THIS MESSAGE IS AN EXCERPT FROM MY BOOK 'WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T HAVE CHILDREN?'- THE STORY OF OUR SEVEN YEARS OF STRUGGLE AND CONQUEST OF CHILDLESSNESS AIMED AT HELPING CHILDLESS COUPLES OVERCOME NEGATIVE OPINIONS AND TRUST GOD FOR THE FRUITS OF THE WOMB.
WHO SAYS YOU CAN’T HAVE CHILDREN? LAM.3:37
THOSE WHO CAN SAY---
Opinion is said to be the cheapest commodity in the world. Yet it is very powerful. It is powerful because it has to do with words. If you can understand the spiritual dynamics of words, it is then you can appreciate the potency of opinion. When one allows opinions access into his/her life then he/she should be ready for the consequence and the reward. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof ….As a man thinketh in his heart so is he”. Prov.18:21; 23:7a
Opinion is produced from the thought and primarily expressed with the tongue with a consequent effect on the thought and the life of a person. You are implored not to permit your tongue or that any person or spirit kill you. Rather use your tongue to build up your life and change your adversity to prosperity. If you are looking up to God for the fruit of the womb, you must look out for the opinions of the under -mentioned.
WITCHES AND WIZARDS
The first is the female version while the latter is the male version. They are humans who operate in covens to cause havoc in people’s life. They transform themselves by metaphysical means into birds and all kinds of animals/ creatures when in operation. Many years back a woman who confessed to be a witch stroke her thigh and a male organ came out. She boasted of how she deploys the male organ to sleep with women via dreams.
Witches and wizards are strong agents of darkness in carrying out the purpose of Satan on earth. Through the use of incantation they speak against people’s destinies and retard people’s progress. Their voice can affect the fruitfulness of couples particularly those who are not born again or careless in their Christian walk with God.
Many Couples are barren /Childless today because the voice a witch or wizard is speaking against their fertility. Their wombs and manhood have been declared impotent. Withes and Wizards in human form have confessed to having eaten the womb’s and sperm cells of their victims. In the opinions such people can never have children. The irony of this is that such couples are sometimes certified fit to have children through laboratory test. Some will be subjected to all kinds of corrective surgery without any result.
There is good news for anyone under the manipulation of the power of witchcraft and wizardry. The scripture says in Isaiah 8:10, “Take counsel together, but it will come to nothing; Speak the word, but it will not stand, For God is with us.” In Lam.3:36-37 it is stated “To subvert a man in his cause, the Lord approveth not. Who is he that saith, and it cometh to pass, when the Lord commandeth it not?”
It is further stated in Isaiah 48:12b “I am the first, I also am the last”. That is to say that God has the final say concerning your fruitfulness and not any witch or wizard. They can manipulate “in between” but they cannot have the last say. The scripture says, “For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil” 1st John 3:8b. Barrenness and childlessness are the works of the devil. Witches and wizards are devil’s agents in executing his works. The good news is that Jesus is on the throne to destroy the works of the devil including barrenness and childlessness. Cry out to Jesus; seek a true and sincere servant of God who carries the oil of God to pray with you. Your season of barrenness is over.
‘Give heed to me, O LORD, And listen to the voice of those who contend with me’ Jer. 18:19
May the Lord give heed to you and hearken to the voice of the witches and wizards that contend with you. You are in for a new experience. Speak positive words of the scriptures to your womb and your manhood. If the witches and wizards voice can produce negative results then your anointed voice can positive results and change your situation. Remember Exodus 23:26 say “There shall nothing their cast young, nor be barren in thy land” Likewise Deut 7:14 says “Thou shall be bless above all people, there shalt be blessed above all people; there shall not be male or female barren among you or among your cattle.
The voice God is stronger than the voices of all the witches and wizards put together. Echo the voice of God over your circumstance and yours will be a testimony to God’s Glory. Even if they have excised extraneous control over your fruitfulness, you can hear God saying “loose him/her and let him/her go”. John 11:44.” Shall the prey be taken from the mighty, or the lawful captive be delivered? But thus saith the Lord, even the captive of the mighty shall be taken away, and the prey of the terrible shall be delivered. For I will contend with him that contend with thee and I will save thy children. Isaiah 49:24-25 Case closed!
