Summary: Because God is with us, we don't have to live in fear, we are understood at the deepest level, and we can have our sins forgiven.

Immanuel - God with Us

Matthew 1:18-25

Pastor Jefferson M. Williams

Chenoa Baptist Church

12-20-2020

Losing Baby Jesus

Churches that have a nativity has been finding that it is hard to keep up with baby Jesus.

Several churches had their baby Jesus stolen last year. This year, they plan to fight back by placing a GPS locator inside baby Jesus.

At one Methodist church, the baby Jesus disappeared and was replaced with a pumpkin. But because they had a GPS chip in Jesus, they were able to find Him in the possession of a teenage girl who stole Him as a prank.

Here’s a thought - in the hustle and bustle of Christmas, isn’t it easy to loss track of the reason for the season? If we have lost Jesus in the story, is there a GPS to lead us back to Him?

Turn with me to Matthew 1.

Prayer

Once Upon a Time?

“This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about:” (Matt 1:18)

Matthew begins his gospel with the genealogical record of Jesus in order to show that Jesus was from the line of David.

In the verses we will study this morning, Matthew will share with us the birth record of Jesus.

Notice how Matthew begins. He doesn’t say, “Once upon a time…”.

That’s how fairy tales begin. This is not a fairy tale. He is recording history.

“This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about…” (Matthew 1:18a)

Matthew has an agenda in his gospel. He wants to help people, particularly Jewish people, to know that Jesus was the long awaited Messiah.

This term means the “Anointed One” or Savior. The Jewish people had been waiting for a long time for the Savior to come to save them.

There was great anticipation in those days for the coming of the Messiah. Matthew wants to make clear that the event that they had been waiting for has actually happened when a baby was born in a manger in Bethlehem.

Chad and Barbara Soper of the UK had their first baby Chloe on August 8th, 2008. Their second baby Cameron was born on September 9th, 2009.

Do you see where this is going?

Chloe was born on 08-08-08

Cameron was born on 09-09-09

And Cerrea Nicole was born…wait for it…on October 10th, 2010. Yep. 10-10-10!

The odds of this happening are 50 million to one! But those odds are small compared to the miraculous birth we will study today!

While the birth would happen like any other baby born, the conception was totally different story.

A Miraculous Conception

“His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.” (Matt 1:18b)

Matthew introduces us to Jesus’ mother whose name is Mary. She was probably a young teenager who was “pledged to be married” to Joseph, a carpenter/mason who was probably a little bit older than her.

Although Mary and Joseph were not married yet, they were betrothed. This was different from our idea of “engagement” in that it was a legally binding agreement between the two families.

This pledge usually lasted a year during which the man would build a room on the side of the house for his new bride.

It was a time of testing, a time of abstinence. There had been no physical intimacy between the two when Mary was “found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.”

Matthew reports this in such a matter of fact way! Luke gives us the details:

“In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”

Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”

“How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”

 

The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God.  Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. For no word from God will ever fail.”

 

“I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.” (Luke 1:26-38)

This is what we know theologically as the “virgin birth.” Theologically, this is one of the foundations of our faith.

Let’s continue by looking at Joseph’s miraculous compassion.

Miraculous Compassion

“Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.” (Matt 1:19)

Can you imagine Mary?

Hey Joe, you’re not going to believe this but I’m pregnant. The father? God. Yes, God.”

Can you imagine Joseph’s reaction? Hurt, betrayal, anger, revenge?

We learn a little more about the character of Joseph by his compassion he shows Mary here.

He is described as being “faithful to the Law” or in your translation, “a righteous man.”

What did the Law say to do in this situation? In Deuteronomy, it’s clear that Joseph could have had her stoned for adultery.

But Joseph loved Mary and didn’t want to make this a public spectacle. He decided to divorce her quietly. No public anger. No shaming her in front of their family and friends.

His mind was made up. At least it was until he had a dream that changed everything.

Miraculous Intervention

“But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” (Matt 1:20-21)

This weighed heavily on Joseph’s heart and has he drifted off to sleep one night, he had a heavenly visitor.

An angel had told Mary what would happen and now an angel will tell Joseph that her story is true.

