Summary: It is hard for Christians to believe this paradoxical truth that opposites can be the same. That is why so few Christians have a Biblical attitude toward other Christians who hold opposite views.

A cartoon pictures the door of an office in the central government

building of Moscow. The sign reads, Commissar for the Electrification of all

the Russias. Underneath is a bit of paper on which is written, "Please

knock-bell out of order." We can see the humor in the great inconsistency of

one who plans to bring electricity to everybody else, but whose own bell is

out of order. It would be helpful if we could see it in ourselves as easily

as see it in others. The church is the only organization on earth that

claims to be able to set the bells of joy ringing in every heart. Yet, the

claim is often mocked, because our own bell is out of order. While we claim

to be able to give light to all in darkness, our own light often flickers,

and even goes out. Kenneth Slack said, "The world cannot believe claims

which are denied in the very body which makes them."

For example, in the early church there was a movement among high caste

Hindus in South India toward the Christian faith. They found Hinduism

inadequate to meet the challenge of modern knowledge. On the very threshold

of their baptism, however, they discovered that Christianity was divided, and

that if they united all over the country with various missionary societies,

they would find themselves in separated parts of the church, which did not

cooperate with one another. They quickly drew back, for why, they asked,

should we who were united in paganism enter a new faith which is supposedly

superior where we will become divided, and less of a unity and brotherhood.

The church had said, "come to us, for we ring the bells of reconciliation for

all men." But when they came, they saw the small print which told them that

the churches own bell was out of order, and they left.

This is the tragedy of a divided church. Is the solution a great giant

of a church with all denominations united? This is like trying to make peace

among all animals by putting them in a common cage. They might be together,

but without bars they would still tear each other to pieces. No external

plan can fulfill spiritual ideals. The solution to the problem of Christian

unity is for Christians to learn to live according to Biblical principles.

It is folly to work for conformity, which is unrealistic. It is wisdom to

give heed to Paul's clear teaching that opposites can be the same. Paul

teaches that Christians can dwell in unity even though they have opposite

convictions. Eating meat, and not eating meat, are opposites. Keeping the

Sabbath, and not keeping it, are opposites. Yet, Paul says Christians can be

on each of these sides for the same reason; with the same motive, and with

the same result-the glory of God.

When two men saw a log one pulls while the other one pushes, and then

they reverse. They are always doing the opposite thing from each other, but

all the time they are working together for the same end. T. DeWitt Talmage

says this idea relates to the church. He writes, "The different

denominations were intended, by holy rivalry and honest competition, to keep

each other wide awake. While each denomination ought to preach all the

doctrines of the Bible, I think it is the mission of each more emphatically

to preach some one doctrine. The Calvinistic churches to preach the

sovereignty of God, the Arminian man's free agency etc. ..." Each

denomination has its unique contribution to make.

If this be so, then it is Billy Graham and not his critics who is on

Biblical ground by cooperating with men of opposite convictions. Graham is

operating on the Biblical principle that opposites can be the same, that is,

that men can have radically different views, but be equally holding those

views for the glory of God. The critics object that some of the things

believed by certain groups are not Biblical. Paul is fully aware that some

Christians may be in error, but he clearly teaches here that a Christian has

the right to be sincerely wrong on non-essential issues. In fact, it is

better to be sincerely wrong on a non-essential issue than to be

indifferently correct, for conviction is what counts in these areas.

Paul knew that the weak Christians were wrong in their attitude on meat

and certain days, but he recognized that if they were persuaded in their own

minds, they could practice their mistakes for the glory of God. Is Paul

saying, Christians can be weak, and have strange, almost superstitious,

convictions and practices, and still be pleasing to God? That is precisely

what he is saying. I can believe that parents can sincerely believe that

having water sprinkled on their child's head will make their salvation more

probable. If they believe this, and do not have it done, they are guilty of

sin. Therefore, if they act on their conviction, and do it, they are doing

so to obey and please God. But if it is not objectively true that such an

act helps, is it still pleasing to God? Just as pleasing as not eating meat

when God really does not care if you eat it or not.

It is hard for Christians to believe this paradoxical truth that

opposites can be the same. That is why so few Christians have a Biblical

attitude toward other Christians who hold opposite views. Paul paradoxical

principle is just too radical for most Christians. It means a Christian can

be right in being sincerely wrong. You can't be sincerely wrong about Jesus

and still be right, but you can on a multitude of other subjects. It is,

according to Paul, one of the privileges of Christian liberty to risk making

mistakes, either by being overly conservative, or by being overly

progressive. As long as one stops within the bonds of doing all he does with

a thankful heart, and with a desire to please his master, he is free to make

mistakes on minor matters, and take positions opposite of other Christians.

