Summary: God’s love is complete when it is reproduced in us. God’s love generates our love. When we love, we show that we are living in the Light.
Sermon Series on First John, “Collecting Evidence of Faith”...“God is Love” I John 4:7-21
-Pastor Bob Leroe, Cliftondale Congregational Church, Saugus, Massachusetts
C.S. Lewis suggested that God’s love for us is a much safer subject to consider than our love for others. On this Sunday following the anniversary of the 9/11 attack on America few would argue that we live in a world largely devoid of love. Why is love so blaringly absent from our world? Because if people don’t know God, they can’t know love. When people kill in the name of God it shows they don’t know God. People can be martyrs without love; a terrorist suicide bomber is hardly a messenger of love. Pope Benedict criticized Islam for being violent a few days ago, and the Moslem world responded with violence.
John declares that people born of God are able to love, because love comes from God. It doesn’t come naturally for us. We confuse attraction and emotion with love. Our deluded world thinks love is something that makes people feel good, a “many-splendid thing.” The world is filled with people who are self-centered rather than love-centered. True love is unconditional acceptance and sacrificial commitment. While we can define love, it’s not something that can be learned. We’re only able to love through the work of Holy Spirit, Who lives in us. People you know may not read the Bible, but they are checking out “The Gospel According to You.”
“God is love”(vss 7 & 16). Everything God does is an expression of love. What God does may not be for our immediate good but our ultimate good. We’re part of a love story written by the Author and Finisher of our faith. God loves the unlovable and the undeserving, and pursues them till they stop running--then blesses them! His love compels us to love others. Love is God’s nature, and our new nature. We become what God is, and God is love! This does not mean that “love is God”, which is being in love with love, making love an idol. Love is not something we figure we ought to do but something we want to do. We fall into infatuation; we feel aroused; we choose love.
A man went to see his Pastor about some trouble he was having with contentious next-door neighbors. He explained that he tried being nice to them, but nothing seemed to work: “I know the Bible says to love our neighbors, but I doubt if anyone could love my neighbors!” The Pastor suggested that maybe his motive for being nice wasn’t exactly selfless. His kindness was calculated to make his neighbors more tolerable. “Simply love, with no agenda,” the Pastor counseled. If we love our neighbors, we desire their good. A month later the man reported back to his minister that his neighbors hadn’t changed a whole lot, but his attitude toward them had changed, and their behavior was no longer producing consternation in him…because he was focusing on loving the unlovable. We’re not responsible for how people treat us; we’re responsible for how we respond. Their bad behavior should not produce bad behavior in us.