Summary: The final 10 weeks cover Christian virtues, most from the Fruit of the Spirit. Today is Love.
Believe 21: Love
April 12, 2015
In her famous song, Tina Turner said “love is nothing more than a second hand emotion.” Of course, the Beatles told us, “all you need is love.” While Elvis said, “love me tender.” Of course, the best love song of all time is by Elvis, “Can’t help falling in love.” That was my first dance with Debbie!
We are now in week 21 of Believe. WOW! We’ve entered the home stretch. If you remember, the series is based on thinking like Jesus, acting like Jesus, which leads us to be more like Jesus. In these final 10 weeks, we will be looking at the Fruit of the Spirit. So, let’s get moving . .
George Wald was a scientist who was intrigued with how the eye works. He is most remembered for is studies on how vitamin A impacts our vision. His research was so important and highly thought of, he shared in winning the Nobel Prize in Medicine in 1967.
He accomplished a great deal in his life. But when speaking of his Nobel Prize, he made this statement:
“What one really needs is not the Nobel prize, but love. How do you think one gets to be a Nobel Prize winner? Wanting love, that’s how. Wanting it so bad one works all the time. He works and works and ends up as a Nobel Prize winner. It’s a consolation prize. What matters is love.”
That’s a powerful statement by Wald. Now, of course, not every Nobel prize winner had the same view as Walk. Donald Miller recently wrote a book called Scary Close. In the book, he wrote, “What if some of the most successful people in the world got that way because their success was fueled by a misappropriated need for love?”
That’s what I think George Wald was saying. What we want is love. We just don’t know how to find it. But sadly, for so many people the message they’ve received, especially the message they’ve experienced is that love is conditional.
We think we will find love through our performance, or personality or our looks. We learn over time, that’s not the way it works.
So we work long hours. We work the room. We work out. We work in hopes of finding love. Why? Because this is what we have learned. Human love is conditional. Our first thoughts when something goes wrong, or when we have a disagreement is that the one who loves us is going to walk out on us.
There was a guy who whispered to his girl friend, “I love you.” She couldn’t accept the wonderful words, so she leaned in close and asked, “Why?” Being caught off guard, the guy stammered and stuttered and the moment was lost. We want to be loved unconditionally, yet at the same time, we want to know why someone would love us.
Maybe that’s why it’s so difficult for us to accept the heart of God’s message ~ For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16).
God loves us. Is that so difficult to accept? For so many of us, yes it is. We struggle because we claim we aren’t worthy to be loved. We don’t deserve God’s love, we aren’t good enough, we’ve too many bad things, we’ve hurt people, we’ve sinned . . . over and over and over again.