DOCTORS AND MEDICAL REPORTS
Doctors are trained to diagnosis and treat bad medical conditions of people through observations and laboratory analysis. The result produced by the analysis enables them to decide and act on cases at their disposal. Many Couples have been told by Doctors after thorough medical examinations that they will never have children. Common cases are ruptured womb, blocked fallopian tube, fibroid, absence of eggs, hormonal imbalance as well low/ absence of sperm count.
The opinions of these medical experts in this area often sound like a death sentence. One may feel like the earth should swallow him or her up after listening to their opinions. How do you face your wife knowing you will never have a child from your womb or loins?
Doctors have their say based on what they know but God can have His way in your circumstance based on His infinite abilities. He created you and has therefore produced spare parts for replacement in case anything goes wrong with you along the line. Japanese and Chinese are good at Automobile and Electronic production. In their estimation, they know that anything can go wrong with the product, either in transit or in use. They therefore make provision for spare parts to be used when the need arises, Are they wiser than the Almighty, Alpha and Omega? NO! He has the spare parts for any malfunctioning area of your reproductive organ. Go to Him in earnest prayers and I see Angels coming to execute surgical operation on your body tonight.
FAMILY MEMBERS, FRIENDS AND WELL WISHERS
If there is any set of people that put pressure on couples with regards to childlessness, it is extended family members. Most times the woman is the victim of their bashing. The Woman is called all manners of names like man-woman, dry tree, fruitless vine, empty container, big tummy with excrement. Comments like these are rampant; “When will you give our son/ brother a child? You have emptied all the children God gave you into the toilet before marrying our son/ brother. I want to see my grand before I join my ancestors’’. This is typical of an African culture.
In fact some women will almost faint whenever their in-laws come visiting. The accompanying pressure can be unbearable. the in- laws will put pressure on their son/ brother to marry a second wife or send the wife away . this is with a view to ensuring that he does not die childless but bear children by whatever means to keep the family name. Friends and well-wishers with their pepper and salt mouths do not help matters either. God helps you that they do not have the Dozier of your premarital life. The whole world will hear of it. And they will put you into trouble.
Their overbearing concern can be nauseating. Comment like “have you taken in? Can I take you to see one Baba, Doctor or one “powerful man of God? Have you checked for fibroid, hormonal balance or sperm count? are widespread .These sets of people appear more knowledgeable on gynecology and obstetrics than those trained for the Job. All these unnecessary pressures can trigger miscarriage or hinder conception. Some friends and well-wishers will mock you for not heeding to their ‘wise’ counsel not to marry the lady or the man depending on who they consider or know to be having medical challenges. Some have talked their friends out of marriage / into adultery and the attendant out of wedlock Children.
It is being heard in some quarters that there are friends/ family members who volunteered to impregnate a wife or take in for a man since either of the couple was considered not capable. My dear, only God holds the keys to your capability or otherwise. As long as you remain true to Him and His word, He will never forsake you. His voice is stronger, bigger and mightier than the voice of all your family members, friends, and well-wishers put together. Cry your heart out to Him. Report their mockeries and taunting to Him, for He will use them as ingredients to produce your miracle.
One thing that can upset childless couple is the comments often made by neighbors when their children are sent on errand or reprimanded by them (the childless couple). Comments like, “please don’t kill my child; go and “born” (give birth) to your own. If you think having children is that easy why not get your own” etc.
They are in essence telling the couples that they will never have children. This is a lie. They are not God. Haggai may have mocked Sarah. Ditto Peninnah to Hannah. The beauty of it is that the Lord spoke through his vessels and the children (Isaac and Samuel) that Sarah and Hannah conceived and bore respectively became the movers and shakers of their world. God is equipping the children that are coming from your womb to move and shake their generation for good. Listen to Hannah glorify God after she obtained victory;
” They that were full have hired out themselves for bread, and they that were hungry ceased. So that the barren hath born seven, and she that hath many children is waxed feeble” 1Sam 2:5. It will soon be your turn to sing a song of victory.
Another funny dimension to it is when they call all their children by names one after the other in the presence of the childless woman. The children will gather round them, feeling gratified with their presence, they will order the children to go back to play .never worry; Isaac came late but he overtook Ishmael. Yours case shall not be an exception.
