Summary: Base upon the Book "Three Simple Rules," A Wesley Way of Living" by Rueben P. Job. This second in the series begins examination of the first of the three rules. "Do No Harm." The rule sounds simple, and easy to understand. But in practice, it presents
Three Simple Rules
A Wesleyan Way of Living
Based on the book of the same name by Ruben P. Job
A REVIEW OF LAST WEEK:
We began a series involving John Wesley’s “Three Simple Rules” Do no harm, Do Good and Stay in love with God.
We reviewed the response of Jesus when asked which commandment was the most important, Jesus responded… “you shall love the Lord you God with all your heart, and with all you soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.” The second is this. “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”…There is not other commandment greater than these.”
We began to ask ourselves…Do we look at one another and see movement toward or oneness in Christ? Do other look at us and see God at work in our life together? Is our way of living life giving rather than life draining? Is our way of living one that will enhance the quality of life of each of us for as long as we live?
John Wesley based a way of Christian life on three simple rules.
These three simple rules are just as relevant today as when they were written so long ago.
1 – Do No Harm.
2 – Do Good
3 – Stay In Love With God.
The first simple rule is “Do no harm”. How complicated is that? Even a child can understand what it means, and t is applicable to everyone at every stage of life. When it is practiced… truly practiced… this rule works wonders in transforming the world around us. As for me, I have discovered that when I remember to follow this first rule, it keeps me from uttering a wrong word or considering a wrong response.
I have also found that when I really practice this first simple step, it can provide a safe place to stand while doing the hard work, the faithful work of discernment.
When we agree we will not harm those with whom we disagree…conversation, dialogue, and discovery of new insight become possible…
When we guard our by this first simple rule…we have time and space to think about consequences before a word is spoken or an action taken.
(THE BULLET ANALOGY) (The bullet can be removed, the wound healed, but the scar always remains)
Each of us most likely knows of groups that seem locked in conflict, sometimes over profound issues and…. Sometimes over issues that are just plain silly! But… the conflict is real and the divisions deep and the consequences may often be devastating.
If however, all who are involved can agree to do no harm, the climate surrounding the conflict is immediately changed! How? Well, if I am to do no harm… I can no longer gossip about the conflict. I can no longer speak disparagingly... or judgmentally about those involved in the conflict. If I agree to do no harm… I can no longer manipulate the facts of the conflict. I can no longer diminish those who do not agree with me and must honor each as a child of God. Here’s the deal… If I agree to do no harm… “I WILL GUARD MY LIPS, MY MIND AND MY HEART SO THAT MY LANGUAGE WILL NOT DISPARAGE, INJURE OR WOUND ANOTHER CHILD OF GOD. I MUST DO NO HARM EVEN WHILE I SEEK A COMMON GOOD.”
Our founder, John Wesley in preaching on “Scriptural Christianity” in 1744, used these words