Summary: God has designed His believers to be distinctive without being stuck up. The lesson learned from this Scripture is how to be in the world but not of the world.

What is This Thing Called Separation?

Griffith Baptist Church – 12/21/08

P.M. Service

Text: Nehemiah 13:1-6

Key verse: Nehemiah 13:3 - Now it came to pass, when they had heard the law, that they separated from Israel all the mixed multitude.

Premise: God has designed His believers to be distinctive without being stuck up. The lesson learned from this Scripture is how to be in the world but not of the world.

The Introduction

Vance Haver said “We are not to be isolated but insulated, moving in the midst of evil but untouched by it. Separation is contact without contamination. Jesus was “holy, harmless, undefiled, separate from sinners” (Heb. 7:26), yet He was “a friend of tax collectors and sinners” (Luke 7:34).”

Not to many preachers or people want to touch the subject of separation.

Most of it comes from a misunderstanding of what separation actually is.

Sometimes we can take separation too far and remove ourselves, and consequently our influence from the world.

o These kind of people won’t even associate with other Christians who believe the same doctrines of the Word and preach the same Christ

Most people go to the other extreme, not being separated at all

o They look like the world

o They act like the world

o Sometimes they will even use the worlds language and philosophy

Is there a proper perspective? Yes.

God has one, and Jesus demonstrated it.

Discuss the text

Let’s see what we can get from the Scripture concerning the proper view of separation so we find ourselves where God intended us to be:

Body

1. The People of Separation - 1

A. God’s chosen people

i. The redeemed

ii. 1 Peter 2:9 - But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should show forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light:

a. We are distinct – different from the world

b. We are designed – to show God and what He can do in one’s life

B. God’s children

i. We are a part of God’s family and a such are His children

ii. Galatians 3:26 – For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus.

iii. The responsibility of the children:

a. To obey

b. To learn

c. To grow

d. To honor

2. The Purpose of Separation - 2

A. It is the way of wisdom

i. Maybe you think about my preaching sometimes like this minister I heard about. He gave an unusual sermon one day, using a peanut to make several important points about the wisdom of God in nature. One of his members greeted him at the door and said, "Very interesting, Pastor. I never expected to learn so much from a nut."...

ii. Proverbs 9:6 – Forsake the foolish, and live; and go in the way of understanding.

B. Because we should have nothing in common with the world - 2 Corinthians 6:14-17 - 14Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,

C. Because we are holy – 1 Peter 1:14-16 – 14As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance: 15But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation; 16Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.

D. Because we represent God as Ambassadors - 2 Corinthians 5:16-21 - 16Wherefore henceforth know we no man after the flesh: yea, though we have known Christ after the flesh, yet now henceforth know we him no more. 17Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 18And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation; 19To wit, that God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation. 20Now then we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God did beseech you by us: we pray you in Christ’s stead, be ye reconciled to God. 21For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.

3. The Plateau of Separation - 3

A. It is true that we have to live in the world:

i. We have to work and interact with the world at large

ii. It is the world system that is being talked about here

iii. Separation goes beyond that:

a. Separate from false teaching and teachers

b. Separate in our morals and values

c. Separate in our doctrine

d. Separate in our daily living that is distinctive

iv. The day to day living in the world means that some things may be the same:

a. We work to make a living but we should not be materialistic

b. We watch our finances and try to save but we should not be greedy

c. We watch TV or listen to music but we should be careful about what we watch or hear

d. We wear clothes but we should be careful not to dress in a way that would dishonor God

v. The bottom line - 1 Thessalonians 5:22 - Abstain from all appearance of evil.

a. Be careful not to invent what is evil in your mind

b. Only what the Bible deems to be evil

c. If it is unclear in the Word of God, it may be open to the individual conscience.

d. Example: Read Romans 14:1-10

B. So how do we determine to what extent we should go in our separation:

i. Avoid anything that would endanger your relationship with God

ii. Avoid anything that would cause you to not walk in His Word - Psalms 1:1 – Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.

iii. Set standards for yourself that you will live by and live by them (WARNING: Do not let this turn into a platform for judging others. Not everyone will have the same view you do)

iv. Never allow separation to be an excuse for not being a positive influence for Christ.

Conclusion:

Can the world tell the difference in your life?

Can other Christians tell the difference in your life, that you are a child of God?

There ought to be very telling signs that set you apart.