Summary: You are only truly one with Jesus when you eat with Him. You are only truly one with anyone by means of eating with them. It was by means of food and eating that Joseph worked out reconciliation with his brothers.

Life revolves around eating, for where there is no eating there is no life.

Our vacation made us all the more aware of this obvious truth, for everyday

we had to make decisions about where we would eat. In Fort Lauderdale

where we stayed there is a place to eat every few feet, and along the ocean

there is one expensive place after another where people can eat while watching

the ocean.

It is beyond my ability to conceive the massive amounts of food that are

eaten daily in the huge hotels that line the beaches. Conrad Hilton of Hilton

hotel fame tells of the stock of food needed each day in the famous Stevens

Hotel in Chicago many years ago. He writes in his autobiography Be My

Guest, "To feed the population of the Stevens on an average good day takes

1000 pounds of butter, 1000 dozens eggs, the meat of ten steers, and 1000

pounds of pork. We drink 700 gallons of coffee and possess a mechanical

dishwasher that would clean the debris at a top speed of 193,000 pieces of

silver and china per hour."

I share this just to give you an impression of the massive amounts of food

that people eat in hotels. We were light eaters, for as soon as it got light we

started to eat. Not really! But the fact is, while on vacation you tend to eat

more than you do in your routine pattern of life. Everywhere you go that is

special and fun there is an abundance of food that is appealing and expensive,

and people are eating it like pigs at the tough. The point of all this is that

eating is one of life's greatest pleasures, and it is the one most frequently

enjoyed. It plays a major role in God's plan for man.

These chapters of Genesis dealing with Jacob and Joseph and his brothers

all revolve around food and eating. Famine had gripped the world and Joseph

has become the savior of the world by his plan to store food during the good

years. The economy of the world and the plan of God for His people all

revolved around food. Our text here in Gen. 43 is all about food and eating,

and this motivated me to call to your attention just how important this subject

is in the Word of God.

Eating is really for the birds. They need to eat at least half of their own

weight each day to survive. Young birds need even more. This means your

average size robin needs 14 feet of worms a day. When Lavonne and I lived in

the country we learned by observation that cows are pretty much just eating

machines. We would go into town in the morning and cows would all be in the

fields eating, and 8 to 10 hours later we would return and there they were still

eating. They lived to eat and their destiny is to be eaten.

Eating, of course, is the basis for all of life. Without food all life would

cease, and so though we do not eat all day, nor do we eat half our weight each

day, it is still a vital part of our existence. The interesting thing about this

most common behavior of life is how often it is related to the plan of God.

Half of the 5th chapter of Mark is about the miracle of raising up the daughter

of Jairus. The tension was enormous. This synagogue ruler's house was full

of people crying and wailing. Jesus had to clear them all out, and then He

took the mother and father with Peter, James and John into the room of the 12

year old girl. Jesus astonished them by saying to her, "Little girl get up!" She

stood up alive, and the story ends with Jesus saying these words, "Give her

something to eat."

Jesus had just performed one of His greatest miracles. He raised a person

from the dead. Only a hand full of people in all of history have had this

unique experience. But the first thing Jesus says in this glorious context of

supernatural power is, give her something to eat. Miracles can bring you back

from the dead, but they don't feed you. Even the miracles of feeding 5000 was

not a feeding by miracle. It was a providing of the food to feed the 5000. They

still had to put it in their mouth, chew, and swallow, or the miracle would have

been in vain. The point is, Jesus linked the supernatural and natural together

as vital partners in life.

Anybody who tries to be so spiritual that they reject the natural is just as

foolish as those who so depend on the natural that they reject the

supernatural. Both are of God, and Jesus honored both and used both, and so

must we to be wise and Christ like. Miracles don't feed the body and keep it in

operation in a healthy manner, and eating right cannot raise the dead. Neither

one takes the place of the other. To push such a basic activity like eating off

into a category we call natural or secular, and pretend it has no baring on the

spiritual life and God's plan for history is to be blind to the revelation God has

given us in His Word. Food was the key to the salvation of God's people, and

all of the spiritual results, which includes the coming of the Bread of Life.

Joseph expressed his spiritual affection toward Benjamin by giving him 5

times as much food as the rest of the brothers. This was excessive obviously,

for no one can eat 5 times more than all you can eat. It was a feast, but

Benjamin was honored with abundance beyond anyone's ability to eat. Keep

in mind that these men had been rationing food, for they were running low,

and had not been doing a lot of feasting for the last two years. This was a feast

they would never forget. We are not told about the entertainment they likely

enjoyed, but only about the lavish spread.

