Summary: The parable of the persistent neighbour and how this is a model for knocking on heaven's door. Ask, Seek and Knock.

Persistent Prayer

JCC 10.01.10 am (session 3 Prayer)

Luke 11: 5-13

This comes straight after ‘Lord teach us to pray’ and the ‘Lord’s Prayer’

Prayer was never intended to be an instrument for the accomplishing of man's will upon the earth, but the instrument for the accomplishing of God's will upon the earth

This is the only recorded parable in the gospels of this story

This is not a reflection of us going to God

Jesus wasn’t saying God was like this, but we are; meaning if we would act in this manner, how much more will our Father in heaven deal ‘more’ graciously with us

Food was not as readily available as it is today

There wasn’t a 24 hour Tesco or Asda

Only enough bread was baked each day for their needs

Also, hospitality was held in high regard and was seen almost as a duty

Visitors were welcomed and cared for, regardless of the hour they arrived

People often travelled in the evening to avoid the midday heat

A traveller arriving near midnight was not an uncommon event

Families slept in one room, most times with their animals too

Climbing over to get to the door, wake the children

This parable shows a dilemma and the solving of that dilemma

We come times in our lives when we are face with a dilemma

We don’t always know ‘how’ to solve them

Many times we too will go to a friend and share our dilemma hoping that maybe they could advise or help us through the situation

This poor unprepared host has a late guest who is hungry after a long and exhausting journey

It is his duty as host to provide a meal, but he has no bread

Not to provide for his guest’s needs would not only bring shame upon him and his family, but to the village as well

He gave the bread just to shut him up

We have convinced ourselves that we must keep beating on God‘s door until we overcome God’s unwillingness to act

But is that what v 8 is teaching us about prayer, of course not The meaning of the Greek word (anaideian) translated “importunity” (KJV, RSV) and as “persistence” (NKJV, NIV) is the key to understanding the lesson that Jesus is teaching here

Highlight this word in your Bible

It is the only time this word appears in the entire New Testament

The Greek word carries the idea of “shamelessness,” the question is which of the men in this story is shameless?

Some say the neighbour who got up and gave his friend bread, saying that he did so to avoid bringing shame to the village by breaking the rules of hospitality

Or, does it point to the man who came making the request?

It’s suggested he was shameless in his persistence, continuing his pleading until his friend responded

This type of prayer sorts out what is important to us

Ask a child what they want and they will give you a long list (Christmas)

But listen what is spoken of most and you will know what they really want

Illustration: Billy Graham’s wife Ruth said she was glad God didn’t answer what she asked for otherwise she would have married 5 men before Billy

It’s like God says, ‘come back tomorrow and we’ll talk about it again’

Come let us reason together, though your sins be scarlet, they shall be white as snow Isaiah 1:18

We don’t have to twist God’s arm

But what gives us the right to come boldly or shamelessly to God with our needs?

Illustration: Roman history tells the story of a Roman emperor in his chariot partaking in a parade; Cheering people lined the streets while the legionnaires were stationed to keep people at a safe distance. The emperor’s family sat on a platform to watch him go by in all the pride of his position. As the emperor came near to the place where his family was sitting, a young boy jumped from the platform, hedged his way through the crowd, and tried to evade a legionnaire so he could run to the emperor’s chariot. The soldier stopped him and said, “You cannot go near the emperor.” The boy laughed, and said; “He may be your emperor but he is my father.” Then he ran into his father’s open arms.” [Martin Wiles. “Jesus on Prayer.” (Sermon Central.)

Hebrew reminds us as believer’s that because our high priest Jesus Christ is seated at the right hand of the father in heaven, we can “ come boldly before the throne of grace” Heb 4:16

We have no need to fear because we are children of the king

We can pray boldly and passionately

"So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find, knock, and it will be opened to you.”

Each of the three actions, asking, seeking and knocking occurs in the present tense in the original Greek language

It’s literally; “Keep Asking, Keep Seeking and Keep Knocking.”

A S K acrostic poem

There is progression in this persistence

A beginning, a middle and an end

Mark these three levels of prayer in your Bible, Ask, Seek, Knock

Consider their meanings:

Asking means making a simple request

Seeking implies a stronger desire and a more definite kind of request

It is something that takes time, implying a greater sense of urgency

Knocking shows determination to get an answer.” [The Complete Biblical Library. The New Testament Study Bible – Luke. Vol. 4 (Springfield, Missouri: The Complete Biblical Library, 1988) p. 351]

Jesus is saying that there are some situations that require more than just asking for something

Seeking cannot then be a simple act, but a process, or a series of acts

Then, knocking is not a single tap, but a series of taps

Most of us have chipped away at someone so they give in to us

A request for access, repeated if necessary, and it suggest situations where we seek an entrance or an opportunity

In v 10 we are told, “For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.”

