Summary: As Christians, our desire should be to have strong relationships because they speak volumes of our relationship with Christ
Recovery of Right Relationships
August 18, 2013
Series: You Pick
If you think your family has problems, consider the marriage mayhem created when 76-year-old Bill Baker of London recently wed Edna Harvey. She happened to be his granddaughter's husband's mother. That's where the confusion began, according to Baker's granddaughter, Lynn.
"My mother-in-law is now my step-grandmother. My grandfather is now my stepfather-in-law. My mom is my sister-in-law and my brother is my nephew. But even crazier is that I'm now married to my uncle and my own children are my cousins."
From this experience, Lynn should gain profound insight into the theory of relativity. (Sermonillustrations,com)
Sometimes relationships can create a sense of confusion but they are part of the fabric of life. Each day we deal with the reality of relationships. How we handle those relationships speaks volumes about who we are and what we believe. Not every relationship is the same and we all have different kinds of relationships. Every time we deal with people, we are dealing with the commodity of relationships.
Here are just a few of the relationships we encounter on a daily basis:
* Employer – employee
Biblical basis for relationships
1. God is the foundation of all relationships
There is no possible way to have good relationships with other people and not have a right relationship with God. The moment that people neglect their relationship with God, they are really short circuiting all of their other relationships. A right relationship with God gives us the foundation to have effective and successful relationships with others.
2. We were created for relationships
Life is made up of our different kinds of relationships. There is no way to fully communicate the impact that relationships have on our lives. The quality of our life is not based in material things but in the quality of our relationships. People can have massive material possessions and wealth but live in a poverty of relationships. Our relationships make our lives have value.
3. Relationships are the bridge of the gospel
God uses the basis of human relationships to communicate the message of the gospel. Relationships are the medium that the good news spreads. Notice that when the good news was shared in the New Testament whole families and households were impacted, not just one person. Sharing the gospel means that we begin in our closest circle of personal connections and work our way out.
James gives some excellent advice on maintaining healthy relationships in chapter 1. 19 My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
Three ways to maintain healthy relationships
James lays out some of the basics of developing and maintaining healthy relationships. Three issues will make or break us in the area of relationships more than any other. We must be willing to listen to others. We must be slow to speak and slow to become angry. These keys will help us in any relationship that we have and keep us from making some major relationship mistakes.