This should be unheard of among Christian brethren. Unfortunately, we find brethren in the Church that mocked childless couples. This is mostly done through gossiping. Some will come to the childless couples pretending to love them. After getting information on why the couples do not have children, they go on broadcasting it to others in the Church. The effect of this can be devastating. It makes one lose confidence in the Church of God -a place where one is expecting love, understanding and succor, now a place of upset. Even some men of God do use the pulpit to lampoon or ridicule the childless. We experienced it when we were trusting God for the fruits of the womb.
Some brethren will advertise and flaunt their children during juvenile harvest, Children’s week celebration and other children related events in the Church to the discomfort of the childless members. They keep their children far from the reach of the childless so that they are not harmed or spelled. The intelligence and academic prowess of these children are arrogantly announced just to hurt an “unfriendly” childless Sister. If you are facing this in your Church never bother, be rest assured that God is the giver of children. It is not how far that matter but how well and God will certainly do you well in Jesus name.
ANCESTRAL POWERS/ COVENANTS AND SPIRIT SPOUSES
The voice of the ancestral powers /covenants and spirit spouses may be strong enough to challenge your child bearing ability. These are powers that came to be by the activities of your ancestors/parents and your involvement in illicit sexual relationships. Some of our ancestors were ritualists, who used fetus and babies for rituals. Some of them were into abortion either as medical doctors, quack doctors, young ladies or young men.
These activities have been recorded in the kingdom of God and that of Satan. Satan being a legalist will certainly invoked the consequence of the sin upon the present generation and cause the voice of the blood of the innocent children wasted to cry for vengeance and make demands for appeasement, hence the series of miscarriages usually experience by some married women.
The murdered children are in essence saying, “Why must this lineage have children when in our case we were not permitted to live”. A particular childless medical doctor was being taunted as paying the price of the several abortions he has been performing on young ladies. In a related case a lady was quoted to have told her husband that she used to get pregnant when she was single. The question is, where are the children from those pregnancies now?
If you have observed this about your case, cry out for God’s mercies, plead the blood of Jesus over your faulty foundations as well as break negative pattern of your father’s and mother’s house. The bible says in psalm11:3, “if the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?”
Do not say, ‘I am born again and now a new creature, old thing have passed away”; 2nd Cor. 5:17. It doesn’t work like that. Issues relating to the shedding of blood are not dealt with simplistically. The Lord says, “whoso sheddeth man’s blood, by man shall his blood be shed: for in the image of God made He man” Gen9:6 see also Lev.24:17.Do not say, “but so, so and so did abortion and they have children”. God knows when and how to judge them. Face your own life.
Remember that the voice of the first victim of murder, Abel cried unto God for vengeance. See Gen.4:10; Heb 12:24. Go to God’s throne of grace and ask for mercies. Plead the blood of Jesus that speaks better things Heb 12:24. You must by deliverance prayers disconnect from any spirit spouse. All the spiritual children you have for him/her (if you have noticed any) must be destroyed by violent prayers. We see God showing you mercies immediately.
YOURSELF AND YOUR SPOUSE
The longer you stay childless, the more you begin to doubt God’s ability to turn your captivity. In your doubt you begin to say negative things and undertake nonsensical action based on the advice of your friends, neighbors, well-wishers, etc. Your mind will begin to tell you that it is over with child bearing. The same mind will direct you to several elderly women and couples who are childless despite their wealth, spirituality and access to medical care.
You will then conclude to yourself that yours cannot be different. It is a lie. Have you checked the Bible? Was there anyone too old to have children? Check out Sarah, Rebecca, Hannah, Manoah’s wife and Elizabeth. The only barren wife in the scripture was Sister Michal who mocked King David for dancing to the glory of God. 2nd Sam.6:23; I Chr 15:29.
Remember that as a man thinks in his heart so is he Pro. 23:7a. If you think childlessness, you will voice it out and Satan’s agents will use it as ingredient to keep you childless. Always speak positive about your situation. Do not go seeking for sympathy because sympathizers are good at giving you negative suggestions and depressing messages that will further plunge you into despair and hopelessness. Ignore whatever your spouse is telling you. He or she is operating from the flesh.
Tell yourself; “I am a mother of 2, 3, 4 or etc. children. I am fruitful and not barren, very soon I will be going for ante- natal clinic. My delivery day is getting near “. Go shopping for your babies. All these may sound ridiculous. But if you study your Bible very closely, you will discover that most miracles were products of ridiculous acts. If in doubt please ask Moses, David and Naaman. My wife and I did some of these things and by God’s grace we are parents of two wonderful children.
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