Summary: There is a point of no return....the point at which one has hardened his/her heart.

In many areas of life, there are points that we reach that

make it impossible to return.

A. Airplanes especially point this problem out.

1. Take-off......point of commitment....either

fly or crash.

2. Long range flights.....point of no return....

don’t have enough fuel to return to starting

point.

B. Many times in business, one becomes committed

for the long haul.....can’t back out without

disaster.

God’s word speaks of this same kind of principle.

Luke 9:62 - 62. Jesus replied, "No one who puts his hand

to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom

of God."

It certainly appears to me that God considers our decision

to become a Christian an irreversible one.

A. Not because God wouldn’t be willing to forgive

one who has strayed (as a lost sheep would)....but

that a person can make it impossible for God to

forgive him because he doesn’t want to return to

the things of God.

1. The yearning for the things left behind can

only indicate that one’s heart has changed in

regard to the things of God.

a. We have to ask ourselves this question...

“If God had not turned Lot’s wife into a

pillar of salt, would she have returned to

Sodom?”

1.) In my opinion....my answer would

be, “yes”....because her heart had

turned back to Sodom.

When we become a Christian, according to Romans,

chapter six....we die to sin....to the rule of sin in our lives...

in other words, we turn our back on the world of sin.

Romans 6:6-14 - 6. For we know that our old self was

crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done

away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin--

7. because anyone who has died has been freed from sin.

8. Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will

also live with him.

9. For we know that since Christ was raised from the

dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over

him.

10. The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the

life he lives, he lives to God.

11. In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but

alive to God in Christ Jesus.

12. Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so

that you obey its evil desires.

13. Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as

instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to

God, as those who have been brought from death to life;

and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of

righteousness.

14. For sin shall not be your master, because you are not

under law, but under grace.

A. If and when we would turn back to the things of

the world that we renounced....is it like starting

over again or is it worse?

II Peter 2:20-22 - 20. If they have escaped the corruption

of the world by knowing our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

and are again entangled in it and overcome, they are worse

off at the end than they were at the beginning. 21 It

would have been better for them not to have known the

way of righteousness, than to have known it and then to

turn their back on the sacred command was passed on to

them.

22. Of them the proverbs are true: "A dog returns to its

vomit," and, "A sow that is washed goes back to her

wallowing in the mud."

Why is it so bad to leave the Lord....can’t we just come

back?

A. Sliding away from God is the most dangerous

thing that any mortal can do.

I. Before we come to God, our sins were done........... in at

least partial ignorance and unbelief.

I Tim. 1:13 - 13. Even though I was once a blasphemer

and a persecutor and a violent man, I was shown mercy

because I acted in ignorance and unbelief.

A. God died for us on the cross while we were yet in

our sins.

Romans 5:8 - 8. But God demonstrates his own love for

us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

1. His great love for us made His sacrifice.....by

His standards............inevitable.

B. The reason that our sins.......as odious as they

were........could still sway God to shed His blood

for them.......was because they were done in

ignorance and unbelief.

1. I think that this is very well illustrated at the

cross.

Luke 23:34 - 34. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for

they do not know what they are doing." And they divided

up his clothes by casting lots.

a. I would not presume to argue that He was

not speaking of those who were

physically killing Him.....but I also

contend that He was speaking of all

mankind who had sinned against Him.

C. Am I saying that sins of ignorance and unbelief

are better than willful sins?

1. Absolutely not.

a. The difference, however, is in the

potential of the heart.

1.) It is harder to change the heart

of one who is bound up in willful

sins....because he wants to be

bound up.

II. Willful sin is sin that is done with the eyes wide open.

A. When one willfully sins, he/she knows what is

right....knows the penalty for that sin....and

chooses to do it anyway!

1. This person is in rebellion against God.

a. If the person is not operating from a

hardened heart.....soon it will be

hardened.

1.) Hardened heart - definition - the

will....the mind....the desires

cannot.....or will not be changed.

Romans 2:5 - 5. But because of your stubbornness and

your unrepentant heart, you are storing up wrath against

yourself for the day of God’s wrath, when his righteous

judgment will be revealed.

Hebrews 3:8-13 - 8. do not harden your hearts as you did

in the rebellion, during the time of testing in the desert,

9. where your fathers tested and tried me and for forty

years saw what I did.

