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Summary: A study of Proverbs 7, and the danger of sexual immorality.

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“My son, keep my words

and treasure up my commandments with you;

keep my commandments and live;

keep my teaching as the apple of your eye;

bind them on your fingers;

write them on the tablet of your heart.

Say to wisdom, ‘You are my sister,’

and call insight your intimate friend,

to keep you from the forbidden woman,

from the adulteress with her smooth words.”

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ctions have consequences. This must surely be one of the most difficult lessons young people will be forced to learn. Tragically, some people appear never to have learned this lesson. Our young men grow to adulthood with a plethora of participation ribbons, but they are seldom challenged to excel. And if some do excel, few are ever taught that there are few ribbons for participating in life. A minimum wage law does not guarantee that they will have opportunity to learn how to work. Sheltering them from the consequences of their bad choices until they are eighteen, at which time they are thrown into a judicial system that wonders what is wrong with them does not prepare them for life.

I am deeply concerned that those for whom I have received appointment as a teacher and a pastor should learn this lesson. I am working hard to equip those whom God has placed under my oversight. My deep longing is described by the Apostle Paul when he wrote, “I feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christ” [2 CORINTHIANS 11:2].

I know that youth are growing to adulthood in a world that is hostile to righteousness. Youth are growing up within a society that depreciates godliness, pressures the young to engage in or approve of immorality and celebrates wickedness. I understand that sin has always been a part of life since the fall of our first parents; however, the transformation of society during the past fifty years is breath-taking. My observation leads me to conclude that churches have failed miserably in providing instruction in righteousness, substituting what has been accurately described as moralistic, therapeutic deism. Families have bought into the lie that it is more important to ensure that youth feel good about themselves than it is for them to be good.

If we imagine that youth attending our church are immune to the seduction of this fallen world, we are deluded. If we imagine that youth are sheltered from the allure of sin, we have deceived ourselves. While I believe that temptations for young women to turn from the path of righteousness are ubiquitous, my focus today is on young men. I do this for two reasons. First, it is Fathers’ Day; thus, it is appropriate to speak to men and those who are growing toward manhood. Again, the text chosen for this day specifically addresses the danger facing young men when they succumb to temptation and turn from the path of righteousness.

The text before us warns young men against gratuitous sex. I’m well aware that people believe the churches should be silent concerning sexual immorality, leaving the training of our youth to experts. My credentials include the fact that I left home when I was seventeen—I knew it all. It never ceases to amaze me how much my dad learned in the ensuing five years. In those five years after I had left home, I had served in the United States Marines Corps, travelled across most of the United States on my own, honed my skills in heavy construction trades and married. I lived a rough life and saw more than a little of the seamy side of life. I am reasonably certain that testosterone was as potent for young men during those years as it is today. However, we lived in a society that helped a young man hold impulses in check.


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