Summary: Solomon wrote his son some valuable advice once regarding his decisions for the future when he said, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not rely on your own insights. IN all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." (Prov. 3:5,6
A GUIDE TO Resolving Conflicts for the Propagation of the Gospel
Conflicts of values perhaps do more to stymie the progressive of cross-cultural communications more than any other thing, but why? The thwarting of the gospel’s communication is often misunderstood as a challenge to the things which are considered dependable, useful, desirable, and full of worth. Whereas metaphysics tries to help us know the whole reality of one’s view of nature, epistemology gives us insights into how far we are able to fully comprehend truth, values gives us a window into the processes and contents of how one evaluates everything.
Illustration: In Matthew 13:45,46 Jesus tells us about a merchant who clarified his values when he found the pearl of great price, the kingdom of God, and sold everything he had to possess it. Only when people come to a point of dissastification with their old values are they willing to exchange them for Christ’s kingdom values.
We can look at values from several angles. These can be one’s personal conscious level which is a reflection of the sum total of a man’s conscience. For example, if one’s conscience bothers him to question an elder, he will simply obey leaders instruction blindly of the consequences. Or we can examine values on a social construct level. If the society condones polygamy, we will have a harder time communicating a Biblical message that strictly emphasizes monogamy. Or we can choose to look at values from a law level. There are certain societies like Germany where there are even laws against using angry gestures to other motorists that are strictly enforced by the police. The whole nature of the German society is reflected in its close adherence to the laws of the land for fear of the consequences of disobedience.
Definition of Values - A value is a measure of the worth or desirability of something. It can be a conception, explicit or implicit, distinctive of an individual or a society, of the desirable which influences the selection from available modes, means, and ends of action. A value is a formulation of the desirable, the "ought" and "should" standards which influence action. (Kluckhohn and Murray 1948:59)
There can be different approaches to values. For example, one man may value a woman for her beauty; another may value her for her ability to bear him children; another may value her for her capacity to bear him many male children; another may value her for network of powerful relatives; another may value her for ability to cook good food; another may value her for what status she gives him as a married man in the society; another may value her simply for the companionship she provides. These are illustration that values lie in the eye of the beholder.
Values, according to Charles Morris, in his book Varieties of Human Values (1956:10-12) are expressed in three distinct ways. First there are operative values which refer to the actual direction of preferential behavior toward one kind of object rather than another. In other words if a man values one woman as his selection for a wife, he is making an objective decision to marry that woman over all the others he may choose.