Summary: We treat God as though He were not present. Jesus shows us how to get real with God by admitting His feelings, by telling what He wanted, and by enlisting His friends in prayer, however inadequate. Montgomery Hills Baptist Church
We are not going to debate this morning whether there is or is not a God. That’s settled, I would think, in this room. The issue is not whether God is real, but whether we know how to get real with God.
Let me play out a little scene with you. Picture a home in which there is a parent and a teenager. They live in the same house, they inhabit the same space, they sometimes even eat at the same table. They are family. But listen to their conversation:
Hi, how was school today? Okay.
Any grades to report? Anything special going on? No, nothin’ happened.
Well, do you have any homework? Do you need my help tonight? No, I’ll be okay.
Are you sure nothing special happened today? Not really.
Then what’s this I see on the evening news about a riot over at your school? Why is your principal screaming at the TV camera, and isn’t that you screaming back at him?!
If we can live in the some house and not connect, if we can be at the same dinner table and treat one another as if we didn’t exist, maybe it is no surprise that we treat God the same way! Maybe it is no surprise that we barely even acknowledge that God is around. We need to get real with God. God is real; that’s not at issue. It’s time that we got real before God; and when we do, we will find that everything changes.
Last week I described Jesus as the most authentic person who ever lived. I said that was, in part, because Jesus knew how to get real with Himself and therefore make us feel real too. Jesus was the most authentic person who ever lived. But it is not only that He knew how to get real with Himself. It is also that Jesus knew how to get real with God. Jesus not only believed in His mind that God was real; Jesus actually treated God as a living reality. Jesus played no games, but brought His full self before God. You and I can learn from Jesus how to get real with God.
First, notice that Jesus got real with God by admitting His true feelings, even though they were not pretty. Jesus got real with God by acknowledging exactly how He felt, without varnishing anything over. Jesus trusted God with what He felt. He said, boldly, “I am deeply grieved, even to death.”
Now that’s real. “I am deeply grieved.” That’s a genuine feeling. Jesus didn’t have to say that. He could have done what many of us do. We put on a front, we come to church dressed in our Sunday best, but with all kinds of pain inside, and we make up our minds that come what may, we are not going to open up to anybody, any time, and least of all to God. We hide our true feelings.
A friend of mine told me about how she hid your feelings. She was living with an abusive, alcoholic husband. Not only did he hurt her physically, but more profoundly, he injured her emotionally. She told me how she had grown a garden of beautiful flowers in front of their house, so spectacular that when people passed by they stopped and marveled at all that color. She wanted some joy in her life. But, she said, when people admired her flowers it just drove her deeper and deeper into despair, because inside that house and inside that heart, there was no color, no beauty, no joy. There was only pain and anger. She would come to church and just bow her head and say no prayers, for she couldn’t tell anybody, not even God, what she felt. She said, “In those days, I was absolutely unreal.” Did you hear that word, “unreal”? She had not learned how to get real with God.