The answer to each of the actions is also in the present tense:

Ask=receive

Seek=find

Knock =opened

Think of it as a mathematical formula P = A; nothing can stop the calculation being incorrect (Pray = Answer)

All three principles are necessary

Our heavenly Father not only hears our prayers but promises to answer each and every prayer

In his time

To is honour and credit

By continued practice of asking, seeking and knocking we break the habit where prayer is just an option or an emergency use only

Don’t just come to God with your midnight emergencies

Always keep a line of communication open with the Father

The truth behind this persistence is that we will not continue to ask if we do not really feel a need or if we believe we can do it own our own

Illustration: A great example of persistence in prayer is seen in the life of George Muller. “George Muller, the founder of the great Christian orphanage work in England in the nineteenth century; he was a man of prayer. He knew the importance of praying even when the answer seemed to be delayed.

When he was young he began to pray that two of his friends might be converted. He prayed for them every day for more than sixty years. One of the men was converted shortly before his death at what was probably the last service that Mueller held. The other was converted within a year of his death.

We, too, need to pray and not give up. We need to be like George Mueller.” [James Montgomery Boice. “The Parables of Jesus.” (Chicago: Moody, 1983) p. 158]

But there is more being taught here than repetition of the same request over and over again

As we keep on asking we are to keep on seeking and a part of this seeking is seeking to discover what the will of God is in this matter

God cannot put things into our hands until he first prepares our hearts

Quote: Someone has said it this way, the greatest blessing of prayer is not just getting an answer but being the kind of person that God can trust with the answer

But we need to be expectant 11-13

“If a son asks for bread from any father among you, will he give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent instead of a fish? (12) Or if he asks for an egg, will he offer him a scorpion?

From the first illustration we learn that God does answer prayer

From the second analogy we learn that his answers are always good ones

God is a good God, a loving heavenly father

He can be expected not only to answer our prayers, but in answering them, it is for our highest good

The summing up of the whole matter is now given in v 13, “If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!"

Do you as a parent ever worry about the answers that you give to your child?

When I say yes and give them what they want, am I spoiling them?

Or when I say no, was my denial; was I selfish or short-sighted?

We do the best we can, but sometimes our best is just not good enough

But our heavenly father knows no such limits

God never says no because he is distracted, exhausted or irritable

The “… heavenly Father (will) give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!"

Some people have been lead to believe by their interpretation of this passage to feel that it is possible to be a Christian and not have the Holy Spirit

That this is a promise of a “second blessing,” which is to be prayed for and comes at a later time to saved believers

But that is not what the meaning of this passage is at all

I believe context reveals to us rather that it speaks to the fact that God’s love for his children is to develop the habit of asking for His help

Like I said last week, we just start with baby talk

Here, are a few children’s prayers:

Dear God, why are all the things you said in ‘red’

Dear God, do you really mean, ‘do unto others as they do unto you?’ If so, I’m going to fix my brother

Dear God, thank you for my baby brother, but I asked for a puppy

Dear God, please me a pony, I never asked for anything before

Dear God, maybe Cain wouldn’t have killed Able if they had their own rooms

Dear God, I bet you find it hard to love everybody in the world. I only have 4 in my family and I find it hard

Dear God, we read in school that Thomas Edison made light, so I bet he stole your idea

Dear God, I’m doing my best. Frank

And a classic in our house at meal times used to be, ‘Dear God, please make this food better’

Jesus was saying, ‘you know how to ask a friend, now ask like a child’

He does not leave us trapped by our own limited perception of the situation but makes the Holy Spirit available to present our needs to the Father

This may have been what Paul had in mind when he says in letter to the Rom 8:26 “And the Holy Spirit helps us in our distress. For we don’t always (even) know what we should pray for, nor how we should pray. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groaning that cannot be expressed in words.” (NLT).

God is eager to respond to his children who unashamedly ask, persistently seek and expectantly knock at His door with their needs and requests

The time or hour is neither here nor there

We don’t book an appointment with our spouse or parent to talk to them

The unexpected guest in this parable represents the unexpected problems, unexpected sickness, unexpected burdens, and unexpected disaster

There are some things that may come upon us at an unexpected hour when we least expect it

And the hour midnight may represent your darkest hour, your darkest moment, or your lowest time in your life

But it shows us that when this man realized that he had nothing in his own cupboard to feed his friend, he could go to his friend’s house, asking him to give him some bread so he could feed his friend who arrived at his house unexpectedly

And this man’s friend represents Jesus Christ, for He is a friend who stick closer than any brother

When we are hit with an unexpected disaster, we can call on Jesus to help us out

When we are hit with an unexpected sickness, we can call on Jesus to heal us

When we are hit with an unexpected dilemma, we can call on Jesus to straighten out the problem

When we are hit with an unexpected storm, we can call on Jesus to be our shelter in the time of storm

No matter what the problem is, no matter what day or time it may be, we can call on Jesus for help and He is more than able to provide

Conclusion

An unknown poet said it this way in a poem entitled “Into the Day.”

I got up this morning

And rushed into the day;

I had so much to accomplish

I didn’t have time to pray

Troubles just tumbled about me

And heavier came each task.

Why doesn’t God help me I wondered,

He answered, “You didn’t ask.”

I tried to come into God’s presence,

I used all my keys at the lock,

God gently and lovingly chided

“Why child, you didn’t knock.”

I wanted to see joy and beauty,

But the day toiled on gray and bleak,

I called on the Lord for the reason,

He said, “You did not seek.”

I woke up early this morning

And I paused before entering the day.

I had so much to accomplish

That I had to take time to pray.