Summary: In these few verses we see a portrait of fatherhood that is worth examining. So let’s consider 5 wonderful traits a father needs today. (PowerPoint available - #106)
MELVIN NEWLAND, MINISTER
RIDGE CHAPEL, KANSAS, OK
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A. Do you remember when men were men & you could tell it by looking, when women were the ones who wore earrings & makeup? Do you remember when men knew who they were & had confidence in themselves & in their God? They knew where God was leading them, & trusted Him to get them there.
Maybe the problem today is that our modern society has tried to convince women that they can be as masculine as men, & men that they can be as feminine as women. So we have put them together in one big mixing bowl & mixed them all up until many are no longer sure what their role really is.
B. Father’s Day presents us with an opportunity to look at masculinity once again. Not the Rambo type who walks with a swagger & cusses like a sailor. Such men probably make bad neighbors & poor business partners & abusive fathers & husbands.
Nor am I talking about the Archie Bunker type who sits in his chair like a king on a throne, expecting the whole world to revolve around him.
I’m talking about a man who knows he is a man & is proud of that. But at the same time he has a tender heart that is sensitive to others & to the will of God. I’m talking about God’s man. I’m talking about fatherhood the way it ought to be.
C. Where do you find guidance for that? Well, the Bible is always the best source. So I’ve selected a passage from 1 Thessalonians 2 that few would consider to be a Father’s Day text. But I think it is a good one.
In 1 Thessalonians 2:7-12, Paul says, “…we were gentle among you, like a mother caring for her little children.
“We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us.
“Surely you remember, brothers, our toil & hardship; we worked night & day in order not to be a burden to anyone while we preached the gospel of God to you.
“You are witnesses, & so is God, of how holy, righteous & blameless we were among you who believed.
“For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting & urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into His kingdom & glory.”
PROP. Let me suggest that in these few verses we see a portrait of fatherhood that is worth examining. And as you look at the portrait, consider with me 5 wonderful traits a father needs today.
I. ABLE TO EXPRESS GENUINE LOVE
A. The first trait of a father would be the ability to express genuine love. Notice what Paul says in vs. 8, “We loved you so much.”
In the Greek language in which Paul wrote, those words expressed an intensity of love that gives over & over again. Paul is saying, “It’s hard even to find words to express how much - but we really do love you.”
I think that is an important character trait for fathers because expressing love does not come naturally for most men. I’m convinced that is the reason the Bible tells husbands to “love” their wives, because we have to learn how to love.