Summary: How to update your fathering skills
"A man knows when he is growing old because he begins to look like his father."
Did you know that Father’s Day started in the church?
Dr. Robert Webb conducted what is believed as the first Father’s Day service at the Central Church of Fairmont, West Virginia in 1908.
Sonora Dodd wanted to honor her father, William Smart, for all he had done. Selflessly raising 6 children on his own.
Her father’s birthday was in June and so she held a father’s day on 19 June 1909.
1924 President Coolidge observed a national Father’s Day
1966 President Lyndon Johnson signed a proclamation declaring the third Sunday of June as Father’s Day.
Did you know that it is on Father’s Day that the most reverse charge phone calls are made.
Children go through different phases:
First they call you ‘da da’, then they call you ‘daddy’. As they mature they call you ‘dad’. Then when they graduate they call you collect.
What is a father? How does one become an effective father?
JOB DESCRIPTION for the position of DAD:
Long term team players needed for challenging permanent work in anoften chaotic environment. Candidates must possess excellent communication and organizational skills and be willing to work variable hours, which will include evenings and weekends and frequent 24 hour shifts on call. Some overnight travel required, including trips to primitive camping sites on rainy weekends. Travel expenses will not be reimbursed.
Must provide on site training in basic life skills, such as nose blowing
Must have strong skills in negotiating, conflict resolution and crisis management.
Must be able to think out of the box, but not to lose the box, because you will probably need it for a school assignment.
Must assume complete accountability for the quality of the end product.
Possibilities for advancement and promotion:
Fatherhood is a blessing
Ps 127:4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. 5 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them
So what does it mean to be a father? Pray with me …
Our Father . . .
God is our Father. As I refer to what it means to be a father, there is a twofold application:
Firstly, for dads – they should evaluate and update their own fathering skills.
Secondly, for everyone – we need to realize that God is the perfect Father and He is therefore all of these things to us and more.
What does a father do?
five-year-old asked her mother, “Mommy, if the stork brings babies, and if Santa Claus brings presents, and if the Lord gives us our daily bread, why do we keep Daddy around?”
An effective father involved 3 things viz. Being there, being aware and being real
1) Being there
a) Dads are meant to be there.
Dads are meant to be there because there presence brings a sense of security and stability.
i) "I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father’s protection." -- Sigmund Freud
c) God promises “I will never leave you or forsake you”
d) A Dad’s presence does amazing things.
I find it amazing that children can be shouting at each other, one can be in tears … Mom walks in and the shouting gets louder … Dad walks in … and there’s quiet.