Summary: Noah and family were cooped up in the ark for more than 1 year. During the long cold winter months of being cooped up, domestic violence rises. How can couples and families cope when all cooped up?

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A. Not Just 40 Days/Nights – But Over 1 Year – With At Least 7 Other People

1. Cooped Up – real miracle isn’t just that the lions didn’t eat the goats but that the people didn’t kill each other

2. This was not Carnival Cruise Line Fun Ship

a. no bowling alleys or swimming pools or hot tub jacuzzis

b. no onboard casinos, gift-shops, buffets or magic shows

c. no comfy staterooms, amazing itineraries, or shore excursions

d. only exotic show is watching the monkeys swing around

e. YouTube –rogue wave cruise ship

3. How to cope when all cooped up

B. Talking With West Chester PD

1. This time of year, cold winter months, violence down, right? Burgularies?

2. Told me – domestic violence increases

a. people cooped up

b. domestic stress

C. Makes Sense

1. Holidays are over – people no longer in the Holly Jolly X-mas mood

2. It’s cold – snowy, icy – “baby it’s cold outside” - we are cooped up

3. Days are shorter – daylight shorter – direct ties to mood disorders

4. Spring a long ways off –____ days till Spring ____ days till Opening Day

5. People apt to get cranky, picking on each other, annoying, argumentative

6. Little irritations (wood pecker) poking holes – driving you nuts


A. Keep It Honest -

25 Therefore, putting away lying, "Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor," for we are members of one another.

1. What is speaking truth? = not lying, exaggerating, misleading, excuses

2. Keeping it honest means keeping it real

a. deal w/ what really is at issue, not w/ a symptom of the problem.

b. get real about what’s bothering you, or you’ll come away from the exchange even more frustrated.

3. Keeping it honest means keeping it relevant

a. don’t bring up old grudges or sore points that don’t belong in the particular argument

b. Pirates of Carribean – shot knives, forks, spoons from cannon

c. when we feel we’re losing, easy to grab anything & everything and shoot at the other person

d. put boundaries down around the subject matter so that a fight doesn’t deteriorate into a free-for-all.

4. Keeping it honest means keeping the intensity in right proportion

a. every single thing you disagree about doesn’t have to become an earth-shattering event – dial down the drama

b. you don’t have to get mad every time you have a right to be

c. when you fight about everything you’re fighting about nothing.

d. (1 Peter 4:8) “love covers a multitude of sins . . . “

5. Keeping it honest means keeping yourself honest with yourself

a. stop taking inventory of the other person’s faults and take good honest look at your own faults

b. point a critical finger – usually 4 fingers pointing back at you!

c. arguing with the only objective to hope the other person will change & see it your way is a failed strategy

6. Ultimate motivation for keeping it honest – “we are members of one another”

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