Summary: The best thing we can do for our children is to love our wives. 3 ways to love the mother of your children, and thus love your children. Link included to formatted text and more Father’s Day Sermons.
Dad’s Sacred Duty
The best thing we can do for our children is to love our wives!
A picture, an illustration is drawn to help us understand…as Christ loved the church…everything Christ is to the church I am to be to Kimberly…and it all revolves around 2 words:
v. 25 read
v. 23 We must provide to our families Godly leadership…not dictatorship/domination…or by coercion…the song says I will serve Thee because I love Thee!
The Bible and submission are not clubs to beat our wives with. Submission is a response which is to follow love from us, which should come first.
We cannot demand respect and submission…they must be earned.
“Head” in v. 23 does not mean boss…but rather leader.
H. Gordon Selveridge built one of London’s largest department stores, built upon the philosophy that he was the leader, not the boss…
“the boss drives men, the leader coaches them…the boss depends upon authority…the leader upon goodwill…boss inspires fear, leader enthusiasm, boss says “I”, leader says “we”/boss fixes blame for the breakdown, the leader fixes the breakdown/the boss knows how it is done, the leader shows how it is done/the boss says go, the leader says let’s go.”
That’s good leadership anywhere, even in the home…it’s the difference between cornering your wife, and merely being in her corner!
Through the years, much of the burden of having the right kind of home has been placed on “mother.” But the Bible places most of the burden squarely in the lap of “Dad.”
It is Dad’s responsibility to set the moral and spiritual example for the home/to see to it that the Word of God is honored and revered/take lead in matters of discipline/make sure children are raised in nurture and admonition of the Lord/in church faithfully…greatly increasing their chances of being born again just as soon as they reach the age of accountability (for them). Thank God for Christian mothers, some of which have many of these responsibilities fall to them…but remember, dad will answer to God for it!
It was Joshua who said, “as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” He was the leader.
Eve may have taken that first bite…but God came looking for Adam! He was the leader.
The big problems in homes today is not insubmissive women, but men w/ warped views on leadership…if things aren’t right at home, ultimately it’s the man’s fault…at least, God holds him responsible.
Ill.—The disciples had a recurring problem w/ wondering who’s in charge, who’s the greatest, who’s 2nd in command? One of those fights broke out at the last supper. Jesus gave them a stern rebuke…
…He didn’t strike them w/ leprosy or blindness, no, He took off his outer garment, symbolic of His glory, and put on His apron, symbolic of His humanity, and knelt down and began to wash their dirty, stinky feet…a task reserved in those days for the lowest of slaves.
He taught them that Headship is servanthood…not a chain of command as much as a chain of responsibility. And on that day the disciples figured out who the greatest was after all…HIM!