She was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and who could blame here. Sure she had been the one who had invited the company over, but it wasn’t just her home, I mean her sister could do a little bit to help out. Instead she just sat there staring up at their guest as if it was the first time she’d ever seen the man, when the truth was they had practically grown up together. And so she walked a little louder, actually it was pretty close to stomping, and banged the pots a little more then necessary, actually a lot more then necessary and she sighed a lot and not little sighs either, these we full blown asthmatic sighs that were not to be missed. And yet they were missed, their guest continued to teach and her sister sat mesmerized, hanging on every word that he said. And Martha was a little steamed, actually she was a lot ticked and who could blame her.
Karen read the story earlier in the service. Mary and Martha were the sisters of Jesus good friend Lazarus and it would appear from different gospel accounts that Jesus spent a fair amount of time at their home. On this specific occasion Jesus was travelling past on one of his journeys and Martha invited him to come and stay with her family. When Jesus arrived he sat down and began to speak, we don’t know if he was teaching, or if he was telling them of his journey or just shooting the breeze. Whatever it was Mary was soon entranced with his words and sat at his feet hanging on to every word. If you saw the mini series Jesus back in the spring they actually portrayed Mary as having a crush on Jesus, and it could have happened. He was a likeable type of guy who obviously was well respected, had a trade and came from a good family. A girl could do worse then Jesus.
But the story really isn’t about Mary at all, it’s about her sister, Martha. It had been Martha who had invited Jesus into her home and she was bound and determined that everything would be perfect for Jesus. And so she began to fuss around, cleaning up and getting supper ready. At first it wasn’t bad but the longer she worked the more she began to resent the fact that her sister was just sitting there, doing nothing. And finally she couldn’t stand it any longer, in Australia they would say that she spit the dummy, and she blurted out, “excuse me, doesn’t anybody think this might be more then a little unfair, me playing Cinderella, while her highness sits on her duff and does nothing.” Or something to that effect.
And Jesus responded by saying “Martha, don’t sweat the little stuff, and it’s all little stuff. Right now Mary has discovered what is really important, and I’m not going to put a damper on that.”
I wonder what Martha’s response was? It’s not recorded but somehow I don’t think she said “Oh I’m sorry Lord, I didn’t realize.” What can we learn from this? As I got into my message I realized that there could only be one title and it is “Martha, The Good, the Bad and the Ugly.”
The Good. Luke 10:38 As Jesus and the disciples continued on their way to Jerusalem, they came to a village where a woman named Martha welcomed them into her home. The good is what made Martha, Martha. We have talked in the past about spiritual gifts, that is to say the gifts that are given to each believer for the building up of the Kingdom. Depending on who you talk to the list include things like, prophecy, speaking in unknown languages, healing, teaching, leadership. And right in the middle of all of that is the gift of hospitality, or entertaining. A very valid gift, and a very important gift. It is referred to in scriptures like 1 Peter 4:9-10 Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal or a place to stay. God has given gifts to each of you from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Manage them well so that God’s generosity can flow through you. As well as Romans 12:13 When God’s children are in need, be the one to help them out. And get into the habit of inviting guests home for dinner or, if they need lodging, for the night. And Hebrews 13:2 Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it!
Martha knew where her giftedness was, and she was willing to put it to use. She was one of those people whose home was always open. As believers one of the most frustrating things in life can be trying to do things that we not gifted for, it goes back to the trying to put square pegs in round holes. Now sometimes we can fill a temporary need, and that’s valid. But for the most part our place of service ought to be where we are spiritually gifted. When we find where that is, and then we exercise that gift we not only feel fulfilled we are fulfilled.
Mary Lou Retton said As simple as it sounds, we all must try to be the best person we can: by making the best choices, by making the most of the talents we’ve been given.
But spiritual gifts are more than simply talents, they are gifts given to Christians from the Holy Spirit, for the purpose of seeing the Kingdom of God grow. And ever Christian has at least one spiritual gift, and most of us have several, some stronger, some not nearly as evident. That’s part of why Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 12:4-6 Now there are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but it is the same Holy Spirit who is the source of them all. There are different kinds of service in the church, but it is the same Lord we are serving. There are different ways God works in our lives, but it is the same God who does the work through all of us.
But how do you find out what your gift is? One of the easiest ways is to take a spiritual gift inventory, it’s like a personality test except it helps us to identify our spiritual giftedness. Later on in the fall we are going to be offering a life group elective called network, it’s an eight week course that not only helps you identify what your spiritual gifts are but looks at how they can be best used.
For the church to function at it’s optimum level each believer has to be exercising his or her spiritual gifts. Paul uses the analogy of the body time and time again to describe the church, and for a body to operate the way it was designed each element does the work that it was designed to do. The nose smells, the eyes see, the ears hear. That’s the way it’s supposed to work, and we are told that often if one part doesn’t work the way it’s supposed to that other parts take up the load. And so a blind person will have a heightened sense of hearing or smell to help offset the disability of not being able to see. But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be and it’s not nearly as effective. In the same way when some believers don’t use their spiritual gifts to help the kingdom grow then the gap will have to be filled by someone else, perhaps someone who isn’t gifted there but is willing to help carry the load. But that’s not the way it’s supposed to be and it’s not nearly as effective.