He begins by calling him the “Son of David,” which is why Matthew began his gospel with a genealogy, to show that the Messiah would be a descendant of King David.

God wants to still Joseph’s fears. Even though it will lead to a lot of whispers and rumors, Joseph is not to hesitate to take Mary home as his wife.

The angel reaffirms to Joseph what he said to Mary - this is a God-thing! The baby conceived in Mary’s womb is from the Holy Spirit.

The angel even does a gender reveal and tells Joseph that the colors are blue for boy.

Then the angel directs Joseph what to name this baby. The father had the right to name babies but not this time. Naming a child meant you had authority over the child. But this child would have authority over His parents. Before they were born, He was I AM. They are to name him Jesus, which means “Yahweh saves.”

His name will define what He has come to do - save His people from their sins.

Matthew then does something that is a hallmark of his gospel. Remember that he is writing to Jewish people to help them understand that Jesus was the Messiah that the Old Testament prophets spoke of in their writings.

Miraculous Confirmation

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“All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”). (Matt 1:22-23)

Again, Matthew is recounting historical fact, “All this took place…”.

Matthew will quote from the Isaiah’s prophesy to Ahaz, 700 years before.

Ahaz asks for a sign that his line will continue. Isaiah responds with this amazing promise:

*the virgin will conceive.” - there is coming a miraculous baby, a son.

“And He shall be called Immanuel, which means ‘God with us.’” This isn’t a name but a description of who He will be.

This leads us to Joseph’s choice to be obedient and courageous to God, even though he knew it would be a hard road.

Miraculous Courage

When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus. (Matt 1:24-25)

Joseph would take on the role as step-father to the Son of God. This took miraculous courage. He knew what their friends and family would think. He knew there would be rumors and innuendos. But he had the same heart of obedience that Mary did.

Scripture says that he did not have sexual relations with Mary until after Jesus was born. In the Catholic tradition, Mary is described as a perpetual virgin. But this verse proves that is not the case.

And true to the command of the angel, they gave the baby the name Jesus.

Most of us know this story well. What can we learn from it this Christmas season that might change your life?

Applications

Jesus is God

If you ask people today, who Jesus is you will get all sorts of answers. Some believe him to be a good, moral teacher. Some will tell you that He was a philosopher, like Plato or Aristotle. Others might say that He is a myth, a legend.

But the Bible doesn’t give us any of those options. People who encountered Jesus either wanted to kill Him or worship Him.

Scripture clearly says Jesus is God.

The theological term for this mystery is “incarnation.”

Imagine we are walking along a dirt path and we come upon an ant hill. It’s obvious that someone has ridden a bike right over the hill and the colony is in total chaos.

What if I got down on my knees and tries to help them put things back together again. How do you think that would work? It would be terrifying! I’m way too big, too overpowering and they would be too afraid to accept my help.

But what if I could become an ant and visit their hill and show them the way back to being a thriving colony?

C.S. Lewis wrote this concerning the incarnation:

“The second person of the Trinity, God the Son, became human Himself and was born into the world as an actual man, a real man of a particular height, with hair of a particular color, speaking a particular language , weighing so many pounds, the eternal being that knows everything and created the who universe, became a man, and before that a baby, and before that a fetus in Mary’s virgin womb.”

The Apostle John begin his gospel with these words:

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.” (John 1:1)

I love the way Max Lucado describes this:

“In the Incarnation…an artist becomes a drop of paint on His own canvas.”

The writer of Hebrews puts it this way:

“The Son [Jesus] is the radiance of God’s glory and the exact representation of his being, sustaining all things by his powerful word.” (Hebrews 1:3)

Paul writes to the church at Colosse:

“For in him [Jesus] the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily…” (Col 2:9)

Other religions teach that you must do something to reach God.

Christianity teaches that we were helpless and hopeless and hellhound and we could never hop high enough for God’s holiness.

But God, in a move that surely made the angels cock their heads with wonder, came down to us on a divine rescue mission:

“The Word [Jesus] became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.” (John 1:14)

That Greek word “dwell” is a word picture of “pitching a tent.”