Dorothy Berliner, the celebrated pianist, arranged a recital by her

youngest students. At its conclusion, a repast of ice cream and home-made

layer cake and brownies was served. One young musician had brought her

little brother as a guest. When they were leaving, Miss Berliner asked, "Well,

Fenimore, did you enjoy the recital?" "You bet," answered Fenimore. "That

is, all but the music."The food was his highlight, and so it seems is the case

here with Joseph and his brothers who are eating under the same roof for the

first time in 2 decades.

They are eating things they likely have never eaten before, for Egypt was

the trading center now with all the world, and they had foods from all over the

world. We see this in verse 11 where Jacob says to his sons to take gifts. They

were to take the best products of the land to Egypt, and it lists these foods:

Honey, spices, pistachio nuts and almonds. People from each nation would be

doing this, and so there would be foods from everywhere. It had to be one of

the most varied and extravagant meals every experienced in the ancient world.

Such food extravaganzas have gone on in our modern world too. There

are foods most of us will never even see let alone taste. At the gala dinner of

the prestigious Explorers Club, held annually in the posh Waldorf-Astoria

Hotel in New York City, they have such delicacies as braised filets of python,

thin squares of zebra brisket, small slices of steamed rump meat of the

goat-like Himalayan taahr, kangaroo tail, pickled shark fin, cocktail crackers

smeared with caviar from the white sturgeon of the Black Sea, tiny sausages of

armadillo meat, Aleutian salmon liver with tundra berries, fried Katanga

termites, spruce-bark bread, stuffed Liberian breadfruit, mashed cactus pears,

and cubes of meat from an extinct mastodon that was fresh frozen more than

10 thousand years ago in the arctic tundra but defrosted recently. Not exactly

your average daily menu.

Joseph was treating his brothers to a banquet that was like this. It was

totally unique for them. Shepherds were despised by the Egyptians, and so

they never would have even gotten into an Egyptian dinning room, let alone be

served such a lavish feast. They did have to be separated from the Egyptians,

but they were not denied any of the abundance. All of this is a picture of

God's people at the marriage feast of the Lamb that begins eternity. Jesus as

our brother is exalted to the level of Lord of all, and He invites us who love

Him to join Him in a feast to celebrate His victory over all evil. All who are a

part of that victory are His family and bride. It is beyond our wildest dream

what will be at that feast.

It is impossible to speculate on just what eternal feasting will consist of,

for the more you study the gourmet eating of history the more you realize your

speculation about heaven could fall short of what men have enjoyed even in

time. In Colonial America, for example, there was a Virginia dish called

presence of foul. It consisted of a dove inserted into a partridge, the partridge

into a guinea hen, the guinea hen into a duck, the duck into a capon, the capon

into a goose, and the goose into a peacock or turkey, and the entire

extravaganza cut for serving into transverse sections.

Maybe something like that will be daily food in heaven. But maybe some

of you are saying that all of this thinking about food is not very spiritual, and

that it seems like a waste of time to focus on such a commonplace function of

life. But let me remind you that we are to live by every word that comes from

the mouth of God, and the Bible has more to say about food and the eating of

it than almost any other subject. If you just look up the words eat, eating, and

food alone you come to near 1000 verses of the Bible. If you think food is not

an appropriate study, then you have to take you complaint to God, for He

obviously feels it is.

Food is a subject every human being has in common, and it can be a bridge

to relate to the non-Christian. Paul used food to bridge the gap in Lystra

where the pagans were ready to worship them as gods. Paul points them to

the living God of all creation. In Acts 14:17 he says of God, "He has shown

kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he

provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy." God is the

great food provider, and this is a link God has with all men. It is one that can

enable us to witness to all men. This physical commonplace aspect of life can

lead to the highest spiritual conversation about the Bread of Life-the Lord

Jesus who can satisfy the hunger of the soul as well as that of the body.

Almost all of the great events and great truths of the Bible involve food and

eating. One of the two ordinances Jesus left the church-the Lord's Supper, is a

time of remembering the greatest event of history. It is a focus on the cross

and Christ's death for the sins of the world. We remember this by eating

bread and drinking the cup. Jesus knew that these commonplace events of

eating and drinking would never go out of style as long as history lasted.

Other rituals and traditions may change, but eating never will.

