Summary: Everyone has issues. God is the solution.
Several weeks we discovered that everybody has ISSUES! I’ve got ‘em! You’ve got ‘em! We’ve got ‘em!
As we started our series we first discovered that God cares for us … 1 Peter 5:7: “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about what happens to you” (NLT).
A couple of weeks ago we did a little talk about SEX … We discovered that God is pro-sex. He created sex, and He wants people to enjoy it (Genesis 2:23-25), but only in the context of marriage. We also learned that sex has a purpose and it has consequences.
Tonight, I want to speak about a VERY HEAVY topic … SILENT AGONY: The secrecy of self abuse.
Self-Abuse –is defined as any intentional injury to one’s own body or an unhealthy habit that hurts
The most common ways that people self-abuse are:
•Poisoning or overdosing
•Carving words or symbols on the skin
•Hitting or punching
•Piercing the skin with sharp objects
•Pulling out hair
•Interfering with wound healing
•Eating disorders (like anorexia, bulimia, overeating & binge eating)
Why are we talking about this at MSO? I don’t know anyone dealing with those issues.
Listen to the statistics.
Broad estimates are that about one percent of the total U.S. population, or between 2 and 3 million people, exhibit some type of self-abusive behavior.
In a study of undergraduate students in the United States, 9.8% of the students surveyed indicated that they had purposefully cut or burned themselves on at least one occasion in the past. When the definition of self-injury was expanded to include head-banging, scratching oneself, and hitting oneself along with cutting and burning, 32% of the sample said they had done this.
According to US estimates from The National Institute of Mental Health, between 5 per cent and 10 per cent of girls and women (i.e. 5-10 million people) and 1 million boys and men suffer from eating disorders, including anorexia, bulimia, binge eating disorder, or over eating.
Who self-injures? At least 1 out of every 10 students.
Who eat-injures? About 1 out of every 15 students.
Realistically we are or at least know someone who hurts themselves, even in this setting.
Let’s look at some reasons why people hurt themselves:
1. The emotional pain is too HUGE
Life is filled with a lot of baggage … there are things that many people have gone through that rip their lives to shreds, so they hurt themselves to eleviate the internal pain.
With cutting … it might be stress or anger that causes them to self-injure!
With eating disorders … it might be the words that someone has said over a person … you’re fat … you’re ugly.
The emotional pain becomes so big … too big.
2. The pain can’t be put into words
Sometimes life just bites … and it bites hard. There is no way around life so people injure themselves … because they can’t verbalize the pain.
You can keep the pain inside for a little while, but eventually it will come out!
If you are HOLDING ON TO A HURT … let it go before the pain becomes larger than you can handle.