Summary: Thomas Kinkade has become a popular artist because he has been able to capture the love and warmth, belonging and cheer that a home ought to represent. He manipulates light in such a way that we all find ourselves wanting to go to the places that he paint
Opening Statement: Thomas Kinkade has become a popular artist because he has been able to capture the love and warmth, belonging and cheer that a home ought to represent. He manipulates light in such a way that we all find ourselves wanting to go to the places that he paints. They shout to us “Welcome!”
Explanation: The sum total of what you believe, how you behave, the attitudes you demonstrate, and the values you cherish when all taken together, will create a home environment – an atmosphere in which you do family life - a painting that says “Welcome.”
Illustration: I love a great home environment. Monday evenings come to mind. After a productive day at work, I love to arrive home to the smell of some tasty Italian dish with Garlic bread in the oven and tail-wagging dogs at the door. After hugging the Lady of the House, I love to get into some shorts and a tee-shirt and catch up on the news. It’s great to hear Will practicing his Saxophone (that I’m still paying for), to listen to what Levi has to say about the Monday Night Football game, and to hear Megan tell about a new friend she has. I love going outside and sneaking in a game of pickup football, where I am all-time quarterback and the boys and their friends run the plays that I call in the huddle. I love hearing the call that “Dinner is ready – come inside to eat.” I love taking a few post-dinner snaps before the game. I love it when we’re all finally lined up to watch the opening kickoff and Hank Williams Jr. sings “Are You Ready for Some Football?” “No amount of money can buy that feeling of incredible contentment, that inner sense of fulfillment, that surge of release and relief as the noise and pace of the world are muffled by the sounds and smells and sights of a happy, relaxed evening at home (Swindoll, Finishing Touch, 594).”
Application: I realize that everyone is wired differently and that our ideal evenings at home will look a little different. What concerns me is that there are many homes and families where this kind of home atmosphere is foreign or even nonexistent. It was nostaligic thoughts of home that drove the Prodigal to go back there (Luke 15). The warm thoughts of home will bring back the prodigal. That’s one reason why this topic is so important.
Title: Creating a Great Home Climate
Key Word: There are some key words that we need to consider as we create a great home climate.
Exposition: 1 John 4:11 Dear friends, if God so loved us, then we also ought to love one another. 4:12 No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God resides in us, and his love is perfected in us. 4:13 By this we know that we reside in God and he in us: in that he has given us of his Spirit. 4:14 And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son to be the Savior of the world.
Definition: Affection is a consistent, loving act of the will, openly and sometimes spontaneously displayed toward its recipients.
Explanation: Family members love hearing their name spoken, their head stroked tenderly, and full body embraces.