Our Lord comes through crisp and clear on how we are to deal with hurt and abuse. For one thing, our Lord specifically forbids retaliation.
Our natural tendency is to want to get even, but that’s just the opposite of what Jesus taught.
Kingdom Of Heaven, Sin And Forgiveness, Wicked Servant, Sin And Consequences
The parable of faithful servant and the wicked servant
Matthew, Wise Servant, Wicked Servant