Summary: In the world, greatness is determined by how many people serve you; but, in God’s kingdom, greatness is determined by how many people you serve.
Jesus said, “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:28). That was His personal mission statement. If I’m to be a follower of Christ, what marked His life should mark mine. My personal mission statement ought to be “serving and giving.” The opposite of that, of course, is to be served and to receive. I can live a life with a passion to be served and to receive, or I can live with a passion to give and serve.
Hold your hands in front of you. Clench one of your hands into a fist and leave the other open. This is the choice being a follower of Christ.
• Am I going to live with a clenched fist expecting others to serve me?
• Or am I going to live with an open hand, giving and serving?
The Big Idea: In the world, greatness is determined by how many people SERVE YOU; but, in God’s kingdom, greatness is determined by how many people YOU SERVE.
I. Why Most People Don’t Achieve True Greatness
Two reasons why people don’t achieve true greatness:
“Then the mother of Zebedee’s sons came to Jesus with her sons [James and John] and, kneeling down, asked a favor of him. ‘What is it you want?’ he asked. She said, ‘Grant that one of these two sons of mine may sit at your right and the other at your left in your kingdom’” (vv. 20-21).
In Mark’s Gospel (10:35-36) James and John ask the favor. Perhaps they asked their mother to make the request for them.
James and John’s view of following Jesus was not, “How can I serve Jesus?” but “What can Jesus do for me?”
A toddler’s favorite word is “mine.”
It was President John F. Kennedy who said, “Ask now what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country.” But who do we vote for? The candidate who can do the best job for me.
Tertullian: “He who lives only to benefit himself confers on the world a benefit when he dies.”
Three factors may have contributed to their attitude:
• They, along with Peter, were Jesus’ closest friends among the twelve disciples.
• They may have come from an upper class family. Mark 1:20 reveals that their father Zebedee owned his own fishing business. There were few fishing families in Galilee with the wealth to actually hire people to fish for them.
It seems that they had a problem with pride.
“‘You don’t know what you are asking,’ Jesus said to them. ‘Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?’ ‘We can,’ they answered. Jesus said to them, ‘You will indeed drink from my cup, but to sit at my right or left is not for me to grant. These places belong to those for whom they have been prepared by my Father’” (vv. 22-23).
Jesus addressed the brothers directly (“you” is plural in the Greek).
The “cup” refers to suffering. Jesus had just predicted that He would soon suffer by being “flogged and crucified” (Matthew 20:18-19).