Summary: Purpose: to share how we can overcome the fear of failure in our lives.
The Fear of Failure
Scripture: Matthew 25:25-27
Purpose: to share how we can overcome the fear of failure in our lives.
INTRODUCTION: Have you ever felt like Charlie Brown? I sure have. In fact, I’m standing here today as an absolute failure. I came across a list of things this week that I’m supposed to do where I fail regularly. Could I share just a few of those with you?
- Experts say you should drink eight glasses of water a day – I don’t always do that.
- Dentists say you should brush your teeth after every meal and floss every day. Don’t always do that.
- I’ve been told I should never allow the gas tank in my car to get below half full. You don’t want to know about the times I’ve had to walk down a road to find the nearest gas station.
- You should make your bed every morning, dust once a week, and vacuum a couple times a week. I’ve struck out on that.
- Doctors say the average adult should get no less than 8 hours of sleep per night – I think I’ve averaged about 4-6 ½.
- You’re always supposed to do the speed limit and not get road rage – I’m not even going to go there!
All of us fail occasionally – don’t we? It is not out desire or intent but, “hey it happens.” Nobody wants to be known as a failure in life, but the truth is: failure is universal! Everybody experiences failure, and everybody experiences the fear of failure. In fact, just the fear of failure paralyzes millions of people.
Thomas Edison said it like this,
“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize
how close they were to success when they gave up.”
The fear of failure is not really new. It’s been around for ages. In fact, Jesus told a story about it in Matthew 25 about a master who has three servants. He divided his income among them and said, “I’m going on a trip. I want you to take my money and invest it.”
The first guy took the money and doubled it. The master was satisfied. The second guy took the money and doubled it. Again, the master was satisfied. But then we come to the third guy. We pick up his story in verse 25,
(Matthew 25 25-27) “’So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent
in the ground. See here is what belongs to you.’ His master replied, you wicked, lazy servant! So you knew that I harvest where I have not sown and gather where I have not scattered seed? Well, then, you should
have put my money on deposit with the bankers, so that when I returned I would have received it back with interest.’”
Jesus wants us to learn from this story that when we refuse to take risks, we’re refusing to live by faith. How do we conquer the fear of failure anyway? With drugs? With hypnosis?
Today, we close the sermon series of “Things We Don’t Like to Talk About” And no one likes to talk about his or her Failures. So how then can we overcome the fear of failure so that it does not paralyze us to move forward? There are four things we need to understand if we are going to take risks that will honor God.
The first way to conquer the fear of failure is...
I. DISCOVER THAT EVERYONE FAILS – You are not alone!!