Summary: The key to being an optimist is having the patience to wait and see what God will do with your negative experience. We so often jump to the conclusion that bad stuff is just that, and that alone.

Luther Burbank, the world famous scientist, worked for years to try and

develop a black-petaled lily. He had several thousand experimental lily

plants in his laboratory. A sudden cloudburst let loose a flood of rain that

they were all washed away. William Stidger tells of sympathizing with him

over what had happened, and Burbank said to him , "When anything like this

happens I always remember a little couplet my mother use to quote-

From the day you are born

Till you ride in a hearse,

There's nothing that happens

Which couldn't be worse.

We have all sought to comfort ourselves at some point in life by

recognizing this reality-it could be worse. It is almost always true,

but still it is a negative comfort. Your life can be a mess, but others

are even worse. If this is the best you got, then it has to be what you

hang on to, but there is a better and more positive way to deal with the

negatives of life, and that is to wait and see if what you thought was bad

turns out to be good, and instead of being the worst, it may in reality be

the best thing that could have happened.

That is what Paul is writing about to the Philippians. They are worried

about Paul. They heard he was thrown in prison in Rome, and they have

naturally concluded that his being arrested was not a good thing. They

assumed that his ministry, which they supported, was now on hold, and Paul

would be of no value in advancing the Gospel now. Paul says not to worry,

for your gifts are not money down a hole. His being arrested turns out to

actually help the advance of the Gospel, and give him a better ministry than

the one he had planned.

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The key to being an optimist is having the patience to wait and see what

God will do with your negative experience. We so often jump to the

conclusion that bad stuff is just that, and that alone Sickness, trials,

shipwrecks, stoning, and prison do not sound like prizes for which you would

sell many lottery tickets. Nobody wants this sort of stuff in their life if

they can avoid it. What Paul learned by his experience is that the bad stuff

of life can be a way for God to use your life in a way that good things could

not be used. Paul's being a prisoner led to his having a ministry to the

palace guard of Nero, and some of these soldiers came to Christ, which never

would have happened had he not become a prisoner. He never would have crossed

their path had he not been arrested.

The fruit of Paul's ministry in prison was quite extensive, and he

writes in 4:22, "All the saints send you greetings, especially those who belong to Caesar's

household." Paul had Christian friends in the highest places, even the house

of the Emperor. There is no reason to believe this ever could have happened

if Paul had not been treated like a criminal. This is one of the answers to

the question-why do bad things happen to good people? It is because bad

things are often the only way to get us in touch with the right people, and

to make us willing to go the way God wants us to go.

In other words, bad things are tools God uses to get the job done in our

lives. The point is not to rejoice in bad things, but to rejoice in the Lord

who can use bad things for good goals we never would have achieved without

the bad things.

Colonel Bringle of the Salvation Army became a very popular author. He

came out of Harvard with honors, and began his ministry on a street corner in

Boston. A drunken hooligan threw a brick at him and hit him in the head. He

received a concussion that put him in the hospital for months. During his

convalescence he wrote a book called Help To Holiness. He added four

volumes, and these devotional aids sold in large numbers around the world.

He said, "My brethren, if there had never been a brick, there never would

have been a book." His bad experience opened up doors he never would have

entered had they not compelled him to do so. Don't be so quick to label bad

things as a curse. Wait to see if it might be a blessing. Even pray to that

end. Grace Crowell wrote a poem that says it all.

Yet as I live them, strange I did not know

Which hours were destined thus to live and shine,

And which among the countless ones would grow

To be, peculiarly, forever mine.

If I but wait, perhaps, this hour will be

Like silver in the sun, some day, to me!

Paul never dreamed that his days in prison would be days God would use

him to let his light shine through all of history because of the epistles he

would write there. We should pray, "Lord this is a bad day I am having, what

good can you help me make of it for your glory?"

F. W. Borham, the great Australian preacher and author, tells of his

pastor friend who was asked in Seminary to preach at a certain church one

weekend when the pastor became ill. He had other plans with 2 of his best

friends, and he did not want to go. He suggested other names and begged to be

excused, but the Professor refused to let him off the hook. It was with deep

anger that he submitted, and he went to the church in a negative mood,

wanting to curse them rather than bless them. But all of his negative

feelings were sheer waste, for he met the love of his life there, and his

whole future was changed. Had he just waited to see what the end result would

be, he could have saved himself a lot of grief. On of the most common phrases

of the Bible is wait on the Lord, and the reason is, we need to learn to wait

and see what God in his providence is going to do before we label bad things

as a curse.