Jesus told His bewildered disciples:

“Jesus said to him, “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you had known me, you would have known my Father also. From now on you do know him and have seen him.” (John 14:6-7)

Philip speaks up for the group and says:

“Lord, show us the Father, and it is enough for us.” (John 14:8)

Jesus response completely blew their minds;

“Jesus said to him, “Have I been with you so long, and you still do not know me, Philip? Whoever has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I say to you I do not speak on my own authority, but the Father who dwells in me does his works. Believe me that I am in the Father and the Father is in me, or else believe on account of the works themselves.” (John 14:9-11)

At Christmas time, most people know the story of Jesus and some claim to know him. But actually they just know about Him. There is a difference.

For years, I loved and read everything that Dr. Calvin Miller wrote. Dr. Miller was the preaching professor at Beeson Divinity School. I knew his “voice” and his heart through his writings. I had never met him. Well except for that time at the urinal but that was awkward.

I was considering doing my doctorate and we traveled to Beeson Divinity in Alabama to spend the day there. They actually asked Dr. Miller to be my tour guide. I spent the entire day with him, ate with him in the teachers dining hall, and he gracious signed my copy of The Singer Trilogy with these amazing words:

Jeff,

I am grateful for our common idiosyncrasies - How much I appreciate your friendship.

Calvin Miller 8-6-99

Before that day, I merely knew about Dr. Miller. After that day, he called me friend.

Jesus is God. Do you believe this? If it’s not true, then He’s a liar or a lunatic and His words are irrelevant to our lives. But if it is true, if He is who He says He is, then you have the same choice that His first listeners - do you reject Him or go all in and surrender your life to worshipping and serving Him?

2. Jesus is human.

If Mary and Joseph were to have an ultrasound, the baby looked…well, like a baby.

He was born, He cried, He had to be changed, He learned to walk, He grew in stature and wisdom, He felt pain, He grieved, He cried, got angry, frustrated, got tired, hungry and thirsty.

He was 100% human. Wait a minute. I thought He was 100% God.

This is the only time in all of history where one plus one = one!

Jesus was fully God and fully man.

Charles Spurgeon wrote how important Immanuel is:

“It shows how low God bent down to save man; He added the nature of one of His own creatures to His own divine nature, accepting the weaknesses, frailties and dependency that the creature experiences.

It shows what a great miracle it was that God could add a human nature to His own and still remain God.

It shows the compatibility between the unfallen human nature and the divine nature; that the two could be joined shows that we are truly made in the image of God.

It shows that we can come to Him; if He has come to us, then we can come to Him. “Then, if Jesus Christ be ‘God with us,’ let us come to God without any question or hesitancy. Whoever you may be you need no priest or intercessor to introduce you to God, for God has introduced himself to you.”

3. God with Us

Isaiah prophesies that this baby would be called, “Immanuel,” which means “God with us.”

* Because God is with us, we don’t have to fear.

Notice that every time an angel shows up in this story they begin with the words, “Do not fear.”

Why? Because we are prone to fear. I’ve never seen so much fear in our culture as right now.

People are afraid of Covid, they are afraid politically, they are afraid of where they think our country headed (both sides), afraid because of racial unrest, fearful of the future, scared of not being able to feed their children.

It is in this climate of fear that the understanding that “God is with us” is so powerful. Even in the midst of chaos, we don’t have to be ruled by fear because God is with us.

Isaiah wrote these encouraging words:

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10)

Paul told his young pastor friend Timothy:

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7)

John writes:

“There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” (I John 4:18)

God is with us! I love the way the New Living Translation version of Psalm 18:

“The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my savior;

my God is my rock, in whom I find protection.

He is my shield, the power that saves me,

and my place of safety.

I called on the Lord, who is worthy of praise,

and he saved me from my enemies.” (Psalm 18:2-3)

Brother Andrew, a Christian missionary, spent most of his life smuggling Bibles into closed countries that don’t allow Christians to have the Scriptures.

He told the story that he was in line at the border of a closed country and he watched as the border guards searched each car thoroughly. This was a problem because the had suitcases full of contraband - Bibles in that country’s language.

He felt the anxiety building and whispered a prayer: “Lord you can make the blind see, I have faith that you can make the seeing blind.”