Jesus described the entire plan of salvation in terms of eating and

drinking. He was the Lamb of God that was sacrificed for our sins. The

edible parts of a sacrifice were grilled and boiled and eaten by the priests and

the families that brought the sacrifice. Jesus was our Lamb, and He did not

expect to be wasted, but to be consumed with pleasure. In John 6:51 Jesus

said, "I am the living bread that comes down from heaven. If a man eats of

this bread, he will live forever. This bread is my flesh, which I will give for the

life of the world. You can sum this up with a proverb-you are what you eat. If

you do not eat the bread of life, you are not heaven bound, for eternal life is in

what you eat. In the garden of Eden it was in the tree of life, and if Adam and

Eve could have eaten of that tree they would have lived forever. They were

put out of the garden to deprive them of the food that led to eternal life.

Now Jesus comes and offers man another chance to eat his way into

eternity. The only way into God's eternal kingdom is by eating the right food.

This sounds strange to us because we have never associated salvation and

eating the way the Bible does. Listen to Jesus as He says in John 6:53-56,

"Jesus said to them, I tell you the truth, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of

Man and drink His blood, you have no life in you. Whoever eats my flesh and

drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. For

my flesh is real food and my blood is real drink. Whoever eats my flesh and

drinks my blood remains in me and I in him." Not only is it true that you are

what you eat, but Jesus says that you will be forever what you now eat. Your

diet determines your destiny. The most spiritual and God pleasing aspect of

you life is in how you eat, or what you eat.

This was a very offensive picture for Jews brought up under the law that

forbid the eating of any meat with the blood still in it. Verse 60 says that many

of His disciples said this is a hard teaching. Who can accept it? Jesus

responds, "Does this offend you?" The answer is that it does, and we read,

"From this time many of His disciples turned back and no longer followed

Him." Jesus weeded out all of the superficial disciples by this radical teaching

that they had to eat his flesh and drink his blood. We have to admit that it is

rather grotesque in its imagery, but by it Jesus was linking eating and

salvation as one. When a sacrifice was eaten it was a time of communion

between God and man. It was God's food that he was allowing man to eat with

Him. It was God and man at the same table, and in Bible culture when you ate

with someone you were companions for life.

The word companion means those who eat together. It comes from two

words which are com meaning together, and panis meaning bread. Those who

share bread together are companions. How much more those who share a

special sacrificial meal? God and man at the same table eating the sacrifice

that reconciles and makes them one. It is at the table that people are to make

peace. It is one of the tragic realities of our day that families have lost the

biblical significance of eating together. Studies show that families fight at the

table and abuse one another. They make it a time to blame and scold, and it

produces all kinds of emotional problems. The will of God is that the table be

the place for love, joy, encouragement, and reconciliation. Food is to be the

common ground on which people come together as one.

In Gen. 18 God and two of His angels come to Abraham and he prepares a

meal for them. God and man eat at the table together, and God lets Abraham

in on His special plans for them to have a baby, and for Sodom to be

destroyed. Abraham was the friend of God, and God ate with him and gave

him special insight into His plan. We can't take the time to trace this subject

all through the Bible, but when we come to the New Testament we see the

story of the Prodigal Son ending with father and son at the table together

feasting, for they are reconciled and are one again. Jesus says in Rev. 3:20,

"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and

opens the door, I will come in and eat with him and he with me." The very

essence of salvation and being one with our Lord is found in eating with Him.

He not only wants to be our Savior, but He wants to be our companion, and to

be one who eats bread with us.

I have books on my shelves I have never read, and so though they are mine,

in a very real sense I do not yet possess them. Only when I read them and let

the author's ideas come into me do I have any oneness with that author. We

eat the same bread when I consume his ideas, and I eat him when I take in his

words. Some of him becomes a part of me by this process. I am a part of all

the authors I have consumed. Jesus is the Word who became flesh. As I give

heed to the Word, and digest the Word, I take my Lord into my very being. I

eat Him, and I share with Him the intimacy of His being. It is not just at

communion that I eat His flesh and drink His blood. I do it in devotions. I do

it in Bible study. I do it in mediation. I do it in prayer. I eat my Savior and

eat with Him anytime I give my mind to the consideration of His Word.

You are only truly one with Jesus when you eat with Him. You are only

truly one with anyone by means of eating with them. It was by means of food

and eating that Joseph worked out reconciliation with his brothers, and it is by

means of food and eating that we can accomplish the will of God in many

relationships. It is the universal tool. It is the tool for witnessing to those

outside the family of God. It is the tool for fellowship within the family. It is

the tool for friendship and encouragement. It is a multi-faceted tool that we

need to see as one of God's great tools all through the Bible and history. It is a

tool that we need to use more effectively. Paul put it in I Cor. 10:31, "So

whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."

Joseph did it, and so can we, if we become more conscious of the spiritual

potential of this universal tool.