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Summary: 1) God’s plan in creation is for men and women to marry and have children. 2) In this fallen world, marriage is not God’s best for everyone, and having children is not God’s calling on all couples. 3) Focus on Ephesians 6:1-4 (from John Piper)

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“Familiarity breeds contempt -- and children." Mark Twain

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Must go back to the context here. At the end of Ephesians 5 Paul talks about marriage. He does give the role of the husband and the role of the wife in marriage, but there is so much more. In Ephesians 5 Paul is saying that marriage displays the gospel. Notice the five verbs that describe Christ’s love for his bride: Vs. 25- he loved her, he gave himself for her, Vs. 26- to make her holy, cleansing her, Vs. 29- feeds and cares for her. This also shows how we are to love Christ: “as to the Lord” Vs. 22 (an act of worship), “as Christ loved the church” Vs. 25, (reflect Christ in our love), “as Christ does the church” vs. 29. (Love like Christ). Christ loves his church and His church loves Christ. If the starting point in marriage is me, then I’m starting at the wrong place. Marriage is to be a picture of Christ and his bride. The greatness of marriage is that it displays something unspeakably great, Christ and the church.

God created this world to be populated. At creation, God made them male and female for a that reason. Marriage is for making children- that is, procreation, having babies. This is not the main reason for marriage but it is an important and biblical one. Many are making babies today but Christians are to be making babies so they will grow up to be disciples of Jesus Christ. The purpose of marriage goes beyond just having more humans on this planet. Christians are to increase the number of followers of Jesus on the planet.

Even couples who have issues with infertility can still aim to make children followers of Jesus. God’s purpose in making marriage the place to have children is so that these children will grow up to be Christians and make a difference in this world for the gospel and the Kingdom. An obvious way for marriage to fill the earth with worshipers of the true God is to procreate and bring the children up in the Lord. But there are other ways. When the focus of marriage becomes having children something is missing. We need a more eternal focus that just producing babies, offspring. We all need to be involved in the Great Commission, whether married with children, married without children, or unmarried.

But I am getting ahead of myself. Here’s where we are going.

Thesis: 3 things: 1) God’s plan in creation is for men and women to marry and have children. 2) In this fallen world, marriage is not God’s best for everyone, and having children is not God’s calling on all couples. 3) Focus on Ephesians 6:1-4

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God’s plan in creation is for men and women to marry and have children

“Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over (the animals)” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the (the animals, the earth).”” Genesis 1:26-28


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