The guards searched his car and pulled out the suitcases and opened them. There were the Bibles in plain sight. Brother Andrew could see them but the guard seemed to think the suitcase was empty! He waved him through with a smile.

Because God is with us, we don’t have to live in fear:

David, who was often afraid, wrote this in his journal:

“When I am afraid,

I will trust in You.

In God, whose word I praise,

In God I trust; I will not be afraid.

What can mortal men do to me?”

Psalm 56: 3-4

* Because God is with us, He understands our struggles.

Christmas is often a very hard time for people. Elvis crooned that he would have a blue Christmas without the one he loved.

This year, many people have lost loved ones and Christmas just won’t be the same. There will be an empty chair at the table.

You may be tempted to shake your fist at the sky and yell, “You don’t know how I feel?”

But you would be so wrong.

God not only came to earth as a man to get you back and but to also get you!

If you have grieved this year, He understands that. He doesn’t just sympathizes with you. He empathizes.

If you have felt sad, betrayed by friends, angry, frustrated, tired, lied about, falsely accused, He has experienced that as well.

If you have struggled to financial survive this year, Jesus gets it. He was homeless and many night s had no place to lay His head.

If you have ever felt alone, Jesus understands. And He says that “He will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Hebrews 13:5)

If you have ever been lied about or had rumors spread about you that were not true, He been there done that.

If you have ever felt abandoned? He cried, “My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46)

If you have ever felt the sting of unanswered prayer, he understands. In the garden, He pleaded with God for another way to save the world. There was no other way. Jesus would say, “Not my will but Yours be done.”

If you have been tempted this year, you’re in good company, because Jesus was tempted in every way we are:

“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.(Hebrews 4:15)

We have a representative in heaven that understands perfectly how hard it to be a human.

Because of that, the writer of Hebrews continues:

“Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:16)

* Because God is with us, we can be forgiven on our sins!

Remember what the angel told Joseph to name the baby? Jesus, which means “God saves.”

Our sin separate us from God and there was no way we could ever be good enough to earn our way back.

If we were going to be saved, it would have to come from the outside.

Isaiah sent a Christmas card to us:

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And He will be called Wonderful Counselor, Might God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”

A child is born. He will be fully human. A Son is given. He will be a divine gift that will change the world. The baby in the manager is the Savior on the cross. He will bring peace by offering Himself in our place as a sin-substitute on the cross. God knows the heart-wrenching pain of losing a child. But “He loved you so much that He gave His one and only Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)

Paul wrote:

“For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell,  and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross.” (Col 1:19-20)

Have you placed your faith and trust in Christ for the forgiveness of our sins?

What Child is This?

A couple of years ago, I write something that tries to tie all this together. It’s a spoken word entitled,

"What Child is this?”

What child is this, a baby in a manger

The promise of peace, the prospect of danger.

A Baby…

But just maybe

Something more.

Perhaps an open door

To another world.

All in the womb of a teenager girl.

Isaiah the prophet in words long ago,

Spoke of things impossible for him to know.

A child is born

Perfectly human in every way,

Walking our road of dirt and clay.

His heart was real and could be broken

Fulfilling the words the prophets had spoken.

Laughing, crying

Living dying,

A skinned knee,

A strong mother’s hold

Crimson colored blood,

Hungry and cold.

But wait there’s more…

A Son is given

Deity and Humanity

The insanity of the Incarnation

The God who seeks reconciliation

God in a body of human skin

Reaching down to deal with our sin

To help us begin again

Rising the dead

Healing the sick

Showing us what makes the heart of God tick.

Humanity and Divinity

The triunity of the Trinity

All found in this little baby

A Child

A Son

The long awaited one

A representative of our pitiful race

And the very reflection of the Father’s face

One who could not lie but chose to die

To pay the price for you and I

To give the best present of them all

A grand reversal of the fall

From the manager to the cross

Our gain

God’s indescribably loss

He died but rose again too?

Not to make us better but to make us new

So in this season when we celibate the

Birth of a King

Let us sing

With heart’s a flame

Lifting up His name - Jesus, Immauel

Celebrating that He came

What Child is this?

A baby

But just maybe something more