Summary: Let’s look at three simple, yet incredible truths that have the power to radically change our relationships in a positive way.
The Blessings and Benefits of Problems (Part 6)
1. We have learned that problems are a part of life. Because of the curse of sin on this earth, problems are woven into the fabric of everyday life.
2. There are many internal benefits and blessings of problems. Let’s examine some of those benefits.
First, problems can lead us to a state of humility.
Second, problems can teach us patience.
Third, problems can cause us to deepen our relationship with the Lord.
Fourth, problems can open doors for ministry to others.
Fifth, problems can strengthen relationships or allow new friendships to begin.
Let’s look at three simple, yet incredible truths that have the power to radically change our relationships in a positive way:
A. By maintaining open communication
• If you have a red letter Bible, look at John 13-18 and notice how much red there is. This was just prior to Jesus going to the cross.
• As the disciples were about to go through the most turbulent time of their lives, Jesus kept the lines of communication open. After the resurrection, it was the same way. Example: Luke 24:44-45
• Misunderstandings kill relationships. Communication clears away the fog.
• The strongest, closest relationships will have conflicts. When this happens, we have two choices:
? Talk it through.
? Turn and run.
• Many satisfying relationships have been terminated because one or both parties decided to quit talking.
? Illustration: You go to water your flowers and the hose has a knot in it which restricts the flow of water. You can’t say, “Oh well,” and walk off. The flowers will die. When there is a knot in our line of communication and the communication stops, mark it down, the relationship will die.
• Ephesians 4:29 – This verse provides the three laws of effective communication.
? Godly – “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth…”
? Good – “…but that which is good to the use of edifying…”
? Gracious – “…that it may minister grace to the hearers.”
• Do you want to strengthen your relationships when you go through problems? Take a lesson from Jesus and maintain open communication.
B. By staying committed to the relationship
• I must say that, as I read through the gospels, I am absolutely amazed at the level of commitment Jesus had towards His disciples.
• Remember, these were the men who fell asleep on Jesus when He needed them, forsook Him and fled at His arrest, cursed and denied Him, doubted His resurrection from the dead, and went back to fishing after they had seen Him twice.
• Yet, let’s look at Luke 24:49. Isn’t this amazing? Jesus told them, “I send the promise of my Father upon you…”
• We probably would have said, “Remember that promise of the Spirit I talked to you about and how you would receive supernatural power from heaven? Well, let me introduce you to my new disciples since you guys blew it so badly and messed up and forsook me. They are going to receive the blessing, not you!”