Bad things often turn out like Paul's being thrown in prison. They are

stepping stones to fruitful blessings that could not be foreseen. God loves

to work in all things, even bad things, for good. It is God's specialty, and wise is

the Christian who has a wait and see attitude toward bad things.

Because Paul had this attitude, he did not have to back off earlier

testimony. Had he jumped the gun and written saying this is the worst thing

to ever happen to me, and now my ministry is ruined, he would have been

embarrassed to have to later say it was a great blessing. He waited to see

what God would bring to pass. Jowett wrote, "The cloud, which appeared so

ominous, brought a gracious shower; the restriction became the mother of a

larger liberty." Prison bars and progress sound incompatible, but Paul just

waited and sure enough, he saw his arrest lead to advance. It was a promotion

to a higher ministry.

Why is it so important for Christians to grasp this reality that God can

use evil for good? Because most of the unbelief in this world is base on this

very issue. Most atheists are so because they say a good God cannot exist and

permit all the terrible evil and suffering there is in this world. Many

people do not believe in God because they feel they are better than God, for

they would not permit the evil that exists if they had the power of God. So

who needs a God who is less noble and compassionate than they are themselves?

This would be a fairly powerful argument if the Bible did not reveal that God

permits evil for a higher good. He permitted evil men to kill His Son for the

sake of redeeming lost men. He permits men to become lost, because only those

who are lost and then found again can be truly righteous and loyal to God

forever. Satan was made perfect by God, but he fell because of pride. That

will never happen to those redeemed by the Son of God. They will be eternally

loyal, for they know they are what they are by the grace of God, and not by

their own wisdom, power, or goodness. If God is going to have an eternal

kingdom with assurance their will never be another rebellion, he had to

permit a world with evil and free choice. This terrible fallen world is

essential to the perfect world to come. God will bring good out of all its

evil.

What good is evil? It is the opportunity to be a child of God. Paul says

do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. Use evil to reveal

your good. Let your light shine by showing the contrast of the good to the

evil.

Where their is hate show love.

Where their is greed show generosity.

Where their is bitterness show forgiveness.

Where their is gloom show joy.

Where their is anxiety show peace.

Where their is violence show gentleness.

The point is, if there was no evil their would be no way to identify the

good. The goal of history for the Christian is to bring good out of evil, so

that evil does not win the war. Whenever you stop with evil, you let it win.

The Christian is to overcome evil with good, and that means to go over,

around, or through it, and if you can't avoid it no matter what, then seek to

use it for some good and outwit it. The providence of God is God working in

history to make bad events and circumstances lead to good consequences.

Paul's imprisonment was bad for it was unjust and unfair, and caused by hate.

God used their evil scheme to get the Gospel into the very household of

Caesar. This was the beginning of Christianity becoming the official faith of

the Roman Empire.

We often forget the idea of no pain, no gain philosophy, and we resist

making anything bad for our children to endure, even when we should know that

helps them to become stronger. Cheryl Forbes, a Christian journalist who

worked for Zondervan Publishing House, wrote a book called Backdoor

Blessings. Her first job was terrible. The boss was an older women who made

her rewrite almost everything she submitted for publication. For a year she

resented this snooty miss know-it-all. But slowly it dawned on her that she

had become a good writer, and she owed it all to this boss she did not like.

Had the boss been a good buddy, and let her get by with less than her best,

she never would have attained the level of expertise she had reached. The one

she thought was her enemy was really her secret friend.

In Acts 9:16 God said of Paul, "I will show him how much he must suffer

for my name." Paul was chosen for a tough life, but out of all the evil he

had to suffer, the world is still, an will forever, reaping the good fruit of

his life. His thorn in the flesh was a pain he had to endure lest his pride

caused him to lose his favored status with God.

It is a principle of life that if someone you love will be a better person by

what they suffer, then love will permit that suffering for the sake of that

goal. If your child will be more loving as a person by being discipline,

then in love you must inflect pain for the sake of this higher goal. If its

a good enough principle for God, it is a good enough principle for us to

practice in all loving relationships.

