Summary: Back biting is the stealth bomber of the unholy armed forces because the attack always comes when your back is turned...
Many unfortunate things happen in many churches around the world, simply because people are people. There are the unattractive things Christians do, which ultimately result in the dismembering of the body of Christ. They are the sins we commit, which drive people away from the church where people are supposed to encounter God and be healed.
Many unfortunate things happen in many churches, but among the ugliest and most destructive of these are the three unfortunate events we’ve focused on in the past few weeks:
Hypocrisy: the practice of professing beliefs, feelings or virtues that we don’t really have.
Mediocrity: the state of being moderate to inferior in quality in our spiritual lives: ordinary, powerless, religious people. Satisfied with the status-quos Christian lifestyle. (It’s not meant to be.)
And finally, today’s unfortunate event: the third of the uglies, which is called Back Biting…
If Satan has an arsenal of weapons, back biting is among the weapons in his secret artillery. It’s the stealth bomber of the unholy armed forces because the attack always comes when your back is turned. Back biting is the coward’s approach to problem solving. See, back biters are afraid of confrontation, so they would rather attack from behind than obey God’s Word and approach from the front because they want to avoid detection. They have this costume they wear in public, so they seem as innocent as this little baby, but like this child, their teeth are deadly.
In a church we attended, I knew a woman on the church staff who seemed so sweet to everyone in their faces, but as soon as they turned their back, she had something nasty to say about them. She was so good at making everyone think she liked them, but I was surprised by some of the remarks she had for them when they weren’t listening, and you know, it made me wonder what she was saying about me when I wasn’t around.
Back biting occurs when somebody goes behind another person’s back and says bad things, or spread rumors about them to destroy their character.
Back biters are good at pretending they love everyone, but deep inside, they are vicious toward other people. They tear people apart with their words. As the book of James says, “The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.”
Nowhere is this more true than in the mouth of a back biter… They are ruthless with their words and they have not learned to tame their tongues, and the result of their words is destruction.
Unfortunately, pastors and churches are the constant victims of back biting. All it takes is one hard to please person to complain behind the pastor’s back and the whole church can become discontented. People leave churches all the time because of things they’ve heard or said about the pastor. They church shop and church hop and no one benefits from it. The end result of saying bad things behind each other’s backs is always detrimental to the church. Jesus said, "He who is not with me is against me, and he who does not gather with me scatters.” Matt 12:30