Summary: Why does it have to be so hard? Doing the most important things in life is often hard. God knows that and will help us!

DOING THE DIFFICULT THINGS

March 5, 2006 Jay Davis Robison MATTHEW 16:21-28

Have you ever asked yourself Why does it have to be so hard??

Why does marriage have to be so hard? Raising Kids so hard?

Why is being honest, losing weight, growing in Christ so hard

If doing right is the right thing, why is it so hard?

We all have a natural revulsion to suffering.

No one likes pain or irritation.

Our natural inclination is to avoid suffering at all costs.

There is a lot of hardship in the life

We’re not free from physical & mental sickness, poverty, worries, anxieties, death of those dear to us, failing a test, daily frustrations monotony boredom, being misunderstood,

Lent spiritual renewal to Easter Doing the Difficult Things

Do you have to do any difficult things? At work or home?

Intro idea from Matthew 16 3 truths about difficult things

1. Following Jesus is HARDER THAN YOU THINK

Notice Vs 21 NCV From that time on Jesus began telling his followers that he must go to Jerusalem, where the older Jewish leaders, the leading priests, & the teachers of the law would make him suffer many things. He told them he must be killed and then be raised from the dead on the 3rd day.

Take a look a the musts in this verse

Must go to Jerusalem, center of life for the Jews to heart

While there will Jewish leaders, priests and teachers of law

Will make him suffer he will be ridiculed scorned by society

Must be killed not just that he would die but be killed

In Jerusalem show love which they could accept or reject

Peter just like us, when he hears about suffering no don’t do it

Vs 22 NRSV & Peter took him aside & began to rebuke him, saying, God forbid it, Lord! This must never happen to you.

NCV Peter says “God save you from those things, Lord! Those things will never happen to you!”

Word rebuke is in infinitive mood.

It keeps going, and going, and going… Peter just kept rebuking, & rebuking, & rebuking

And verse says Peter TOOK Him. Greek word proslabomenos. Verb carries implication of having a right to do something. When God’s plan contradicted Peter’s idea of what was best, Peter rebuked Lord. No way God allow death of good man

Jews believed messiah would inflict suffering on enemies

Vs 21 From that time, turning pointing the story, now Jesus is preparing to go to Jerusalem, and die.

He is inviting his disciples to share in the suffering

Vs 13-20 Peter said Jesus you are messiah Son of living God

Yes Jesus said on this truth build my church

And gates of hell not prevail against it

Now Peter called Satan or tool of devil humble warning

Even those closest to Jesus most spiritual, can fall

Far and fast

Peter and his group could not believe Messiah would die

Peter saw Jesus’ words as unnecessary pessimism

Peter shocked to think such terrible things come on Jesus

The disciples said no way.

They wanted an easier way.

Most of the worthy things we do in life are difficult

Staying married, being honest raising kids difficult

2. Following Jesus is NOT WHAT YOU THINK

That is what Peter learned & what we need to learn as well

God doesn’t have to ask us or please us

Really The greatest test of your commitment to God is when God’s plan is different than yours.

One saves life only by losing it

The cross is a way of death,

but it is for Jesus and his followers the way of life thru death

Jesus compelled to suffer the cross not by outward compulsion but by inner. Moved by redeeming love, to cross

26:53 he could have called 10,000 angels to release him

but would not do it example of redeeming love

Vs 24 NKJV Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up

his cross, and follow Me.

Denying selves is not fun nor is it optional not just denying some material thing from us but life given to God

Saying God you are in charge submission to God’s thinking

Deny and take up are aorist past action, decision before

while take up is present now I must, decision then now

And cross can be painful

But The brook would lose its song if we removed the rocks

Someone once said "A Good people are like a tea-leaf:

Their real strength comes out when he is in hot water"

Cross went from being a symbol of shame,

to being a symbol of salvation

Some say in order to be happy do the easiest thing

that makes me feel best.

God says in order to be happy do the right thing

3. Following Jesus is BETTER THAN YOU THINK

Sometimes when God is going to do something wonderful,

begins w\difficulty. John Chapman explained

"You are the block, God is the sculptor. You cannot know what he is cutting you for and you never will in this life.

All you want is patience, trust, confidence, and he does it all"

Before becoming statue will have to receive many a blow

God will redeem\transform our sufferings but will be suffering

Jean Rasmussen I complained about this thorn, prayed that it would be removed, forgetting that my Lord’s thorns were shaped into a crown

Listen Jesus said you are not suffering for a useless cause

This is the heart of life what will you suffer for?

What makes such a difference do difficult things for

To save you life, will really lose it

But if lose your life for me really save it Paradox of life

So important vs 26 what give in exchange for soul? Nothing!

Listen to Vs 27 NCV The Son of Man will come again with his Father’s glory and with his angels. At that time, he will reward them for what they have done.

Our human understanding of worth=everything that person has

God’s measurement of worth is very different.

God says worth=all person can become thru my power\grace.

Our material possessions will one day be gone forever

Every person has a limitless value in the eyes of Christ because they were given an eternal soul

Given our soul value will we do difficult things for God?

If it’s easy everybody is there

if it’s safe you’ll find a big crowd

if it’s hard or risky

you’ll find little or probably no competition

We don’t like hard things but best comes when challenged

George Dantzig during depression Math student UC Berkeley . 1 wk before graduation but unemployed & in bread lines. Rumor was job as Assist to prof for highest grade

Dantzig studied day & night, so hard was late for the final. Ran in picked up test saw 8 questions on it, as finished saw

2 more on the board! to solve one than the other no luck. Bell rang, I had to do my best. I asked prof for more time, “There are a couple of problems I did not finish”. You have until Friday at 4 p.m. put it on my desk. I knew other smarter students in class, would solve all 10. So worked on one than other then 1st. Finally solved 1 then the other. Friday 4 left 10 answers to test on desk. Very unsure of future.

Sunday 7 a.m. loud pounding on my door woke George up

It was my professor George you made mathematics history!

You came into the test late didn’t you? Yes, I am sorry. 8 problems were on test paper I wrote other 2 on board saying for the rest of your life if you want to have little fun play w\ these 2 famous unsolved problems. They were not part of test, even Einstein up to his death could not solve them but you did!

If had been on time I wouldn’t have even tried to solve them.

Mathmetics committee by President of US.

What difficult thing are you trying to do now?

It’s harder than you think

But the reward of God is greater than you think

DOING THE DIFFICULT THINGS

March 5, 2006 Jay Davis Robison MATTHEW 16:21-28

Why does it have to be so hard??

1. Following Jesus is

From that time on Jesus began telling his followers that he must go to Jerusalem, where the older Jewish leaders, the leading priests, and the teachers of the law would make him suffer many things. He told them he must be killed and then be raised from the dead on the third day. Vs 21 NCV

And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying, God forbid it, Lord! This must never happen to you. 22 NRSV

2. Following Jesus is

The greatest test of your commitment to God

is when God’s plan is different than yours.

Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. Vs 24 NKJV

The brook would lose its song if we removed the rocks

3. Following Jesus is

I complained about this thorn, prayed that it would be removed, forgetting that my Lord’s thorns were shaped into a crown Jean Rasmussen

The Son of Man will come again with his Father’s glory and with his angels. At that time, he will reward them for what they have done. Vs 27 NCV

If it’s easy everybody is there,

if it’s safe you’ll find a big crowd,

if it’s hard or risky you’ll find little or probably no competition