I had to hurt Lavonne over and over again this past week. I rubbed her

damaged muscle to fight the inflammation. It was painful, but I did it

willingly, for I knew it was the only way to get her back to health. Pain

was the necessary path to pleasure. I hurt her on purpose for the sake of a

positive goal. That was why Paul was in prison, and that is why a lot of

negative things happen in life to all of us. The path of pain can lead to

pleasure for those who wait to see where the path will lead.

Dr. Reuben Youngdahl, of Mt. Olivet Lutheran Church in Minneapolis,

tells of his experience on a world tour. He was enjoying the white sands of

the Indian Ocean at Durham, South Africa. He gave no thought to sunburn

until it was too late, and he looked like a lobster. He was so sick in the

night he considered going to the hospital. He had to spend the rest of his

time there sitting in the shade watching others have fun.

The day of his great suffering was the day the blue-battle fish infested the

shore waters, and with their stingers sent over 1000 swimmers to the

hospital. 150 were poisoned serious enough to be hospitalized. Several

almost died. He could have been one, and so he realized that his misfortune

was also his good fortune. His pain saved him from worse pain, or even

death.

President Theodore Roosevelt lived before bifocals were invented. The

result was he had to carry two pairs of glasses with him. One was for near

vision, and the other for far vision. In his last campaign he was shot when

he was in Milwaukee. The surgeon who examined his wound handed him his steel

spectacle case and said that the bullet hit this case, and it was deflected

from your heart, and saved your life. The president took the case with its

shattered spectacle and said, I've always considered the burden and handicap

of having to carry these two pairs of glasses, especially these heavy ones

that were in this case, as a very sore one, and here at last they have been

the means of saving my life." It was a long wait to see any good from that

negative reality, but in the long run it turned out that his burden was a

blessing.

Arturo Toscanini, the famous orchestra conductor, hated being

handicapped with his near sightedness. At nineteen he was playing the cello

in an orchestra, but he could not see the music on the stand, so he had to work

harder than anyone, and memorize the music. One day the orchestra

leader became ill, and suddenly Toscanini was the only member of the

orchestra who knew the score. So he conducted it without the score, and got

great responses from the audience. Had he not been near sighted he never

would have been ready for this opportunity that lead him to become one of the

great conductors of all time. The bad thing in his life became the best

thing in his life for his career.

Charles Spurgeon tells the true story of how lies can be used to the

glory of God. An evangelist was to preach in a small Italian town back when

there was a great deal of hostility between Catholics and Protestants. The

local priest told his people that this man who was coming was a worshippers

of the devil. This scared many, and so they stayed away, but one depraved

soul was interested in devil worship, so he went to hear the man. Nothing

could have gotten him there but this lie. But when he came and heard of

Jesus, the devil's conqueror, he became a convert to Jesus rather than the

devil he was going to seek. God used a lie to bring this man to Jesus.

The point is not, that liars are good, or handicaps, or other bad things

are of value. The whole negative aspect of a fallen world is just that-

negative. It is bad, and not good, for it would all be taken into the

eternal kingdom if it was good. But the fact is, it is all eliminated. We

are calling black white, or evil good, for all bad things are bad.

The point is, God is not limited to using good things for His purpose. He

can use bad things as well, and it is to be one of the challenges of life to

work with God to bring good out of evil.

What happened at Standard Oil is a good illustration in the world of

industry. After oil is refined, a greasy black liquid is a waste product.

They use to empty it at the river, but laws were passed to stop that. Then

they dug a pit to get rid of it, but that failed. They tried to burn it, but

that was almost a disaster. Finally, in desperation,

they called in chemists from all over the country, and by accident they

stumbled on to a way to make this massive nuisance into paraffin. This

became one of the most profitable products of the refineries. This story is

repeated in the history of dozens of waste products.

The point being, what is true for things is true also for events.

Negatives, like the wastes of life and the bad events, can, by the grace of

God be transformed into valuable products and good experiences. So don't

waste anything in life, for what you feel is bad and worthless can become

your most treasured event. Charles Kettering was cranking his car in the good

old days, and it kicked on him and broke his arm. He thought, this is

terrible. There must be an easier way to start a car. This painful event

motivated him to go and invent the self-starter that has saved millions of

others from suffering. One man's pain led to the greater pleasure of the

masses.

