Summary: A Godly Mother encourages: 1) Growth and Strength (Luke 2:39-40), 2) Instruction and Exploration (Luke 2:41–51) 3) Wisdom and Godliness (Luke 2:52)
There are times when Amanda Telford suddenly notices the quiet in her house, and feels the familiar flush of worry, and the same question shouts in her head like an alarm buzzing: Where’s Philippe? For 19 years, quiet in her Ottawa home meant trouble. Trouble like Philippe overflowing the bathtub. Or ripping off his closet doors. Or wandering out of the house into traffic. Philippe, who has autism, can’t speak – he nods his head or points to communicate at pictures– and he cannot be left alone, not for a minute. He sometimes bangs his head so hard against the wall that he leaves a dent, and his hands are scarred where he has bitten himself. When he was 16, he was diagnosed with insulin-dependent diabetes, which suddenly limited the respite care his parents had been getting – due to regulations, staff at most of the homes could not administer his needles. Philippe’s needs were higher, but they were getting less help; “It was almost like driving off a cliff,” says Telford.
There is silence in the house now, because last week, Telford brought her son, Philippe, to a provincial government office, told him she loved him, and left him there, with a note explaining why. It was a drastic decision, which is why it made headlines around the world. Mothers are not supposed to abandon their children to strangers – they are not supposed to feel there is no other choice. Amanda Telford and her husband, Alex, spent two decades protecting their son, fighting for him to get help in a crowded health-care system. And, in the end, to keep him safe, she left him on the government’s porch step. She told him he was going to “camp,” because that is a place he loves. He didn’t understand what she really meant, or why she was shaking as she walked away. (http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/parenting/a-mother-explains-the-most-difficult-decision-you-can-possibly-make/article11829924/?utm_medium=Newsletter&utm_source=Globe%20Life&utm_type=text&utm_content=GlobeLife&utm_campaign=104155747)
In one of the early and disturbing encounters recorded in Luke 2, Mary and Joseph frantically search for their missing boy Jesus. In this the only recorded incident from Jesus’ childhood, we have the only words Jesus is recorded to have said before the start of His public ministry. Luke’s account reveals plainly that at the age of twelve, Jesus already possessed a complete understanding of His nature and mission; He was God the Son, come to do the Father’s will.
There can be no greater role for a mother than for them to instill in a child their place in regard to their heavenly father and what their position in life is in regard to Him. Much more than providing safety, God made Moms to guide their children in a purposeful direction. It is a task that needs to be affirmed by Fathers, celebrated in the faith community and embraced by children.