10. That is why I was angry with that generation, and I

said, `Their hearts are always going astray, and they have

not known my ways.’

11. So I declared on oath in my anger, `They shall never

enter my rest.’"

12. See to it, brothers, that none of you has a sinful,

unbelieving heart that turns away from the living God.

13. But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called

Today, so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s

deceitfulness.

Heb. 10:26-31 - 26. If we deliberately keep on sinning

after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no

sacrifice for sins is left,

27. but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of

raging fire that will consume the enemies of God.

28. Anyone who rejected the law of Moses died without

mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses.

29. How much more severely do you think a man deserves

to be punished who has trampled the Son of God under

foot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the

covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the

Spirit of grace?

30. For we know him who said, "It is mine to avenge; I

will repay," and again, "The Lord will judge his people."

31. It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living

God.

B. One who willfully sins against God, then, goes

beyond the ignorant or unbelieving transgression.

1. This person is considered to have treated

the blood of Christ “Ho-hum”....no “big deal”.

2. This person also is considered to have

insulted the Spirit of grace......the spiritual

gift that God has given us.

a. This willful....self fulfilling sin....comes

from a heart of self love (idolatry) and

disdain and disrespect for God.

III. Willful sin is extremely dangerous.

A. It is not that Christ can’t or won’t forgive willful

sin.

1. Christ died for all sinners and anyone whowill

repent.....really repent from the heart.....can

be forgiven.

a. The danger isn’t that God won’t forgive

a willful sin.

B. The danger is that those caught up in willful sin

won’t want to come back....won’t want to repent...

won’t want to totally submit, once again, to God’s

will.

1. Living for self can become habit forming.

a. Living for self and doing the will of self...

even in the face of God’s will can have

the most immediate....tangible....

pleasurable.....satisfaction.

1.) To overcome the drive to serve

self over God.....requires that one

again put self to death.

C. The first time one was in the world of sin and

wickedness was by default......the second time is

by conscious and pre-meditated choice.

1. We left the world of sin because we didn’t

like those sins......what they were doing to us

and what they were doing to Christ.

a. If we return to our previous state, we

indicate that we no longer have this

repulsion of sin and we no longer care

what those sins are doing and have done

to Christ.

** No............it isn’t that God cannot or will not forgive us

if we fall away.......

1. It is more that renewal is hard to impossible

because those who have fallen away from God

don’t care to ever return.

CONCLUSION:

There is a point of “no return”........this is the point in

which one has hardened his heart so much against God and

the call of the Spirit, that God allows them to remain in

their sins and reserves a time of terrible punishment for

them.

Romans 1:21-25 - 21. For although they knew God, they

neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but

their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were

darkened.

22. Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools

23. and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for

images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals

and reptiles.

24. Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of

their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their

bodies with one another.

25. They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and

worshipped and served created things rather than the

Creator--who is forever praised. Amen.

A. We see this point reached by Pharoe....a man who

had so much proven to him....and God held him

accountable for what Pharoe knew.

1. After Pharoe hardened his heart, over-and-

over-again.....the scriptures say that “God

hardened Pharoe’s heart”.

How close to the edge do we want to proceed?

A. Just when does one reach the point of no return?

1. How long can a person refuse the loving

instruction of God....through His Word,

preaching, or in the counsel of the saints....

before he has reached the point of no return.

A hardened heart is not always obvious to everyone.

A. Sometimes it isn’t even obvious to the person who

is hardening the heart.

1. A hardened heart comes about when one

would do what one wants to do....in the face

of all scriptural evidence.

2. A hardened heart will come about when one

gets to the place where no other Christian can

get through to him with warnings of dire

spiritual consequences.

a. A “deafness” sets in.

3. We harden our hearts when we go about

forgetting that which we should remember....

and again remembering that which should

have been forgotten.

4. A hardened heart comes about when one is

so full of self that there is no longer any room

for God.....His Word, His ministry, His

people.

5. A person will harden his heart towards God

when the temporal and the seen carry more

weight that the unseen and eternal.

What about you, ......have you strayed from

God’s will......how much further can you go before you

reach the point of no return?

A. Return NOW!