and His Word?" "Maybe once in a while."

6. "How are you serving others?" Well, my family keeps me busy. And besides, I served in the past. Let other people serve now.

7. Like every other believer, I struggle with my faith becoming stale. Sometimes I feel like a car sputtering along on its last few drops of gasoline. I get to where I feel as though my tank is empty.

8. As much as faithfulness and an ability to serve consistently and reliably is crucial to the Kingdom of God, every one of us needs time to recharge. We need to spend some informal time with God, and then we need to get busy serving God’s people.

Main Idea: Is your Christianity getting old and stale?

I. Signs of An EMPTY Spiritual Tank (13-15)

A. First Sign: We Become TIRED of Serving (13)

1. εγκακεω means to be behave badly, act cowardly, lose courage, faint

2. It is related to the Greek word, κακos, which means "bad," so there is a moral issue involved here -- it is bad to get tired of doing good, because then it becomes all about you!

3. Selfishness and selfless are, in a sense, a habit. This is why we have so many Christians who used to serve, who used to make a difference, but now feel free to pull back & watch.

4. In Luke 18:1, it is used as follows: "Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up."

5. Galatians 6:9, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."

6. I Corinthians 15:58, "Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain."

B. Second Sign: We Become Tired of COMPLETE Obedience (14-15)

1. Few tests like CHURCH DISCIPLINE

Wall Street Journal

Banned From Church

Reviving an ancient practice, churches are exposing sinners and shunning those who won’t repent.

By ALEXANDRA ALTER

January 18, 2008; Page W1

On a quiet Sunday morning in June, as worshippers settled into the pews at Allen Baptist Church in southwestern Michigan, Pastor Jason Burrick grabbed his cellphone and dialed 911. When a dispatcher answered, the preacher said a former congregant was in the sanctuary. "And we need to, um, have her out A.S.A.P."

Half an hour later, 71-year-old Karolyn Caskey, a church member for nearly 50 years who had taught Sunday school and regularly donated 10% of her pension, was led out by a state trooper and a county sheriff’s officer. One held her purse and Bible. The other put her in handcuffs.

The charge was trespassing, but Mrs. Caskey’s real offense, in her pastor’s view, was spiritual. Several months earlier, when she had questioned his authority, he’d charged her with spreading "a spirit of cancer and discord" and expelled her from the congregation. "I’ve been shunned," she says.

Her story reflects a growing movement among some conservative Protestant pastors to bring back church discipline, an ancient practice in which suspected sinners are privately confronted and then publicly castigated and excommunicated if they refuse to repent. While many Christians find such practices outdated, pastors in large and small churches across the country are expelling members for offenses ranging from adultery and theft to gossiping, skipping service and criticizing church leaders.

2. The world says judging others is WRONG

3. Stressed out, burnt out believers are less likely to OBEY

4. Believers under church discipline must be TAGGED

• The reason for marking him out is so that he will feel ashamed and repent…other purposes for church discipline include the reputation of the church and to help prevent similar occurrences in the future…

• This is a positive use of peer pressure -- pressure to do right

• Problem: modern church relationships are so disposable that there is little peer pressure…people often do not bond closely with the other folks in the church

5. It cannot be BUSINESS as usual without repentance

We see here that church discipline is not a "one size fits all" situation…

Robert Thomas observes, "He was not to be expelled from the church like the sinning brother referred to in 1 Corinthians 5. In Corinth the offense was so flagrant as to bring disrepute on the whole church. In Thessalonica, however, the lapse was not yet so aggravated as to bring the reproach of the pagans on the church. Here the erring brother was allowed to continue in the meetings, but probably was denied participation in such things as the love feast and the Lord’s Supper. Certainly he was not to be given food, because this would make the community appear to condone his offense. μεσυναμιγνυσθαι Mesynamignysthai ("do not associate") implies "let there be no intimate association [with him]" (Frame, p. 309).

To sum up, the …idler was not to be treated as an enemy cut off from all contacts, but was allowed to continue in a brotherly status. So lines of communication were kept open for continued warnings about his behavior.

Is your Christianity getting old and stale? Is your tank almost on empty?

II. God is the Source of Spiritual RENEWAL (16-18)

A. God’s PEACE (16a)

1. A lot of times, we become tired of serving God because we feel beaten down by stress.

2. Controlling and limiting our stress by reasonable decisions and habits and moderation makes us more prone to serve God.

3. Seminary students and helpless man…

4. Since it is stressful to serve God with our whole hearts, since it is stressful to labor for the Lord in the same tasks year after year, God’s peace lessens the stress and replaces that tedious feeling with His peace and joy, usually once we begin serving.

5. There are many Wednesday nights I don’t feel like serving at AWANA. Full stomach, rushed meal, winter sleepies…but when I am there, I love it; afterwards, I feel like I have made a small difference, but a difference…

B. God’s PRESENCE (16b)

1. In a way, it sounds goofy when someone prays, "God, be with so and so." God is everywhere, so why do we ask God to be with him? Yet, in verse 16, Paul says, "The Lord be with all of you."

2. So it can’t be goofy. But what does Paul mean, and what do we mean when we pray, "be with so and so?"

3. We mean, "May your blessing and help be with so and so…"

4. So when we talk about experiencing God’s presence, we are not saying that God has walked down Jacob’s ladder to be in attendance with us. What is happening is that we are focusing upon the reality of God’s presence. We need to remind ourselves that God is here.

C. God’s WORD (17)

1. Paul was privileged to be used of God to write Scripture.

2. Paul made an effort and wrote a letter that was co-authored by God for us because we need the Word of God.

3. There are many things that develop us spiritually, but none is as crucial as the Word. If there is one area in which you do not want to be weak as a Christian, it should be the Word of God. It is central.

D. God’s GRACE (18)

1. We need God’s grace because the Christian life is not merely a matter of effort, discipline, or structure.

2. It is primarily first and foremost about our relationship with God, and we relate on the basis of grace, not performance. God initiates and we respond; God provides and we benefit. It is all about God.

Is your Christianity getting old and stale? Is your tank almost on empty?