Summary: A Mother’s Day sermon
The Secret of the Ideal Mother
By Rev. Chad H. Ballard
Televisions modern day models of motherhood include Roseanne who is loud and spews obscenities and Peg Bundy who main interest is not her children or having dinner ready for Al.
When I think about role models for mothers, I think about June Cleaver from “Leave it to Beaver”. She was so sweet and loving. She didn’t even scream at Beaver when he did really creepy stuff.
She always had dinner ready when Ward got home. She ran the house well. You know she was in charge because Ward would have never voluntarily wore a coat and tie to dinner. And I never once heard her yell at Ward for spending all day on Saturday at the golf course!
What the world needs is more June Cleavers for mothers.
I. The Marriage of the Ideal Mother (vv.10-13)
A. (v.10) A good woman is hard to find.
1. Her worth is because of her rarity
a. What makes a ruby so valuable?
b. Much of her worth is because of the effort it takes to find her.
2. Many translations use “jewels” or “precious stones” instead of “rubies”.
a. If you just want to find a rock, you can find those anywhere.
b. But, if you want to find a “jewel” those have to be sought after longer, and harder. They are not easy to come by.
B. (v. 11-12) Her husband is able to “safely trust” her.
1. He has no need to be jealous.
a. He knows that because she is “virtuous” that she will be faithful to him.
b. She doesn’t cause him to doubt her motives by her actions. (i.e. “girls night out”)
2. He has no need to doubt her motives with his wealth.
a. He knows that she will do him good and not evil. He knows that he will have no lack of gain because of her.
b. She won’t be a spendthrift, but rather she will be helpmate.
c. I have literally seen women destroy their husband’s heart and career by causing him to distrust her to the point that he couldn’t even go to work without wondering what she was up to.
II. The Behavior of the Ideal Mother (vv.13-24)
A. She is industrious.
1. V. 13 says that the “willingly works with her hands”
a. She is not a complainer about the tasks of caring for her family.
b. Sometimes we can “kill” the effects of a kind deed by complaining about having to do it.
2. It also says that she “brings food from afar”.
a. Mothers sometimes go to great lengths to get just the right kind of food to please her family.
b. That’s why she seeks wool and flax. She desires the best that she can afford for her family.
3. V. 16 says, “She considers a field and buys it; from her profits she plants a vineyard.”
a. There is nothing wrong with a mother helping to provide for her family.
b. But a mother has to remember that her first priority should be to her family.
c. She should work to help provide necessities; not to provide fancier cars and houses when what her children really need is more time with their mother.