And so the good is that Martha knew her spiritual gift and was willing to put it to work. But like everything in life, balance is a wonder thing. And it is while Martha is exercising her spiritual gift that she goes from the Good to The Bad. Luke 10:39-40 Her sister, Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what he taught. But Martha was worrying over the big dinner she was preparing.
Martha had at least an elementary grasp of who Jesus was because she called him Lord. If she didn’t recognize him as the Son of God or the Messiah she at least identified him as being a teacher or a Rabbi, and we don’t have to look too far through the gospels to discover that Martha and her siblings were friends of Christ. I wonder why she invited him to their house. Was it just to eat or had she invited him to come so she could enjoy his company and to hear what he had to say. I would suspect that it was that the latter. I mean if she just wanted to provide him with a meal she could have given him five deanari and sent him to McMalaci’s or someplace. But as so often happens the good soon eclipses the best. And so in an attempt to be the best hostess that she can be, to provide the cleanest possible house, and to make the best meal she can, she neglects the very reason she’s doing it. Have you ever done that, invited company over and by the time the evenings over, the dishes are done, the kitchen’s cleaned up you realize that you didn’t get to spend anytime with your company.
There was a couple in our church in Australia who had this hospitality thing down pat, if you stopped there to say hello or to pick up your kids there was a pretty good chance that you would end up staying for a meal. Nothing fancy, just put some more water on the soup, but they were some of the best times we had. We have known other people who wouldn’t think of having you in there house unless everything was perfect, nothing could be out of place and the meal, it had to be a five star event, which inevitably meant that you never got invited to their house, or if you did you didn’t get to visit they were way too busy getting ready for you to actually have anytime for you.
Martha was so caught up in serving Jesus that she didn’t take the time to know Jesus. And that doesn’t just happen when we are beating around the kitchen. We can take course after course, read book after book, go to seminar after seminar and never take the time to actually sit at Jesus feet and build a relationship with Him. And to be truthful Jesus probably would have preferred a tuna sandwich and Martha’s company to the fancy meal she was so busy preparing.
What is it that distracts you from getting to know Jesus better? What keeps you from having the relationship with Jesus that you would really like to have? What would it take for you to slow down and sit at His feet and listen to what he has to say?
But the bad wasn’t bad enough.
And so Martha is busy being the hostess with the mostess and before long she notices that she’s doing all the work, which knowing Martha was what she wanted but she wanted it on her terms. You understand there’s a difference between doing everything after someone has offered to help and you’ve turned them down, and doing everything and nobodies even offered. And it would appear that Mary hadn’t even offered, she just plopped down at Jesus feet and became engrossed in what he was saying. And Martha was not in the least bit impressed.
And this is where things get Ugly Luke 10: 40 She came to Jesus and said, “Lord, doesn’t it seem unfair to you that my sister just sits here while I do all the work? Tell her to come and help me.” This is the part where we say that Martha spit the dummy. If you close your eyes you can almost picture her standing there, a tea towel over one shoulder, a smudge of flour on her nose and her hands on her hips. She’s not a happy camper.
A couple of warnings here. Martha was insisting that Mary share her spiritual gift. I mean after all if she had the gift of hospitality then everyone should the gift of hospitality. But that isn’t the way it works, but often we can get caught up in thinking that. Especially with gifts like mercy, or intersession, that is the gift of prayer or the gift of helps. We kind of feel like if I can pray for four hours then everyone ought to be able to pray for four hours. And if there’s nothing I love more then doing hospital calls then everyone should feel that way. When I was in Truro I had a retired gentleman in my church who worked as my lay assistant helping with visitation. And it was nothing for Don to call on 4 or 5 hundred people during the year, people who were in the hospital or nursing homes. And he did it so well, the gift of mercy was right up at the top of Don’s gift blend, if you haven’t noticed it’s not at the top of mine, sorry. But Don never tried to make me feel spiritually inferior because I didn’t have the spiritual gift of mercy.
Secondly Martha allowed herself to be consumed by bitterness. I’ve said this before you will never, ever be responsible for another believer’s behaviour but you will always be responsible for your own. Martha wasn’t responsible for what Mary was or wasn’t doing. But when she allowed envy to rear its head she became responsible for that. I don’t think it was so much that Martha wished that Mary would do what she was doing. I think that Martha was envious of what Mary was doing, but instead of asking herself “why aren’t I doing that?” She found it easier to attack Mary, not for what she was doing, I mean how can you condemn a person for listening to Christ, but instead for what she wasn’t doing. But that wasn’t the issue.
And Jesus recognized that listen to what he says Luke 10:41-42 But the Lord said to her, “My dear Martha, you are so upset over all these details! There is really only one thing worth being concerned about. Mary has discovered it—and I won’t take it away from her.”
What was the one thing that Mary had discovered that Martha hadn’t? I don’t know it doesn’t tell us, but somehow I have a sneaking suspicion that it has something to do with his words in Matthew 6:33 He will give you all you need from day to day if you live for him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern. What is your primary concern? And if someone was to define your spiritual walk, where would it end up. I trust that your desire is to serve him. To exercise your spiritual gifts.
BCC Praise is coming back to sing and the song they are doing is one that we sing sometimes as a congregation. This morning I want you to just listen to the words of this song, which is actually a prayer. The Ushers are going to come as well to receive the morning offering, but I’m sure that you can give and think at the same time. As long as you don’t just think about giving. If you haven’t filled out your communication card yet take a couple of moments and let us know who you are and what you are thinking.
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