Summary: God is a God of love, it is unconditional, our response should be to recieve it and abide in it

The God you Can Know

John 3: 16

If there is one truth that all humanity needs to grasp, it is that the God of the universe loves us.

He loves us unconditionally, without exception, and loves us each in individual distinction

When this truth is fully grasped and gratefully responded to, lives are transformed.

There is nothing that you have done or could ever do that will change that.

The whole bible is about that one fact

The love of God to men is the pinnacle of biblical revelation

But this is the one doctrine that is the most difficult to grasp

But the problem comes when we confuse the love of God with his other attributes, that are nonnegotiable His holiness, righteousness, His justice, His wrath

That presents a difficulty

When humanity talks about love and loving we talk in terms of prevention, cure, healing.

We don’t let the people we love hurt, feel pain, do without

And so we try to fit the love of God into our finite definition of love

And so the love of God in our culture has been purged of anything the culture finds uncomfortable. The love of God has been sanitized, democratized, and above all sentimentalized.

Marsha Witten writes in her book All is Forgiven;

The transcendent, majestic, awesome God of Luther and Calvin—whose image informed early Protestant visions of the relationship between human beings and the divine has undergone a softening of demeanor through the American experience of Protestantism, with only minor exceptions.…Many of the sermons depict a God whose behavior is regular, patterned, and predictable; he is portrayed in terms of the consistency of his behavior, of the conformity of his actions to the single rule of “love.”

There is a powerful tendency “to present God through characterizations of his inner states, with an emphasis on his emotions, which closely resemble those of human beings.…God is more likely to ‘feel’ than to ‘act,’ to ‘think’ than to ‘say.’ ”

In other words God is moved by emotions and not by divine principles

We would rather see God as a friend that King

We prefer a non-theistic view of God

He is friend but He must also be King

Jesus says over and over that He came to reveal the Father

The Fathers character to include the Fathers Love

the Son by his obedience to his Father, doing only what God gives him to do and saying only what God gives him to say, yet doing such things in function of his ability to do whatever the Father does, acts in such a way as to reveal God perfectly.

In other words, if the Son acted in line with the Father sometimes and did his own thing on other occasions, we would not be able to tell which of Jesus’ actions and words disclose God.

But it is precisely his unqualified obedience to and his dependence upon his Father that ensure that his revelation to us is perfect.

Far from threatening the Son’s perfections or jeopardizing his revelation of God to us, his functional subordination ensures his perfections and establishes his revelation.

This marvelous self-disclosure of the Father in the Son turns, ultimately, not on God’s love for us, but on the Father’s love for his unique Son. It is because the Father loves the Son that this pattern of divine self-disclosure pertains

For God so loved the world that He gave His Son

The revelation of the Fathers love is in the Son giving His life

Nothing changes the revelation of that fact, whether I truly understand it or not

One day a single friend asked a father of four, “Why do you love your kids?” The father thought for a minute, but the only answer he could come up with was “Because they’re mine.”

The children had no need to do anything to prove themselves to this father. He took them just as they were. So it is with God’s love for us. He loves us as we are, and it is his love that motivates us to trust and obey him in return.

Because of His omnipotence (power) it remains true

Because of His immutability (He does not change) it remains true

My behavior does not change the facts

I can ignore it

I can refuse to accept it

It remains true

But if I am to be saved I must accept it

Alexander Mclaren says God’s love rejected returns to me as His wrath

If I accept it there are consequences

If I reject it there are consequences

So I must accept and receive the love of God

We must appropriate the love of God

Joh 15:9 As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.

Joh 15:10 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.

Joh 15:11 These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

Joh 15:12 "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.

Joh 15:13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.

We move from an intra-Trinitarian love

That is the father loving the Son and the Son loving the father

To something that is universal and inclusive of all humanity

Abide in Love

So He says abide to appropriate this love we must abide in it

We abide through intentional acts of obedience

Love one Another

The love received and experienced must be shared

We are to love each other, how as he loves

Sacrificially

1Jn 4:7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.

1Jn 4:8 Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.

1Jn 4:9 In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him.

1Jn 4:10 In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.

1Jn 4:11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.

1Jn 4:12 No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us.

1Jn 4:13 By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit.

1Jn 4:19 We love because he first loved us.

We are loved to love

One Sunday a little boy looked up at his dad and asked, “Daddy, how does God love us?” His father answered, “Son, God loves us with an unconditional love.”

The lad thought for a moment and then asked, “Daddy, what kind of love is unconditional love?” After a few minutes of silence his father answered, “Do you remember the two boys who used to live next door to us and the cute little puppy they got last Christmas?” “Yes.” “Do you remember how they used to tease it, throw sticks and even rocks at it?” “Yes.” “Do you also remember how the puppy would always greet them with a wagging tail and would try to lick their faces?” “Yes.” “Well, that puppy had an unconditional love for those two boys. They certainly didn’t deserve his love for them because they were mean to him. But, he loved them anyway.”

The father then made his point: “God’s love for us is also unconditional. Men threw rocks at his Son, Jesus, and hit him with sticks. They even killed him. But, Jesus loved them anyway.”

100 Witten, Marsha Grace.

245 All is forgiven : the secular message in American Protestantism / Marsha G. Witten.

260 Princeton, N.J. : Princeton University Press, 1993.