Summary: Though this book is, for the most part, about the main character (Ruth), let us also observe how this story unfolds for a second character, another woman named Naomi – Ruth’s mother-in-law. We shall look at four reasons why Naomi went from sweet to bitter
Intro: The Book of Ruth is rich in interesting paradoxes. It opens with a terrible famine and closes with a great feast. It begins with three sad funerals and ends with one happy wedding. In it we see some excellent examples of faith, patience, humility, industry, and kindness in the common events of life. Also, we see the special care God takes of our smallest concerns, guiding us to fully trust in Him.
Though this book is, for the most part, about the main character (Ruth), let us also observe how this story unfolds for a second character, another woman named Naomi – Ruth’s mother-in-law. We shall look at four reasons why Naomi went from sweet to bitter.
I. She Had Her Priorities Set in The Wrong Place (vv. 1-3).
A. They were convinced that Moab had more great opportunities than did Bethlehemjudah. They relied on the world to find much “greener pasture” instead of letting the Great Shepherd to provide.
B. Elimelech’s name means “my God is King.” Ironically, though his name signified that God was in control, yet Elimelech wanted to take full control of his provisions for his family instead of God.
C. The first thing they did was NOT to allow God to provide for them. They tried to provide for themselves. Our actions must be in God’s will. He is Jehovah-Jireh (the Lord will provide) for a reason.
D. Remember that our today is God’s yesterday. He knows what we are going through and what we shall go through; for God is all-knowing (Isa. 55:9). We must realize that it is God Who is really in full control. Whenever we get out of His will, we pay the price for it!
II. She Lowered God’s Standards for Their Needs (vv. 4-5).
A. Naomi’s sons, Mahlon (infirmity) and Chilion (complete), married Moabite women named Orpah (neck) and Ruth (satisfied). They dwelled in Moab for ten years. How long shall we stay in a place that causes hardships and hinders our relationship with God?
B. Ten years out of the will of God will surely mess up your life and cause you a lot of problems. When you are out of God’s will, you will find yourself being in wrong places you are not supposed to be, and doing wrong things that you are not supposed to do!
C. Long ago, the Moabites denied food and safe passage to the Israelites while on their way to Canaan. They even hired Balaam to curse them (Num. 23:5-7). Because of these evil deeds, God became very displeased with the Moabites (Deut. 7:1-3; 23:3-4). Whenever Israelites took Moabite wives God’s judgment followed.
III. She Failed to See God’s Hand in Their Plight (vv. 6-13).
A. It took the deaths of the three men Naomi love to bring her to the place where God could freely use her for His glory. Naomi buried her husband and sons and set a course to return back to Bethlehemjudah. Perhaps if her husband and sons had not died, they may have never come home. Maybe they all would have died in Moab. We often cannot see the best plans God has for us. We usually find ourselves upset and disappointed with what He does.
B. We find Abraham in a similar situation where, during a famine in Canaan, he and Sarai went down to Egypt instead of waiting upon the Lord (Gen. 12:10-20). As soon as they got there, Abraham feared for his life and compromised by lying to Pharaoh. Sarai almost lost here purity had not God intervened in His mercy!