Summary: The damage resulting from an uncontrolled tongue.
“I tell you, on the Day of Judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”
Columnist Michael Coren advocates a revival of judgemental attitudes. He isn’t suggesting that we need to say one thing and do another, but rather he means that we need to say and do what honours God. I tend to agree with him on this issue. Society is increasingly obsessed with individual rights and “fairness.” However, in our rush to appear non-judgemental and fair we have opted for dishonest speech.
If we can change the name, perhaps we will change the action, transforming it into something acceptable. We no longer call sin “sin;” and crime is no longer “crime.” We have confused morality with manners and compassion with sentimentality; “nice” has supplanted “good.” Nowhere is this more obvious than in the area of sex and sexuality. We’re told we should now call prostitutes, “sex-trade workers” and strippers, “exotic dancers.” But they’re not. They’re prostitutes and strippers. And “Johns” are fornicators.
We use the real, genuine descriptions not to degrade women who sell their bodies and remove their clothes for money but to degrade and denounce the professions themselves. A prostitute may or may not be a good and fine woman, but she is behaving in a manner that is certainly not good and fine.
Coren concludes, “This cult of the euphemism is like a disease. It sickens our understanding, it weakens our defences, and it upsets our sense of truth. And if anyone thinks words don’t really matter they’re not only foolish but clearly wouldn’t object to having their mother called a filthy name.
“We wouldn’t, for example, suddenly call a torturer a Pain Operative or, more pertinent perhaps, describe a pimp as a Sex Enabler.
“Marriage is not living together and a common-law marriage may be common but it’s not a marriage. It goes without saying, of course, that while homosexual couples may be happy and loving, they can never be married in spite of what politicians and legal zealots try to tell us.
“If you tell lies, you’re a liar. If you steal you’re a thief. If you betray your spouse, you’re an adulterer. If you use drugs for fun you’re pathetic. If you believe in unjust wars, you’re a coward and a bully.
“If you support abortion, you believe in killing unborn children. If you’re indifferent to the poor and the Third World, you’re a selfish wretch. Still there? Doesn’t matter.
“Any attempt to legitimize what is by nature illegitimate does not make us a more fair society but merely a less honest one.
“We need a restoration of stigma. We need to reintroduce the concept of sin. We need to become more judgmental.”
Words are vital; and they can be used as weapons. Unfortunately, even professed Christians are tempted to change the meaning of words in a display of aberrant social justice for those considered to be unempowered or in order to soften the impact of our actions. In 1974, Karl Menninger wrote a book entitled, “Whatever Became of Sin.” He concluded that sin had not disappeared, but that we no longer believed in repentance. In psychological terms, we no longer own our sin. We are not willing to accept responsibility for our actions, and consequently, like Humpty Dumpty in “Through the Looking-Glass,” words mean just what we choose them to mean—neither more nor less.