The tongue is an incredibly powerful tool that can be used to build up or tear down both others and ourselves. James 3:4 says; "Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. " You have a choice will you use your tongue to bring life? or to bring death? Proverbs 18:21; "Death and life are in the power of the tongue..."