Summary: God is saying that there is love that is good, & that there is love that is not good. In the same way, He also says that there is anger that is acceptable, & anger that is not acceptable. (Powerpoints Available - #200)
MELVIN NEWLAND, MINISTER
RIDGE CHAPEL, KANSAS, OK
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ILL: In his communion meditations, Hank often mentions church signs & what they say. Well, here is another one that I think is worth mentioning: "Anger is just one letter short of being danger."
A. Anger can be dangerous, can't it? I don't know if you have a bad temper, but I'm convinced that most of us experience times when we lose our tempers, because anger is one of the hardest emotions to control.
Psychologists tell us that anger develops in 5 stages: Irritation, Indignation, Wrath, Fury, & Rage. Now let me explain each of these stages.
1. The first stage is Irritation This is not too bad. Someone irritates us, & we are a little upset, but not enough to take any kind of action.
2. The 2nd stage is Indignation Now we are really irritated by someone or something, & we fume a bit inwardly. We may even tell others how we feel about it.
3. The 3rd stage is Wrath Now we are boiling inside! We think about what we can do to get even or get back at someone, & begin to take action to do it.
4. The 4th stage is Fury Fury is a burning point & we are willing to hurt the other person in any way that we can.
5. The final stage is Rage Now we lose control. We lash out without considering the results either to ourself or to others.
B. Do you realize how bombarded we are today with pictures of rage? Beatings, shootings, chase scenes where people are running each other down, & all kinds of violence are common on our TV screens.
ILL. The old TV program, "The Incredible Hulk," featured a mild-mannered guy who does okay until somebody makes him angry. Then he quickly goes thru all the stages of irritation, indignation, wrath, fury & rage.
When he reaches "rage" his muscles began to bulge he turns green from head to foot his shirt rips off & in the TV program it always turns out for good! Now what is that telling us?
It is suggesting that "rage is all right because it can have good results." And we are constantly being bombarded with that kind of teaching. In fact, some of the most popular "law & order" programs glorify the idea that it is all right for the "good guys" to be mean & violent, too.
C. In the light of all this, let's look at Ephesians 4:26-27 where the Apostle Paul says, "In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold."
I don't know if you have really thought about this passage before. But the first time we read it, it often causes us to have a double take, because it says, "In your anger do not sin." So evidently, there is an anger that is not sin, that is acceptable, & perfectly within the will of God.
For example, God tells us to love our neighbor & even to love our enemies. But at the same time He also says, "Do not love the world or anything in the world." (1 John 2:15)
God is saying that there is love that is good, & that there is love that is not good. And in the same way He also says that there is anger that is acceptable, & anger that is not acceptable.