Summary: 1 Corinthians 13:13 states the greatest is love, so how well are we doing building a bridge of love both inside and outside the Christian Community?
You might have heard the statement, “If you love someone set her free, if she comes back, she’s yours, if she doesn’t she never was.” The Pessimist would say, “If you love somebody. Set her free…if she ever comes back, she’s yours, if she doesn’t, well, as expected, she never was.” The Optimist would say, “If you love somebody, set her free…don’t worry, she will come back.” Computer program makers would say, “If you love somebody, set her free, if she comes back charge her a re-installation fee, and tell her she is going to need an upgrade.” I have this for Pastor Diane. An HR specialist would say, “If you love somebody set her free…by offering her VRS and other benefits, then outsource her.” The Psychologist would say, “If you love somebody set her free…if she comes back, her super ego is dominant; if she doesn’t come back, her id is supreme; if she doesn’t leave she must be crazy. A financial expert would say, “If you love somebody set her free…if she comes back, its time to look for fresh loans, if she doesn’t, write her off as an asset gone bad.” Jesus would say, “I you love somebody, set her free…if she doesn’t come back, continue to wait until she comes by building a bridge to her.”
This is what we are doing here at New Hope, building a bridge to the future by laying down the plank of love.
How do we build a bridge of love, within our Christian community spanning out to the community at large? We do it by…
A. Loving Unconditionally.
Jesus demonstrated love toward us, that while we were yet in our sins, He died for us. He loved us without condition. The Greek have a word for this kind of love, it is called Agape, the highest form of love one can have.
If Jesus loved all mankind, those involved in sin, and those who have been forgiven, He sets the example for the Christian community. And for some, this is a hard thing. To love unconditionally.
Missionary Florence Alshorn said "To love a human being means to accept him, to love him as he is. If you wait to love him till he has got rid of his faults, till he is different, you are only loving an idea. He is as he is now. I can only love a person by allowing myself to be disturbed by him as he is. I must accept the pain of seeing him with hopefulness and expectancy."
We need to build a bridge of love by loving unconditionally. We also build a bridge of love by
B. Loving Sacrificially.
Jesus gathered the disciples together and said this in Mark 9:35 (quickview)  `The way to be first is to put yourself last and be a servant to the others.’ You demonstrate love by serving, by being a servant. That at times is a sacrifice.