Henry Ward Beecher, one of the greatest preachers America ever produced,

said, "There are many who are called Christians in whom the kingdom of God

is no bigger than a thimble. There are men who have a few ideas, who are

orthodox, and who make no mistakes in theology, but woe be to the man who

does not make any mistakes. Count the sands of the sea, if you can, without

misreckoning....If you have a huge bucket, and a pint of water in it, you

will never make the mistake of spilling the water, but if a man is carrying a

huge bucket full of water he will be certain to spill it." In other words,

if you stay in the shallow water of addition, you may always be right, but

greater is the adventure of launching out into the deep of multiplication

where the marvels and mysteries of God's majesty will leave your finite mind

open to the risk of mistakes. Liberty is always dangerous.

The mistakes the strong Christians made in the Roman church were

mistakes of attitude toward the weak Christians, and Paul later teaches them

how to correct these mistakes. The weak Christians, however, immediately

object that the strong Christians not only offend them by their opposite

views and conduct, but they side with the world against others of God's

children. This is why the principle of opposites being the same cannot hold

water, for what fellowship hath light with darkness. No one can tell us that

Christians can agree with non-Christians against other Christians, and still

be doing it for the glory of God.

This sounds like a powerful argument against Paul's paradoxical

principle that opposites can be the same. As a matter of fact, however, it

does not alter the principle at all. It is only opposites among believers

that can be equally for the glory of God. Naturally, if an unbeliever takes

a position opposite a believer, he is not doing it for the glory of God.

Nevertheless, the unbeliever can hold a position that is held by a believer.

Some non-Christians are on the same side as Christians on almost all

controversial issues. Non-Christians oppose drinking, immorality, drugs and

pornography just as Christians do. Christians and non-Christians stand

together on all kinds of issues. There are Christians and atheists in both

political party's.

The strong Christians in Rome were doing the same things as the pagans.

They bought they same meat, and instead of closing up shop on the Sabbath

with the Jewish Christians, they work right along with the pagans. They did

so, however, not out of indifference, but out of conviction, and Paul says

their conduct, therefore, was pleasing to God, even though it conformed to

pagan conduct, and was opposite to that of other Christians.

You mean a Christian can take a position opposite of mine, and one that

may be held by unbelievers, and still be as pleasing to God as I am? That is

exactly what Paul is saying, and John Wesley, a man whom God used to change

the course of history, practiced this principle of Paul. He wrote, "Men may

die without any opinions, and yet be carried to Abraham's bosom, but if we be

without love, what will knowledge avail? I will not quarrel with you about

opinions. Only see that your heart be right toward God, and that you know

and love the Lord Jesus Christ, and love your neighbor, and walk as your

Master walked, and I ask no more. I am sick of opinions."

But an objection arises from the legalist. It is no mere matter of

opinion where the law of God is concerned. God commanded us to keep the

Sabbath, and also to not eat meat offered to idols. I can be tolerant of

other opinions, but how can I tolerate open defiance of God's revealed law?

If you say Christian liberty allows one to disregard the Sabbath, then why

not disregard all of the commandments to the glory of God? Again, a strong

objection to Paul's teaching when carried out to a logical conclusion. The

problem is the objector fails to distinguish between law and evil. Evil is

that which is in and of itself opposed to God's nature. No Christian can

ever do evil and be pleasing to God.

Paul's principle can never be used to justify any evil in thinking or in

conduct. However, a law, even a law of God, is something that can be

arbitrary, and may not deal with something that is evil in itself at all. A

law can be changed or eliminated with no offense to God's nature. There is

nothing inherently evil in traveling on the 7th day, or in gathering wood,

and any other work. Yet, it was a sin punishable by death under the law. It

was not evil in itself, however, and so the law could be eliminated and what

was forbidden could then be allowed without allowing anything evil. The same

was true with many Old Testament laws.

Just is the case with laws of the land. Not all laws are against evil.

They are often to regulate behavior for our convenience, but if they are no

longer helpful they can be eliminated. Therefore, according to Paul, if you

are convinced in your mind that God no longer holds you responsible to obey

the law of the Sabbath, and the laws regulating eating, you are free to

disregard them, and be as pleasing in his sight as those who still obey them.

If this be true concerning those things that are actually mentioned in

Scripture, how much more does it apply to areas that are not mentioned. For

example, can it be that the Episcopalian with his rigid formality, and the

Pentecostal with his near chaotic informality are both pleasing to God? Who

can doubt it, if they are both convinced in their own minds that these ways

of worship are the best.

If a man can eat meat offered to an idol which would be a sin for the

weak Christian to eat, and yet do it for the glory of God, who can deny that

Christians can do many things opposite from other Christians, and do them for

the glory of God? Newell sees here a principle to be applied in many areas

of life and writes, "Let those of legal tendencies mark this: That a man may

regard not what we regard, and do so unto the Lord." Christians do and

believe many things which are opposite to what others do and believe, but if

they do so with the conviction they are pleasing to God, then their opposites

are the same.