How Do You Clean A Heart Series
Contributed by W Pat Cunningham on Mar 15, 2017 (message contributor)
Summary: If the house, once cleaned of this demon, is not filled with goodness, the evil spirit will return with seven more vices and perversions and make our souls even worse, our souls and families even sicker.
Third Sunday of Lent 2017
Today we find Christ, speaking through the Church’s liturgical texts, teaching us about the birds and the bees. I say the birds because the Communion verse tells us that the sparrow has found a home and the turtle dove a nest to lay her young near the Lord’s altars. We should remind ourselves that the Temple in Jerusalem had very little in the way of roofs, so birds could fly in. Swallows daub their mud nests on the vertical walls of buildings, and there have their young, so there’s always birdsong in the sanctuary, a kind of prayer St. Francis of Assisi would appreciate. In fact, the composer of today’s communion verse put some little bird song right into the melody of the chant. Listen for the prayerful little ululation in the melody as you receive the Lord in the Eucharist.
And as far as the “bees” go, St. Paul is clear that we should be imitators of God, and should not be partakers of sinful behavior, especially fornication, uncleanness, covetousness or obscenity. All of these miscreant actions are perversions of the beautiful gift of our sexuality, which God has ordered to be used in only one way–in marriage between one faithful man and one faithful woman. So as we enter the third full week of Lent, the Lord wants us to consider how our behavior conforms to the Beatitude: blessed are the clean of heart, for they shall see God.
How do you clean a heart? Always the first step is to admit there is a problem, and the second is to appeal to a stronger power for help. Jesus gave us the sacrament of reconciliation as our sure means for both. Back in my youth, we were warned away from impure hearts, and particularly advised to shun pornography. But pornography is a bigger problem now than it has ever been, since it is no longer confined to hidden places in lockers and under mattresses. The Internet exports it from thousands of perversion sites into our very homes. Moreover, statistical analysis shows that many, perhaps most men, and a large number of women, spend time viewing it. Those who do have to realize that this practice is harmful to our personal emotional and spiritual life, our relationships with others, particularly spouses, and our families. It is not a solitary sin–by using it we are harming everyone from the models and actors right down to the youngest members of our families. Pornography is a black hole that sucks in everything that is good. There is no level or amount that is harmless. All of it must be given up. Confession, absolution, and the grace of God that comes from this repentance can effect a cleansing. God has the power to drive out the demon. St. Michael the Archangel and our Blessed Mother are powerful allies in the fight.
But as Jesus says, that’s not enough. If the house, once cleaned of this demon, is not filled with goodness, the evil spirit will return with seven more vices and perversions and make our souls even worse, our souls and families even sicker. Thus, to remain clean of heart, we must allow the Holy Spirit to amend our lifestyles.
There are many aids. Determine the source of the materials that are harming you and your relationships, and cut them off. Turn on the Internet filter. Turn off the subscriptions. You know the cable channels that promote filth. Stop them all. Change your driving habits so you don’t go by the stores. If another person is involved in your addictions, you should seek spiritual counsel to see if you need to cut off that relationship entirely.
I also recommend that children not have access to the Internet in places that are unsupervised by parents. If children have computers, I-pads or other connectible devices, they should only use them in your family area, where you can see and hear what they are interacting with.
Then fill your spiritual home with good reading, images of the saints, and prayerful devotions. Recite the divine office or Rosary as a family. Share areas of need so you can pray for each other during the day. Keep open the lines of communication between members of the family, and especially between yourselves and God.
Finally, I recommend you enlist the help of the angels and saints to fill your thoughts and feelings with goodness and grace. Impure desires cannot fill the mind of any man or woman who thinks frequently of our Blessed Mother. Make her a trusted counselor, and repeat in your mind her best advice: “Do whatever Jesus tells you” and “May God’s will be done.”
Our Lord Jesus Christ wants to be the strong man, fully armed, who can defend your home and your family and your own soul. No evil is stronger than He. He will stand at your side, with St. Michael and all the angels, so that you can win through to the ultimate victory He, in His divine mercy, has promised all of us. In nomine Patris. . .