Summary: 1. To be unselfish in giving. 2. To be united in grace. 3. To be unhindered in going to God.
A Marriage Made in Heaven - Part 2: God’s Plan for Husbands
Sermon by Rick Crandall
Grayson Baptist Church - Jan. 13, 2013
*If you have ever wondered: “What’s wrong with my family?” -- You are not alone. You will never find a perfect family in this world. And you will never find a perfect family in the Bible, because Adam and Eve sinned.
*Romans 5 tells us that Adam’s sin has been passed down to all of us, so even our perfect Savior’s earthly family had problems, because Christ’s mom and step-dad were sinners, His brothers and sisters, too.
*None of us can have a perfect family life in this world. But all of us can have a better family life, if we will follow God’s family plan. Last Sunday evening we began looking at God’s plan for marriage. We started with wives, because that’s where Peter starts in chapter 3.
*And when we look at God’s plan for wives here, we see that it centers on 3 things:
-Respect for your husband.
-And reaching out for Jesus.
*All of this is summed up in vs. 1, where Peter said: “Likewise you wives, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives”
*God’s plan is for wives to have voluntary, grace-filled respect for their husbands, the inward beauty of right living, and a life that reaches the lost.
-But what about the men? -- What is God’s plan for husbands?
*We can see it down in vs. 7, where Peter said: “Likewise you husbands, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.”
*The first thing to notice here is that God wants husbands to live with “understanding” or “knowledge” in the KJV. That’s good because men, we need all the help we can get! And God gives us some of this vital understanding here in vs. 7.
1. So, what is God’s plan for husbands? -- First: God’s plan is for us to be unselfish in giving.
*God wants husbands to be givers. For example, in vs. 7, He wants us to give “honor” to our wife.
 And one reason to give honor to our wives is because of her weakness. As vs. 7 says: She is the “weaker vessel.”
1-Here God is simply telling us not to take advantage of her size.
*Now, my wife has always been strong. When we met, I had a 1968 Volkswagen Bug, and it’s a good thing that car wasn’t an automatic, because we had to push it off everywhere we went. I can still see Mary behind that car, pushing. She used to tell people that the reason I dated her was because she was the only woman I knew who could push that car.
*Well, that’s not why I dated her. I dated her because she was my destiny. But she was the only woman I knew who could push that car. Mary could even push that car uphill!
*But even though she is still pretty strong, I think I can take her. Peter is just stating the obvious here: Most women are physically weaker than their husbands. It would be easy to push them around. It would be easy to take advantage of them.