Summary: Ever feel discouraged that life is too much? Fear of failure is common, but God has a secret weapon to deploy on your behalf!
Atychiphobia is the fear of failure. While I don’t subscribe to their philosophy, PsychologyToday.com posed an interesting question recently: “What would you attempt if you knew you could not fail?” Fear of failure is closely associated with the fear of criticism and the fear of rejection. This is not a self-help seminar on how to “get out there and realize your dreams.” But as a believer in Jesus Christ, fear of criticism by others and a fear of rejection by God is a real concern.
We’ve been talking about God’s secret weapon, the Holy Spirit. In the life of the believer, the Holy Spirit takes up permanent residence and goes to work both on the inside and outside to effect positive change. But often we don’t see that. We go through our lives still experiencing problems and still seeing ourselves fall.
So we worry about failing. I want to pose three questions relating to failure as a believer—questions I believe Paul deals with strongly in the final 9 verses of Romans 8. The questions are: Will we fail because opposition to our faith is too great? Will we fail because we are weak and tend to sin? Or will we fail because bad situations overcome us?
Will we fail because the opposition too great? (31-32)
Paul starts out by saying “What then shall we say to these things?” What things? The things we’ve seen in chapter 8, that we are uncondemned, we are set free to serve God, we are adopted into his family and have a close relationship with him. When we suffer we are changed, not destroyed, and we have a Helper to mold us from the inside, pray for us when we don’t know how, and orchestrate events so that God’s good comes of every bad situation. In light of that, then he asks this question “If God is for us, who can be against us”? Despite that assertion, we worry that the world, and the enemy are just too powerful for us. So I ask this question:
How sure is your relationship with God (ie, your salvation)? I don’t mean our ability to get and hold on to it, but God’s ability and willingness to give it to us freely. God is so for us that He spared no expense to have us as His own by giving Jesus.
So, “if God be for us”, then “who can be against us?” Or put it another way, if God is on our side, what do we have to worry about? In reality, we worry about two things: not being good enough to merit God being on our side, and life being too difficult to withstand. (we’ll get to those in a minute).
The reality is, God is both really really big and really really on our side. Like having a big brother no one can assault on the playground standing by our side.
But not only is God on our side, and unlike some big brothers, He actually wants to give to us. “how will he not also with him graciously give us all things.” We get all things that lead to us being transformed into His image and the gospel spread.
Matt 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Matt 7:11 If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!