That good can come out of evil does not mean there is nothing difficult

to bear in the evil. Paul lost his freedom and had to be confined in chains

and pay a heavy price for the good that came of it. It was not free but

costly to be used of God this way. It would be just as hard, or even harder,

however, if no good ever came of it. The hard part is made easier in knowing

good will be the end result. Paul did eventually get executed, but he had all

the joy of seeing the good that was coming because of his suffering. This is

not always the case. The nuclear crisis at the reactor in Chernobyl is a good

example. Many people died in that crisis, but it forced doctors to learn

rapidly about the removal, treatment and transplant of bone marrow.

They had to act quickly, and they learned by trial and error, but the end result was

they learned what will benefit all mankind. One of the doctors made this

comment.

"We were like Star Trek. We were going

where mankind had never gone before,

but we were being dragged there reluctantly.

Now, as a result, we have a whole new way to

deal with an even cure cancer." The same

chaotic energy that killed so many at

Chernobyl may now result in a procedure

of donor and autologous bone marrow

transplants that will save thousands of lives.

This new order was born of loss and chaos.

So often in history terrible things for the few can be tremendous

benefits for the many. We are among the millions who are benefiting from

Paul's imprisonment. Because of it, we have all the wisdom of this letter he

wrote in prison. Paul suffered for your pleasure and mine. God used the bad

things Paul had to endure to give good things to us. It is one of the ways

of God in history to show that He is in control even though man, by his sin

and folly, is perpetually doing evil and harmfully things. God is in the

business of reversing the effects of man's folly.

What we need to learn from all of this is not to jump to conclusions,

and write off bad experiences as total loss. Ask God to help you use the

bad as a stepping stone to some good. If God loves to bring good out of

evil, then don't waste evil, and let it be evil only,

but seek for ways it can lead to good. A most dramatic and radical

illustration of this comes from the diary of Ann Traylor, a servant girl

coming to America from England. She was raped on board the ship. It was so

devastating she wanted to die, but fortunately for her a Quaker lady named

Henrietta Best was there, and she had been raped decades before by French

soldiers. Now let's make this clear-this was a totally evil experience-it

was pure evil. But the point is, it was not wasted, but used. Henrietta

came to Ann and used her evil experience to bring comfort to her. Ann wrote

in her diary-

She could say to me, "Hush, it happened to me,

too." And those words saved my life and my

reason. What resurrected me, were her love

and her understanding, which, clearly, were

the fruit of her own suffering; she could identify

with me without pious pretense. When she

consoled me and took me in her arms, I experienced the presence of God.

The evil of the past was still evil, and those who did it will be

judged, but good was brought out of the evil by a wise use of it. Had Paul

laid around his cell swearing at the guards, his evil experience would not

have been used for good. He had to be an impressive witness to his joy in

Christ in spite of his suffering, or he would have seen no fruit from his

evil experience. Bad things don't lead to good by their nature. They only

root like fruit and get worse. They can only lead to good as we learn to use

them wisely.

The point here is not to say let's all get arrested and see what good

can come of it. We are to avoid all evil, and try to prevent every bad thing

in life. But when we cannot, and we have to suffer in this fallen world

,let's not waste it, and jump to the conclusion that it is of no value. Let's

work with God, and seek to overcome evil with good, and rob the devil of his

pleasure. Robert Schuller in his popular book, Life's Not Fair But God Is

Good, deals with this issue, and gives many marvelous illustrations. One is

of Serena Young, a Los Angeles Orthopedic Surgeon. As a two year girl in

Taiwan, this Chinese toddler contracted polio, and lost the use of her legs.

She was in and out of the hospital until she was 21, but never regained the

use of her legs.

She was a bitter young woman. She was angry at God for allowing this

to happen to her. She started to search in high school for some way to make

sense of this, which seems so senseless, and this is what she discovered;

Rom. 8:28, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those

who love Him, who have called according to His purpose."

She wanted her handicap to be used for good, and so she began to pray that

God would use her tragedy for something good. She stopped her grieving and

accepted her disability. She decided she wanted to be an orthopedic surgeon.

She was told that it was crazy, but she felt it was God's calling, and though

the training was so hard she wanted to quit at times.

She persevered, however, and now has a very fulfilling career helping people deal with

their handicaps. The Los Angeles Times had a picture of her propped up on

crutches leaning over an operating table giving help and hope to others, who

like her, had been dealt a bad hand. She was not wasting her bad experience,

but was using it for good, and for the glory of God, whom she praises for

helping her see bad things can be used for His purposes. May God help us all

learn this lesson, and strive by God's grace to bring good out of evil.