Summary: Our children, and indeed everyone around us, should discover in us a soul conditioned and overflowing with gratitude.
What Parents Owe Their Children:
An Attitude of Gratitude
Sunday, November 25, 2001
For many this week, Thanksgiving was a very different holiday.
Usually, on Thanksgiving, we stress about the Turkey coming out too dry. We vacillate over which pies to make… and how many pieces to eat. We struggle with arranging our schedule to make room for travel and for visiting guests. We anguish over the Cowboys kicking a one-point conversion instead of going for two…
But this year there was a different flavor, a different taste to the Thanksgiving holiday. And for evidence, I point you to that great revealer of American sentiment, that source of wisdom and wit… The funny pages.
Notice the theme of the Thanksgiving comic strips this year:
- Snuffy Smith – “What cause your fainty spell, parson” “I took up a collection at church to benefit victims of teorrism an’ everybody contributed – even Snuffy Smith.”
- Born Loser - Policeman helping up the born loser – “Guess I have a lot to be thankful for after all.”
- Hi and Lois - Heroes wear many hats
- Baby Blues - Mom says, “This place is incredible! Everywhere I look there are toys, clothes, food, books and kids.” Dad hears here and asks, “Are you feeling frustrated?” “No, thankful.”
- Family Circus – After PJ’s block tower has crumbled, his sister encourages him, “Don’t worry P.J. we’ll rebuild! It’s the ‘Merican way!”
- Dennis the Menace prays, “We give thanks for family, friends, heroes and freedom.”
- From B.C. – “Greater Love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” “I will never leave you for forsake you.” – Jesus
[Each of these strips was part of a collaborative effort to raise money for relief – check out www.networkforgood.org]
In these times, what parents owe their children is an attitude of gratitude. To raise our children, to model the Christian life for the kids around us, without thankfulness as a central practice is to impoverish the Christian faith and to sour the Christian soul. Children need to seen in us an attitude of gratitude.
Why is gratitude so important? Gratitude is a curative element of the Christian life. To live with gratitude inoculates our hearts against some of the most gangrenous diseases present in our culture. Through the practice of gratitude, God gives us an antidote to some very toxic contagions spreading throughout humanity. Allow me to demonstrate.
Gratitude is an Antidote for Grumbling
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4 (quickview) : 6-7 (NIV)
Written on the entrance to a Sunday School classroom: Do not grumble because you do not get what you want; be thankful you do not get what you deserve!
In Budapest, a man goes to the rabbi and complains, "Life is unbearable. There are nine of us living in one room. What can I do?"
The rabbi answers, "Take your goat into the room with you." The man in incredulous, but the rabbi insists. "Do as I say and come back in a week."