Summary: Hasty Decisions lead to regret
Unit 9 – Family
Preparation for the Teacher
1. Aim: To lead the people to understand how to avoid making impulsive decisions that they will later regret.
2. Explanation of the Aim: Hasty decisions often lead to regrets. In our lesson today we try to teach the people how to avoid making an impulsive decision, as Esau did, in trading away his birthright, for some bread and bowl of pea soup. Jacob gained the birthright that included the inheritance rights of the firstborn, Esau, by making him swear an oath. Solomon once wrote, “The wise man sees the danger ahead and avoids it, but the naïve go ahead and fall into the pit.” (Prov. 22:3,4) Wise people make preparations for various situations so they are not tempted to make impulsive decisions that they always regret with tears.
3. The Bible Story: When a person is led by their fleshly impulses they tend to give in to temptations of their own sinful nature. Such was the case with Esau who disregarded the riches he possessed with his birthright because he chose to surrender to his appetite. The Lord gives everyone the ability to resist every temptation. (I Cor. 10:13) God graciously gives each person a way to escape big and small temptations if we will only choose His ways instead of our fleshly desires.
4. Prepare to Teach: The INTRODUCTION seeks to find out what are some of the temptations that are most alluring for people of their age group? Ask the people to discuss how some of the people might give in to various types of temptations to sin. Ask the people why so many people make bad choices when they are presented with temptations? The BIBLE STORY teaches the people about Esau who made a terrible choice to give away his birthright when he was tempted by the desires of his fleshly desire. The people will see how the a Spirit led Christian can use the power of the word of God to help them overcome temptations so they can make wise choices. The MEANING FOR OUR LIVES helps the people make wise choices in advance so they do not practice self-destructive choices by yielding to a whole range of evil temptations.
CLASS TIME (Begin with Prayer)
Ask the people to contrast a person like Esau who was characterized as having the works of the flesh versus someone like Paul the apostle who exhibited the fruits of the Spirit. Find out if the people know why some people seem to be led by anger, lust and evil desires? (Gal. 5:19-21) Ask the people why other people like the apostle Paul make choices that allow him to be full of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control? (Gal. 5:22,23)
The Bible Story
The Lord is able to deliver us from any temptation as long as we are willing to ask Him for strength, wisdom and sufficient grace in our time of need. In contrast, when Esau was faced with hunger pains he willingly surrendered the most valuable thing he owned, his birthright for bread and bowl of pea soup. First, it is important to notice how little Esau thought of the value of his birthright. People who do not take an inventory of all the good things God has given them quickly become distorted in their perspectives of what is valuable. For the rest of Esau’s life and into eternity, the senior son regretted his decision to yield to temptation. Do not make decisions that you will live to regret.